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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:17 pm |
İ dont know about the raping thing...
But i know,if they find out about relationship between girl and a man,then they force him to marry her.
But rapping ?!!!!!!!!!
yeah... this sounded for me also the most scary thing for a women that´s why i want to know is it true or not.
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:17 pm |
oh yes... i am aware that if both girl and boy were caught or were found out having sexual relations together, they are forced to get married.
i also heard of another "rumor" not sure if it´s true. that if the girl was pregnant outside of marriage, and the parents of the guy don´t like the girl, the girl is forced to have an abortion.
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:28 pm |
from this point they should force to marry all those foreigner girls with whom guys had relations - to be fair.
i hope they will force my BF 
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:32 pm |
from this point they should force to marry all those foreigner girls with whom guys had relations - to be fair.
i hope they will force my BF 
Am I understanding correctly you think marriages should be forced, including yours?
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:34 pm |
Am I understanding correctly you think marriages should be forced, including yours?
i think she only said that, because she wants to be married with her bf. maybe she thinks that if his parents found out they are really "involved" with each other, his parents will have no choice, but to let them get married.
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:36 pm |
Am I understanding correctly you think marriages should be forced, including yours?
nope i am for love - not for having forced marriage. just having fun as i found this as mistake in the situation what we were talking about - family dont let son to marry girl who he loves, but in the same time if they were caught having sexual relations, they should marry each other...
that´s all 
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:37 pm |
İ think she said that because she was joking
Also refering that many Turkish guys are involved with foreigner girls
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:38 pm |
i think she only said that, because she wants to be married with her bf. maybe she thinks that if her parents found out they are really "involved" with each other, his parents will have no choice, but to let them get married together.
it was a joke i have really wonderful relations with all 4 my parents (real ones and turkish)and we are planing weddings no matter what 
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:40 pm |
don´t worry.... we understand it´s a joke. 
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 03:40 pm |
İ think she said that because she was joking
Also refering that many Turkish guys are involved with foreigner girls
Yes!!!so many turkish guys have relations with foreigner girls - if they have sex - they should marry them!   
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19 Aug 2008 Tue 04:02 pm |
If you have sex, you should marry? Isn´t that a bit an oldfashioned idea? OMG, suddenly I realise that then I won´t have sex anymore the rest of my life because I absolutely do NOT want to marry!
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