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Well, I dont know the exact details of pam's case. But it looks like, you can blame both of them.
pam should have known how to keep ( and of course when to keep) her legs closed. It is no excuse you enjoy it at the time and run around like headless chicken later on.
The young father to be can be blamed for not being sensitive enough with the baby.
I know it is not that simple as above. But in a nut shell, it is to be honest.
Foreign girls are just looking at olive skins and dark eyes I guess. And for the most of Turkish boys, they will have a pass on girls under any circumstances anyway.
I think, specially foreign girls, should realize that Turkish culture is a bit different then theirs. Turkish men will do anything to make girls feel like they are the only living girls on earth and they will do anything to make you feel like you are the princess, you are the one.
But do not forget, 90% of those men/boys still think that there are two types of women/girls on earth: the ones they can marry, and the ones they can have fun.
It is up to the girl in away, to make that man/boy believe she can be in both categories.
Coming back to the case, Of course I feel sorry for Pam.
Done is done..
It is the situation right now.
The reality should be accepted. No matter if it hurts.
If she is young(i guess she is), she should somehow close this chapter and walk away(as a single person, not two! )
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