I wish you all the best of luck, been there and am still there three years down the line, it gets harder and harder to come home having spent time with my b/f which is a couple of times a year. I tend to trust to easy and wear my heart on my sleeve as i am sure lots of us do, i have been hurt before but now I try and put on my sensible head every now and then. I have done the family thing and have notcied that both b/f and family can be very demanding of your time (thats my only critisism) for now!

It important to listen to your heart but always tread cafefully... Just keep telling yourselves if it is meant to be then it will be ... and always remember don't cry because it's over smile because it happened. life if full of ups and downs it just depends on how well we handle it.

once again good luck to you all

...not drunk enough to handle me your bank accounts - nor your whips!

i should add few more things like;

*if u go out with friends without him,he would disturb u thousands of times by calling u and when u see him next time u would like to say''god damn the day i met you''

*he will try to change ur mind while shopping''honey this mini skirt shows u so cheap,u are a big girl and u should wear sth serious like wide jeans (if u were not his gf he would make u to buy it and watch u while u are walking)

*he ll be in your everyminute and u ll get bored sometimes,but when u think a life without him it ll look like impossible and such an empty life(bcos this salak man fills ur every free minute by calling,or meeting with u)

*more than that if u cant pay for ur credit card pay he would offer u to pay it for u and if you dont have a cell phone he will buy u one with sim card in it(that u can only call him for free)

Hello lady's looking through the posts is seems it all women with turkish boyfriends..... I can't be the only english guy who has fallen for a turkish female??

Well what can i say we met pool side at a hotel, she spoke very good english and dresses well. We done the full dating thing, talking romantic sun kissed walking, kissing, etc.
She told me of her problems in life and how she needed a change ect.
While on my hols she was in a relationship with a guy in the navy over there and she was pregnant with his child but he did not want the child and she did.
She told me that she does not love this man and she wants me and does not want me to leave after my holiday ends.
I also have reason to believe that he is handy with the fists too.

One month on back in england she text me saying she has left the boyfriend and not pregnant anymore now living in Didim now with her sister, and looking for a job for her self, starting new life.

I think of her every second of the day and my entire mind is bent on getting back to Turkey to find out if she is be in true to me in regards.

I have spoken to several muslim women in england (one turkish) about the situation i am in and what i can do about it. Some say i should forget about it and move on some say i should go over and keep on the side lines and some say just get in there and enjoy is.

I do coin in my pocket through my house burnig down and some property investments and she did want to get out and go to college and better her self..

Mabeys i have whats called knight in shining armour complex, were i see a person in need i try to help etc.

but every day i worry about her and whats happening over there.

If i do go over there will she trick me in to marriage to get my money or get to england or is she truely wanting me for me..I heard from some muslims that they are taught from a early age to do exactly this and take yout cash and get out of turkey.
The problem is if i forget it will i spend the rest of my life wondering what if......??????

thanks
Sir Richard Newcastle

Sir???? !
You should check out the posts by Loveprague - he has a Turkish girlfriend