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Turkish Marriage
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 07:54 pm |
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Quoting azizehannah: still 14.  |
You are joking,right?
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 08:03 pm |
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Quoting sonunda: Quoting azizehannah: still 14. |
You are joking,right? |
no she's not... lol... she's in highschool i think... and studying in some sort of turkish community or something? not sure.... maybe a turkish school here in the philippines. again... not sure. but she's definitely 14. 
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 08:16 pm |
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haha. why should i kid?
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 08:45 pm |
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Quoting azizehannah: haha. why should i kid? |
It's ok-I got confused!! (it must be old age!) I thought it was you talking about getting married! Phew! 
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 08:53 pm |
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Quoting sonunda: Quoting azizehannah: haha. why should i kid? |
It's ok-I got confused!! (it must be old age!) I thought it was you talking about getting married! Phew! |
Yeah me too! But it is strange relaly, it must be the effect of a Turkish man  Often I feel I am ready to get married, though I am only 20, but when I get to think of it, I know it is something psychological: I'm sick and tired of the insecurity and the 'un-continuing' life we lead now and I can't wait to have my university finished. I know we won't get married untill we are both graduated and have made a fair amount of money and get our life on track a bit. Whats the point in getting married if you're still a student and live in two different countries? Besides, there's so much ahead of us, no need to rush! So my longing for marriage is just mostly my looking forward for all the restless and stressful times for us to be in the past!
But 14? Marriage? At that age I probably was disgusted by the thought of a French kiss
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 08:59 pm |
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When I was 14 marriage hadn't even been invented yet!
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 09:02 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: When I was 14 marriage hadn't even been invented yet! |
Yeah but that's no surprise, that is 13.999.986 years ago
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 09:03 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting Elisabeth: When I was 14 marriage hadn't even been invented yet! |
Yeah but that's no surprise, that is 13.999.986 years ago |
Exactly....I was still trying to figure out how to get rid of my tail! 
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 09:04 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: When I was 14 marriage hadn't even been invented yet! |
I have a friend in Turkey who maried when he was 22 and his wife was 14. It actually makes me feel a little queasy- a bit like child abuse. She got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16.The son is now 16 and she also now has a 2 year old.
My daughters at 23 and 25 have 10 year plans for their futures and as far as I know men don't even figure!
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 09:06 pm |
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Quoting sonunda: I have a friend in Turkey who maried when he was 22 and his wife was 14. It actually makes me feel a little queasy- a bit like child abuse. She got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16.The son is now 16 and she also now has a 2 year old. |
Yes to me it feels like that too. 14 is not the age for a child to be in a sexual relationship. The fact I said 'for a child to be' is already enough.. There are obviously exceptions, but in general I really think it is not-done.
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 09:07 pm |
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Quoting sonunda: Quoting Elisabeth: When I was 14 marriage hadn't even been invented yet! |
I have a friend in Turkey who maried when he was 22 and his wife was 14. It actually makes me feel a little queasy- a bit like child abuse. She got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16.The son is now 16 and she also now has a 2 year old. |
Funny how humans have not evolved much in 13.7 years. Marriage before 30 is just not very fun! 
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