Quoting portokal: I had the pleasure to meet a couple where the husband was turkish and the wife romanian. There is an age difference between them.
While their guest i was treated royally.
The husband took good care of me, covered me with attention, made everything to make me feel comfortable.
He did many things in the house also, but out of pleasure.
He took good care of her.
(if anyone missinterprets here, i will kick  )
It was the first time in my life i saw turkish hospitality mixing with love towards his wife, respect to customs and to wife. Sometimes she even did not understood. For example, he offered to hold my bag while taking pictures. She got pissed of... instead of feeling how cherished and respected she is, if her friends are so taken care of. He did not mind. Everything she did was in his line of respect. I was speechless.
That was when i said myself i want such a husband from life.
So the myth of no women rights is false.
Turkish culture has its ways in respecting woman.
I remember Bazri - the husband's name- telling a turkish idiom, about the most beautiful things in life. Sound of money (euhm), sound of water and the laughter of the woman.
Is this a woman-hater culture?
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yes, its true, you can have one too