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Turkish Marriage
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 12:46 pm |
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if turkish girls had those pills i am sure there would be no virgin girl in turkey Really they do sex and everything naughty except intercourse... if you give them those pills their biggest problem will be solved
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 12:49 pm |
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Quoting ciko: if turkish girls had those pills i am sure there would be no virgin girl in turkey Really they do sex and everything naughty except intercourse... if you give them those pills their biggest problem will be solved |
Yes I heard about that too. Virginity to me has nothing to do with intercourse, but apparantly they think differently about that 
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 12:55 pm |
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Quoting ciko: if turkish girls had those pills i am sure there would be no virgin girl in turkey Really they do sex and everything naughty except intercourse... if you give them those pills their biggest problem will be solved |
Yeh, as far as I know the pill that makes you bleed hasn't come to Turkey yet. OR, if it has, it isn't well known. I wonder if it's been conveniently hidden. Maybe the government's scared too many girls will become 'loose' and lose their religious beliefs. Wouldn't surprise me if that was happening.
At least the contraceptive pill's widely available. You can go to a pharmacy, ask for the pill without having to explain why you're not a virgin anymore. Breakthrough!!
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 12:56 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting ciko: if turkish girls had those pills i am sure there would be no virgin girl in turkey Really they do sex and everything naughty except intercourse... if you give them those pills their biggest problem will be solved |
Yes I heard about that too. Virginity to me has nothing to do with intercourse, but apparantly they think differently about that |
To be honest who think differently about that is turkish men .it is a patriarchal society and culture and who defines such values is just men..the role given to women is just to obey rules made by men like keeping virginity. sad but true.
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 12:59 pm |
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Quoting ciko: Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting ciko: if turkish girls had those pills i am sure there would be no virgin girl in turkey Really they do sex and everything naughty except intercourse... if you give them those pills their biggest problem will be solved |
Yes I heard about that too. Virginity to me has nothing to do with intercourse, but apparantly they think differently about that |
To be honest who think differently about that is turkish men .it is a patriarchal society and culture and who defines such values is just men..the role given to women is just to obey rules made by men like keeping virginity. sad but true. |
Trying to control someone else's body... it's disgusting
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 01:05 pm |
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Quoting hobnob: At least the contraceptive pill's widely available. You can go to a pharmacy, ask for the pill without having to explain why you're not a virgin anymore. Breakthrough!! |
Its available but I remember they looked at me really bad when I came to buy it! Maybe it is because I am a foreigner that they felt like I was easy or something.. I dont know, but it didnt look like they were hppy to give me!
And they put it in a bag with a baby upon it! I joked about it and said what an inappropriate bag it was, but they couldnt laugh
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 01:10 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting hobnob: At least the contraceptive pill's widely available. You can go to a pharmacy, ask for the pill without having to explain why you're not a virgin anymore. Breakthrough!! |
Its available but I remember they looked at me really bad when I came to buy it! Maybe it is because I am a foreigner that they felt like I was easy or something.. I dont know, but it didnt look like they were hppy to give me!
And they put it in a bag with a baby upon it! I joked about it and said what an inappropriate bag it was, but they couldnt laugh |
I've got them a couple of times and never got any strange looks. They probably had a good gossip after i'd left though about the foreigner who has sex!! I normally get my boyfriend to get them for me. He never gets strange looks 
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 01:29 pm |
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i got gold and money at my wedding got like 1300 lira plus gold
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 01:57 pm |
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I sincerely believe those bleeding pills and repair jobs are a 'good thing' overall!
My country's blood and hymen loving, virginity obsessed, half brain men very well deserve them.
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 02:15 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: But my opinion on this is that, as long as you are comfortable and not pressured and willing, nothing wrong happens. I guess the blood-myth stems from times that too young girls were married to a much older man and were either forced in it or just not comfortable. I can imagine it must either hurt or bleed then.
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The 'blood myth' has nothing to do with 'rough sex'. It used to be the same myth in the west as well. It was assumed that if a girl was a virgin her hymen would be unbroken and she would therefore bleed the first time she had intercourse. This is rubbish of course as even strenuous physical exercise can cause this to happen in many - if not all - women. Maybe if an explanation is needed 'but I'm always at the gym darling' would be an acceptable one!
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24 Jun 2008 Tue 02:36 pm |
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Quoting lady in red: Quoting Deli_kizin: But my opinion on this is that, as long as you are comfortable and not pressured and willing, nothing wrong happens. I guess the blood-myth stems from times that too young girls were married to a much older man and were either forced in it or just not comfortable. I can imagine it must either hurt or bleed then.
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The 'blood myth' has nothing to do with 'rough sex'. It used to be the same myth in the west as well. It was assumed that if a girl was a virgin her hymen would be unbroken and she would therefore bleed the first time she had intercourse. This is rubbish of course as even strenuous physical exercise can cause this to happen in many - if not all - women. Maybe if an explanation is needed 'but I'm always at the gym darling' would be an acceptable one! |
But the point is that men don't take 'my hymen broke when I was ten' as a valid excuse. This means the woman isn't a virgin and she has been lying to the man
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