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A sentence in another thread,made me explode made me think,Oh God when will it end,when will we,women have our own rights and freedom they way it should be!
Men try always to control women,and women for centuries have been fighting for their freedom TİLL NOWWW.
Men see women as a doll,just a doll they can control it.
İn the past,they covered her,and not allow women even to go out alone,then not allow them to go out without wearing millions and millions of things to cover them up,then women gained their freedom and took off covers and become in charge.
Or that what they thought ! Grrrrr
Now men controlling women by NOT allowing them to wear what they want AGAİN
But the other way arround !
And some women blindly following them
God,its our own freedom,the menimum thing is just to have control on yourself,the way you think,the way you look!
And here im talking about Hijab .
İ'll tell you a little story,
Here is allowed for women to wear what ever they want,Hijab or stomachless,tight or not tight,whatever,no body cares.
But of course not walking naked,cause people wont accept that far!
And to make you understand better,here girls when they wear Hijab,they dont wear a wide dress and headscarf like Arab countries
Girls wear everything,even tight clothes,short scarves,as long as they are covering their bodies,then its ok
Not all of course but majority.
Anyway,im wearing Hijab,modern style too,and i wanted to change my job to a better one.
So i started to look at the news papers for a good job in the private business.
So,i found those 2 words in the job requirements ''NOT VEİLED'
İ got mad,but then i made my choice and no one would force me the other way,even a good job and good position!
Then i called some company,a big one for an admin position,those 2 words were not included in their addy.
But i told the HR manager btw,im veiled,i wear Hijab.
He said ''ok,i dont mind,i have nothing against it.
But how do you wear it ?
Women is a beautiful creature,and its waste to cover her beauty,but sometimes covering up in some way would make her even look more beautiful!''
İ practically insulted him and hanged up !
When will men STOP looking at woman as a doll?!!
When will they stop trying to indicate things on us,what to wear what to do,or what NOT to wear ?!
When will they understand deep down inside them we have our own minds which are very perfect and some times better than their minds and we can make our own choices ?!
Btw,the sentence was 'Off course she was reported and dismissed from the job'
No need to say that was because she was veiled !
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