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31 Jan 2008 Thu 03:47 am |
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Quoting portokal: Quoting portokal:
AlphaF, I disagree with the way you lead (by questions) your discussions with Deli Kizin because I think it is sometimes harder to learn this way, because this method is dual, either cristalize, or confuses even more, not according attention to the undesired mistakes in thinking and aiming to find eventual hidden tendencies as being hided, but true.
This is the method I would use for a candidate at an interview, a selection, for example. Aiming to find out what a person actually desires, but not aiming at the fact that a person maybe desires/needs a healthier way of thinking. The latter can be practiced along with illogical realms such as jokes. |
sorry for the unproper formulation. i am rather uneducated, which after a certain age transforms into lack of manners.
what i was disagreeing with is the fact i know form experiments... that thoughts influence the outcome of discussions.
To Alpha and all other members whom we had this discussion in this thread:
i understand the name of portokalfa is the name given to a mime and not a symbol of something more in which you gave the courtezy to my name to come first.
i also understand a hidden criticism towards my expressing. it is not something i do good (i feel like, and that is because(1.i have my limits,2. i do not want to,3 i am doing it in this thread), not something i should even done. it is not what suits me, nor what i am required to do. i can well refrain from coffee houses. and some other things. i do not need them. it would be a lie to tell you, AlfaF, that this s because of you. no. it is the way i am. sharing your teachings with my inner desires. and this is the best a woman can give. it is called, in a way i think, love.
i can refrain.
even from marrying you i can refrain.
i would not be the fourth wife, isn't it?
i will not refrain from doing what is good and suitable, thus and not only thus pleasant to me.
and i shall let you resolve this short circuit of pain.
because i was wrong in the lack of understanding. it was what i did. not like i mistake.
PS i did not mis-spelled AlphaF, i am sure without looking.
And you, AlphaF, there is a point where i question if you deserve me. not taking in calculation my mistakes.
all this bitterness and doubt you have and what you needed to get over, too. and you did. you now feel it also.
after that point i do not doubt anything.
not even the responsabilities i have or the way i should act.
which would be - if i was to listen to your channel obturations(and tremendous fear of being left), to leave. if it was to my heart only, to listen to your approaches from now on.
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I am confused (not a difficulty for me  )
Did you mean to post your last comment on this thread or was it meant to be a pm? Or perhaps you are teasing? .
I think I need my sleep 
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 07:01 am |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting portokal: portokalfa sounds perfect, i accept this name only as a deeper symbol and after discussing this with Alfa.  |
Do you, Portokalfie, accept to be Alphas 4th cyberwife, through good and bad times, in sickness and health, what is your answer to this? (please dont tell me you have to discuss this perfectly too with your Alfa before being able to answer).  |
Good thing Alphie is a muslim. Able to take care of multiple wives...
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is he just another dudu?????
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 07:24 am |
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Quoting KeithL: Good thing Alphie is a muslim. Able to take care of multiple wives...
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is he just another dudu????? |
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 07:47 am |
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Quoting thehandsom: I have no issues with idea that uncommon words and forced elegant language being in use for difficult ideas. But when the idea is sooo common that you could find almost the same in turkish coffee houses for retired men (emekliler kiraathanesi is the turkish name for it), you immediatly think that 'OMG what the heck is this.Sooo fake. Sorry but nothing hides away the cheapness of it.
I would rather prefer to listen that idea from the common man with his own words.
Sorry really..
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That is basically because you are very common yourself...only natural !
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 07:52 am |
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Quoting KeithL: Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting portokal: portokalfa sounds perfect, i accept this name only as a deeper symbol and after discussing this with Alfa. |
Do you, Portokalfie, accept to be Alphas 4th cyberwife, through good and bad times, in sickness and health, what is your answer to this? (please dont tell me you have to discuss this perfectly too with your Alfa before being able to answer). |
Good thing Alphie is a muslim. Able to take care of multiple wives...
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is he just another dudu????? |
Keith, dont make a jack ass of yourself !
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 09:31 am |
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when first this Turban issue came up i said: "the women should be free to choose" TAMAM ... but when they allowed them i saw how KARACARSAF started to appear ...
Regarding what Deli K. said - in Kuran Kerim it is said only like this ( its like a reproduction) cover yourself, dont let yourself be to men's fantasies ...
What we understand? Be decent woman, dont walk with your "things" opened because like this you cant be respected!
1. Turban is ARABIC CULTURE!
2. Turkey is secular republic, its not ruled by the "islamic law"
3. Soon the percentage of closed-women will be higher than the opened-women. We will go on the street and we will be seen as Non-muslims ...
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 10:47 am |
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Quoting AlphaF: Quoting thehandsom: I have no issues with idea that uncommon words and forced elegant language being in use for difficult ideas. But when the idea is sooo common that you could find almost the same in turkish coffee houses for retired men (emekliler kiraathanesi is the turkish name for it), you immediatly think that 'OMG what the heck is this.Sooo fake. Sorry but nothing hides away the cheapness of it.
I would rather prefer to listen that idea from the common man with his own words.
Sorry really..
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That is basically because you are very common yourself...only natural ! |
Oh dear,
I thought I was posting to first part of portakalpha (alpha as alfa in turkish). But the second part is replying..(hmmmm. first part decided to go to sleep from msn or something like that?)
anyway.
Saying to a person 'you are common' brings the class issues into discussion which I have no intention to enter. I am not going to give a toss about the idea that some people might be thinking 'they are from the left ball of the sultan' so they should feel proud. That idea is tastless,tatty, cheap so as the people who think they are!!
My critisism was nothing to do with the personality or the class of the person.
I was merely referring to 'unhealtiness or cheapness of expressing kiraathane ideas with forced sophisticated language'.
I would recommend some psychotherapy sessions.
ps..maybe I am wrong! REs spend their entire professions by reading those boring specifications..May be it is simply the side effect.
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 11:01 am |
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You talk too much...and meaningless..
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 11:43 am |
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oops..
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 12:22 pm |
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Quoting thehandsom: oops..
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31 Jan 2008 Thu 12:49 pm |
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Does anyone else get the feeling that there is quite alot of testosterone being thrown around in this thread?
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