why? what should I know about you? what do others know about you that I do not know?

yes, I think it is something like that.

Neden bu duruma geldiğimizi anlayamıyorum. Bu benim kocam değil. Hiç böyle değildi. Harikaydı. Kötü değildi. Korkunç şeyler söylemezdi. İyi bir kocaydı ve ben de iyi bir eştim.

Ona iyi bakabilmek için her zaman elimden geleni yaptım.İhtiyacı olan herşeyi. İstediği herşeyi. Gönlünden ne geçtiyse yaptım. Ama şimdi hiçbir şeyi doğru yapamıyorum. Her gün daha da kötüye gidiyor.

Kalbim kırgın. Benim Fuat´ım nereye gitti? Kocamı özlüyorum.

yep, maybe gokuyum. 

People should retire one day when they ask this question to themselves.

"asshole" is a very bad word 

Now, whatever you will say about yourself will be falsified because of this.

I do accept that they are accusative. That is why I call them exceptions

"istisnalar kaideyi bozmaz."

There is already a question mark. so, it is necessarily a question

Anyway, I think by talking about yourself, you already showed that you do not have any bad intentions. Sometimes people complain just to complain. 

Do not take these attacks very personally also because that is nothing compared to what I have seen on this site in the past. This is usual here that people quarrel with each other for usually nothing. This is a cyber place, thus, it is very easy to judge people. All of us do it from time to time.

You also corrected my english when I answered your questions regarding turkish language. first I was a bit disturbed but then seeing your other posts, I understood that this is your way. I saw that you were very concentrated on languages and mistakes concerning language. You like teaching and learning mutually.

As we are on a language site, I found it normal and I do not expect a "thank you" after every time I answer a question. Because it was not asked from me personally and if I take the time to give a reply, it is my choice and that is why I am on this site. 

If we look for faults in people, it is easy. But we have to see the intentions. a black dot should not color all the white we have.

I just think that he explained the reason that may be behind his attitude and for this his "wrong" attitudes if any deserve to be more tolerated.

there are some conditions that can pass as an excuse for doing or not doing something.

Knowing that doing something is wrong does not necessarily prevent you doing something: like people who suffer from kleptomania. they know that stealing is bad but it does not prevent them from stealing.