Quoting turquoise: this really sad, im not happy to tell you that but most turkish guys are like that,when it comes to a foreign girl most of them will think only about money or meat cuz,those kind of people already see the girls as a meat. so they like to play with foreign girls cuz its easier to have sex with them, i hear u ask why, cuz they grow up with no having sex and turkish girls prefer saving their virginity because our culture (even though there are many girls that not virgin they wont be in a relationship or sleep with those guys)and the guys im talking about never will get married with a girl not virgin,but when it comes to them they like to play with girls,yeah this sad and big ignorance..its so easy to say 'i love you' and easy to think you are in love with anyone but you all know it takes time...
i saw many foreign girls hurt by those stupids and complaining about them but i wanna ask that how come u can be fool that much and believe and trust a guy that you dont know well and you cant even talk to him with no translation. if you can that means to me you want an adventure.if you dont want an adventure please be careful and make sure about the guys and make sure you are safe,dont be fool and make sure your not doing any mistake,at least see if he still loves you after you go back to your country.
it came to pam in this post but shes not the only one having these problems.she has right to ask for help with translations and maybe she has nothing else to do and theres nothing shameful. people do mistakes thats life is a big experience.yeah she shouldve been careful but thats not what we should talk about actually. i have never talked about these things here once i did and i think i did a mistake.we should not judge people here if u dont want to help dont do anything else as well.
so pam, im sorry your having hard time and if u need help feel free to ask...
btw sorry for my bad english, i hope i could tell what i meant... |