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230.       Trudy
7887 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 04:12 pm

 

Quoting _AE_

You don´t seem to be a very happy person to me. 

 

 And I´m oh so happy you don´t know me.

231.       _AE_
677 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 04:13 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 And I´m oh so happy you don´t know me.

 

 I can see that I will have to wait for Catwoman to come here and give a convincing and considered reply to my questions.  You don´t seem able to be able to actually debate this issue with anything substantial but prefer to throw jibes....sad for you



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232.       Trudy
7887 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 04:14 pm

 

Quoting _AE_

OMG what happened!!!

 

 Exactly what I´m thinking for 163 posts long.

233.       _AE_
677 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 04:15 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 Exactly what I´m thinking for 163 posts long.

 

 Great contribution to an important discussion

234.       libralady
5152 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 04:55 pm

 

Quoting _AE_

 

 

 There is recent research which suggests that having sex during your period can increase the risk of endometriosis because it may push menstrual fluid back into your uterus.  There is also evidence that you are more likely to develop STDs and AIDs during this time, but this is still under debate.

 

Not to mention how disgusting it is!  What man (don´t say!) would want to have sex while a woman is menstruating or what woman would want to have sex while she is menstruating  ............. I put this in the same category and other bodily functions performed during sex.  Ninja

 



Edited (8/29/2009) by libralady [Thought I better add another sentance.......... ]

235.       _AE_
677 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:04 pm

 

Quoting libralady

 

 

Not to mention how disgusting it is!  What man (don´t say!) would want to have sex while a woman is menstruating or what woman would want to have sex while she is menstruating  ............. I put this in the same category and other bodily functions performed during sex.  Ninja

 

 

 The other factor to this is that historically women WERE unclean during this time!!! Sorry to write such a shocking thing but it is true!   Even now, unless you are lucky enough to be born in a rich country where you can purchase decent sanitaryware, you ARE "unclean".  I watched a great series on TV recently where western women had to live with African tribal women for one month.  In one particular episode she went to sit on a stool that a tribal woman had been sitting on and noticed it was covered with blood - the woman was menstruating and they had nothing to use, so the culture was to just "let it flow" ....!!! 

 

These women were completely unaffected by any other culture, were amazingly independent and strong and yet CHOSE to keep away from men during this time.



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Edited (8/29/2009) by _AE_

236.       libralady
5152 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:07 pm

 

Quoting _AE_

 

 

 The other factor to this is that historically women WERE unclean during this time!!! Sorry to write such a shocking thing but it is true!   Even now, unless you are lucky enough to be born in a rich country where you can purchase decent sanitaryware, you ARE "unclean".  I watched a great series on TV recently where western women had to live with African tribal women for one month.  In one particular episode she went to sit on a stool that a tribal woman had been sitting on and noticed it was covered with blood - the woman was menstrating and they had nothing to use, so the culture was to just "let it flow" ....!!! 

 

These women were completely unaffected by any other culture, were amazingly independent and strong and yet CHOSE to keep away from men during this time.

 

 I saw that too.  And I think it is Nepal where women live in a special hut during their periods away from the rest of the family because of the problem of sanitation and cleanliness during that time.

237.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:12 pm

 

Quoting bissane

If you know "albakara" so you surely know that this "aya" says that wives and husbands must not have sexual intercouse during this period  because it is harmful NOT that women are dirty  (not clean)

Quuent?????

 

I do not think you know what you are talking about here.

In my country, some women still call themselves ´ben kirliyim´ -I am dirty- when they have their period.

You sound suspiciously like Queent !! lol 

238.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:16 pm

 

Quoting bydand

The Koran seems open to different interpretations and having read the several english explanations of al-baqarah 2/222 bissane seems to have got it right.

Welcome to TLC bissane by the way and prepare yourself for some flak. Flowers

 

Don´t worry about Trudy...she had a bad experience at a mosque once.Big smile

 

You got it completely WRONG again lol

So in scotland your version of  interpretation is different than many muslim countries.. Eh? lol

239.       libralady
5152 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:21 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I do not think you know what you are talking about here.In my country, some women still call themselves ´ben kirliyim´ -I am dirty- when they have their period.

You sound suspiciously like Queent !! lol 

 

 Good job you do, you are such a mine of information when it comes to anything to do with women Unsure 

 

Perhaps you should realise that women in the UK would also think of themselves as "dirty" and probably still do to some extent depending on their mothers views and it was /is a very taboo / embarrassing  subject for many people.  It was often and probably still is the brunt of many a school boy playground joke, with many derogatory terms denoting a girl having a period.

240.       _AE_
677 posts
 29 Aug 2009 Sat 05:22 pm

I really don´t see the point to your reasoning about certain people being excluded from fasting.  At the time the Quran was written, menstruating was a messy and dirty thing - like it or not!  You might find it offensive that it is still considered to be so in modern times, but the fact is it really doesn´t affect you personally, or me.  If you have even just a cold you are excluded from fasting - is that discrimination too?



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