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Advice about advantages and disadvantages of Turkish b/f
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 01:24 pm |
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Quoting teaschip: As I read these posts, I don't think for some of you dating is an option. Due to your boyfriends living abroad. Long distant relationships can be very difficult as I have experienced. We all have that fairy tale we dream about, meeting that special someone. Sometimes there's a happy ending and sometimes there's not. Just some personal thoughts of mine from experience to think about. I use to think that my heart doesn't deceive you, but in fact your heart does. I think that's where the problem lyes, that women think to much with their heart and not enough with their brain. I'm not saying you shouldn't feel or be emotionless, but most of us women know when something doesn't sit right and there are red flags. But then our heart tells us different and we ignore these signs. First be smart about it, use your head, then follow your heart. If it's meant to be in your plan, it will happen. Believe me, I am too a hopeless romantic I will admit. But using my brain has led me to more successful relationships in my life. You just never know what God has planned for you. I wish and pray your fairy tales come true. I always love a happy ending.  |
Well said Teaschip!! 
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 01:44 pm |
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Quoting ramayan: the biggest advantage is that''u wont have to pay for food when u go a restaurant and wont have to pay for a film in other words u wont pay when u go out bcos they ll always be ready to pay for everything  (no matter they have money or not ,they find it smehow)
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Yeah! Exactly the same with greek men
Once upon a time, I went through a feministic crisis and I wouldn't allow a man to pay for me. I was always paying for my share, if not the whole bill.
Now, due to my bad financial situation, I m reconsidering my old values and starting to think that men asking to pay is not a bad thing at all!  (unfortunately, I m only thinking of it. Still I try to pay. Stupid pride!  )
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 01:49 pm |
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I would feel very uncomfortable allowing someone to always pay for me. It doesn't seem fair, and also makes you feel "obligated" to that person. Plus...I would feel I had to order the cheapest thing on the menu and the cheapest wine - when, in fact, I have very expensive tastes hehe 
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 01:56 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: I would feel very uncomfortable allowing someone to always pay for me. It doesn't seem fair. |
+1 Especially when this someone is not that wealthy.
But mostly it's a matter of pride for me. I m kidding with it and say that i should feel comfortable with this thing, as most of women do here, but still i havent managed to do so and i dont think i ever will... (which is really really bad for my pocket! )
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 01:59 pm |
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Quoting sophie: Quoting aenigma x: I would feel very uncomfortable allowing someone to always pay for me. It doesn't seem fair. |
+1 Especially when this someone is not that wealthy.
But mostly it's a matter of pride for me. I m kidding with it and say that i should feel comfortable with this thing, as most of women do here, but still i havent managed to do so and i dont think i ever will... (which is really really bad for my pocket! ) |
Yes....and it's for selfish reasons too! It means I can order the best bottle of Rioja on the menu and drink it with a clear conscience
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 04:55 am |
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We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. Everyone worries to much about little things and are forgetting the most important things. As I said about my story before, that was just a little of someting that effected me. The worse thing is that I put someone who I really cared about, in danger of their own life and I will never forgive myself for that. So please don't worry about what to wear on dates, and who should pay when they should be the least of your worries.
PLEASE JUST TAKE CARE OR YOURSELF!!!
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 12:55 pm |
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Quoting kai: We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. |
Is that what you got from what we wrote? Sometimes you know, when things get tough and blue, it's not bad to lighten up the atmosphere a bit. Or at least try 
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 01:48 pm |
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Quoting sophie: Quoting kai: We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. |
Is that what you got from what we wrote? Sometimes you know, when things get tough and blue, it's not bad to lighten up the atmosphere a bit. Or at least try |
+1.
Not important?! I can assure you that who pays for my glass of red wine is VERY important for me 
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 02:46 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting sophie: Quoting kai: We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. |
Is that what you got from what we wrote? Sometimes you know, when things get tough and blue, it's not bad to lighten up the atmosphere a bit. Or at least try |
+1.
Not important?! I can assure you that who pays for my glass of red wine is VERY important for me |
I am ready and eager to pay for your glass of red wine for your lifetime. Will you marry me?
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 04:17 pm |
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Quoting cyrano: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting sophie: Quoting kai: We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. |
Is that what you got from what we wrote? Sometimes you know, when things get tough and blue, it's not bad to lighten up the atmosphere a bit. Or at least try |
+1.
Not important?! I can assure you that who pays for my glass of red wine is VERY important for me |
I am ready and eager to pay for your glass of red wine for your lifetime. Will you marry me? |
Ahhh Cyrano ! No no you would need to be a millionaire to pay for all my glasses 
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28 Sep 2006 Thu 06:32 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting cyrano: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting sophie: Quoting kai: We seem to have gone from relationships abroad to offering to pay whilst on a date. |
Is that what you got from what we wrote? Sometimes you know, when things get tough and blue, it's not bad to lighten up the atmosphere a bit. Or at least try |
+1.
Not important?! I can assure you that who pays for my glass of red wine is VERY important for me |
I am ready and eager to pay for your glass of red wine for your lifetime. Will you marry me? |
Ahhh Cyrano ! No no you would need to be a millionaire to pay for all my glasses |
True! But who said I am penniless? Do you want me to show you some of my bank accounts in Switzerland? Still I would tend to change my profession and start producing for you my own wine in Bordeaux. This way would be more romantic as well as cheaper.
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