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Turkish Boyfriends and Girlfriends.
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17 Sep 2010 Fri 12:57 pm |
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Arafta, stop posting these provocative messages and try to be respectful to other members. Please edit objectionable parts like "redneck"
Other members, please don´t answer provocative posts. This is not a fight between civilizations. This is a fight between persons. Turkishclass is our common platform. We are here to share and learn from one another. Don´t fall into the traps of fire starters.
does "minorety" mean minority in the redneck language? where did I say that the "christians are minority"? FYI. It was one of your christian fellows who turned the topic into this, not me. and it`s not a small group of christians that look you bad. Just because you are ashamed of it doesn`t make it less true that most of the christians hate us. aren`t we infidels for you christians as we don`t pray your godot? and no we don`t consider you infidels because "infidel" is a biblical christian word which describes us, non-christian sinners who will end up in your godot`s hell.
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17 Sep 2010 Fri 07:34 pm |
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Turkish Culture, Turkish Tradition and Turkish people respect family values.
They value their privacy and honour.The virginity is a precondition for a girl for a normal/legal/honorable marriage like other good quality communities.
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18 Sep 2010 Sat 07:56 pm |
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Arafta, stop posting these provocative messages and try to be respectful to other members. Please edit objectionable parts like "redneck"
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18 Sep 2010 Sat 11:01 pm |
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I did edit the post
In the past, I used to flame people a bit. I would get flamed by them in return. I observed that it was a wrong way to communicate with people and decided to take steps to correct that. I have been more careful with my posts for a good while. There is no benefit in calling people names. Don´t go back in time to dig for my past mistakes. I am ashamed of them already.
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20 Sep 2010 Mon 02:55 pm |
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Turkish Culture, Turkish Tradition and Turkish people respect family values.
They value their privacy and honour.The virginity is a precondition for a girl for a normal/legal/honorable marriage like other good quality communities.
Dear Yilgun, it is the year 2010 and I assure you that this thinking is not only biased but is also sexist. Men and women have equal rights, so if a woman should be virgin, so should a man. The idea that it is obly women who should be virgins is wrong.
Honour killings stem from such thinking.
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20 Sep 2010 Mon 09:25 pm |
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Dear Daydreamer,
Men and women have equal rights according to the "law"...
But "law" and "life/truth" are very different concepts everywhere.
Sometimes law does not work/good for "socio-economic criterions and conditions".
In my opinion you are right.
But public union is not agree with you.
It is on the paper: Mere talk won´t get anything done.
I don’t believe that men and women have equal rights in the underdeveloped and
developing countries
and maybe even in some developed countries.
You think and speak according to the "highly developed communities, countries" and "intellectual thought"...
Edited (9/20/2010) by yilgun-2010
Edited (9/23/2010) by yilgun-2010
Edited (9/24/2010) by yilgun-2010
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27 Jul 2011 Wed 07:18 pm |
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Edited (8/9/2011) by clarividencia
[agitation of the mind.]
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28 Jul 2011 Thu 04:52 am |
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If you are set on mar ridge marry one who is from the big cities as they are most modern. The village men to treat their wife more like a house maid more than anything else. But you won´t find this in the larger cities as they believe in a modern life.
hum! You might get a big surprise and find out a little too late that some of the men from the larger cities or more narrow minded and more archaic in their way of thinking than their country conterparts... It is not because they are from the big cities that they are more open minded, remember many of those men came to the big city to work but were still brought up in the country way of thinking and some of the country folk are more modern in their way of thinking then you would expect.
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28 Jul 2011 Thu 11:37 pm |
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stumpy, you are right. I see your point, I shouldn´t categorise people in the same group. thank you for your responce, you open my eyes to things. içten teşekkürler!
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