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Selamlar sana olsun Atam
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:44 pm |
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Quoting kat007: Quoting Elisabeth:
Thank you so much for this post. I was talking to my husband about this last night as I had asked earlier in this thread if hijab was in the Quran or if it was a cultural thing. He told me that the veils were a cultural thing but that the Quran demands modesty. Whatever the case may be, I don't think there is anyway to NOT talk about religion on a Turkish Language website. I think these debates are SO important in todays world. Religion is one of the most important parts of culture and language is part of culture...how do we separate these? It is difficult. It is like talking about the weather but nobody can mention anything about the sky....it is a strange rule...but that is the culture of TLC so I will shut up now. |
Elisabeth, I wish my bf thinks like your husband on this issue. I think I can give up eating pork for this.  |
I didn't give up pork!! But I promised I would never bring it into our home so that he would know whatever he eats in our home is safe for him. As for me...pass the BACON, CHEESE AND WINE!!
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:45 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting kat007: Elisabeth, I wish my bf thinks like your husband on this issue. I think I can give up eating pork for this. |
If you have such cultural differences while still bf and gf, you should consider very carefully if you want to continue with the relationship.
Things get MUCH MUCH worse after you are married  |
İts forbiddn in İslam of course
But i guess they can talk about all those differences and she see where she stands,and if its applicable to her or not.
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:46 pm |
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Quote: Quoting CANLI: Things get MUCH MUCH worse after you are married |
İts forbiddn in İslam of course
But i guess they can talk about all those differences and she see where she stands,and if its applicable to her or not.
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What is forbidden? 
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:49 pm |
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lol,pork ?!
lol ,i guess you are getting hungry and you didnt eat
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:50 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: Quoting kat007:
Elisabeth, I wish my bf thinks like your husband on this issue. I think I can give up eating pork for this. |
But you are not Muslim ! |
I know I'm not. You don't have to tell me.
He says "Not yet." Just thinking about it is enough to give me rashes. (From stress...not the religion itself, I actually like some/most of it.)
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:53 pm |
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why asking to the non muslim answers about islam and muslim woman??? WHy asking to the cahil muslim the truth aout islam.
Go and find your information at the mosque. This information can be trusted... But please don't listen the so-called sheick here and what they say about the headscarf that this is not an obligation.
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=1612037
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=1390981257
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=766424377
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=ddfb385ea76b26521ea4
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:53 pm |
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Quoting kat007: Quoting CANLI: Quoting kat007:
Elisabeth, I wish my bf thinks like your husband on this issue. I think I can give up eating pork for this. |
But you are not Muslim ! |
I know I'm not. You don't have to tell me.
He says "Not yet." Just thinking about it is enough to give me rashes. (From stress...not the religion itself, I actually like some/most of it.) |
Not yet !
Religions is faith, a believes,not forced !
İ guess,you really should talk about everything as EAnigma said,its not easy to have difference,and its not easy to get married in the first place,even if you are at same country,same culture same religion .. lol
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:54 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: lol,pork ?!
lol ,i guess you are getting hungry and you didnt eat |
Hehehe but she was talking about her boyfriend getting jealous about her wearing tight and revealing clothes  Not about pork! She just said she "would stop eating pork" if her boyfriend was more liberal about this
Ama...I wouldn't get hungry talking about pork! I am vegetarian...
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 06:58 pm |
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Quoting kat007: Elisabeth, I wish my bf thinks like your husband on this issue. I think I can give up eating pork for this. |
AEnigma,i dont see any tight clothes here ..lol
Ok ,so what will you have for lunch ?
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:01 pm |
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Quoting Aysenur: why asking to the non muslim answers about islam and muslim woman??? WHy asking to the cahil muslim the truth aout islam.
Go and find your information at the mosque. This information can be trusted... But please don't listen the so-called sheick here and what they say about the headscarf that this is not an obligation.
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=1612037
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=1390981257
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=766424377
http://www.islamictube.net/view_video.php?viewkey=ddfb385ea76b26521ea4 |
I'm not listening to anyone about Islam or religion on message boards or trusting such sources. Of course I'm researching it on my own. Anyways, I'm up to my eyeballs in bookmarked Islamic websites and I have 2 Qurans (will get more books later about Islam). So no worries about the studying...
Not hungry. I just had pizza.  I hope they have pizza there . Actually, sushi would be better. As I think pepperoni has pork in it. (Oops...)
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24 Aug 2007 Fri 07:08 pm |
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Quoting kat007:
Not hungry. I just had pizza. I hope they have pizza there . Actually, sushi would be better. As I think pepperoni has pork in it. (Oops...) |
Heyy,they have Pizza there,lol
And you can ordered yours with pork if they serve it.
But you know,i understand what he feels about not bringing pork at home.
İf you dont feel safe about food while eating at your home,where would you feel it ?
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