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210.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 14 Sep 2010 Tue 07:54 pm

There were many incest news articles in the papers recently.. Almost one or two every week ; committed by Turks. I wonder if racist Kurds were quoting these articles in their forums to make their case that Turks are not worth living together and labeling all Turks as rapists by saying that  ´all of these shameful crimes are committed by the Turks.. Not us´..

Who knows..

211.       Arafta
54 posts
 14 Sep 2010 Tue 08:11 pm

did I miss something?
when did the subject change into incest?
if you want to see what the racist Kurds say about Turks, check out the kurdistan forum or whatever it is.

212.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 14 Sep 2010 Tue 09:12 pm

 

 

Taking what Turkish racists say about the Kurds, replace the word ´Kurds´ with ´Turks´ will suffice I think...

As far as the racism is concerned no difference at all..

 

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213.       barkindo
22 posts
 15 Sep 2010 Wed 12:14 am

I would definitely not call Kenya a developed modern country so I absolutely agree it´s an example of backwards mentality. The acts of violence in the US or Germany have nothing to do with these countries being backwards or modern - these actions are crimes against the law and perpetrators will or have been judged and sentenced. I was referring to countries whose legal systems promote backwards ideas like "men are allowed more because of their gender or where people are prosecuted (by law) for converting or where homosexuality is a crime.

Everywhere in the world, in all communities there are people whoare prejudiced and hate other people on any basis possible. But there arent too many countries that pass laws that empower prejudice. And this, in my opinion, should be condemned.

I don´t understand why for you the word "modern" is instantly associated with nudity and sex. It has nothing to do with it. Would it be more modern to sentence people to death for enjoying their sexuality with other adult people who consent to it?:

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i agree with you that Kenya is not a modern country.  There are crimes perpetuated in many countries out of ignorance, or false pride.  However, i strongly disagree with you that a ´modern´ country is not prejudiced against women.  It happens there as well, but in more subtle ways.  

For example, in the UK a woman is double as likely to be sentenced for murder than a man, five times as likely to be sentenced to jail for a similar offence than a man.  See, if a man kills someone in a drunken rage-then it is manslaughter, but a woman, being weaker, could not do that.  She needs to plan the deed.  So it is murder.  

I used to befriend Muslim women in jail- they usually were nice young girls who were duped into smuggling drugs for various boyfriends, again for they same offence they received much harsher sentences.....  

So please get off your moral high horse, and accept that injustice is not only a feature of poorer countries, but permeates most societies. There are laws in place in every country that are uphold the rights of women, unfortunately with economic poverty it is often not  possible to enforce these laws.  The problem is enforcement, rather than an absence of the laws. So in the USA  we have an estimated uncaught 500 mass murderers roaming the country, and if they stick to prostitutes, there won´t be an awful lot of effort being made to catch them, in Egypt maybe 500 honour killings... either way it is the women who suffer since they ´deserved´ it.  

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214.       catwoman
8933 posts
 15 Sep 2010 Wed 01:04 am

 

Quoting barkindo

i agree with you that Kenya is not a modern country.  There are crimes perpetuated in many countries out of ignorance, or false pride.  However, i strongly disagree with you that a ´modern´ country is not prejudiced against women.  It happens there as well, but in more subtle ways.  

For example, in the UK a woman is double as likely to be sentenced for murder than a man, five times as likely to be sentenced to jail for a similar offence than a man.  See, if a man kills someone in a drunken rage-then it is manslaughter, but a woman, being weaker, could not do that.  She needs to plan the deed.  So it is murder.  

I used to befriend Muslim women in jail- they usually were nice young girls who were duped into smuggling drugs for various boyfriends, again for they same offence they received much harsher sentences.....  

So please get off your moral high horse, and accept that injustice is not only a feature of poorer countries, but permeates most societies. There are laws in place in every country that are uphold the rights of women, unfortunately with economic poverty it is often not  possible to enforce these laws.  The problem is enforcement, rather than an absence of the laws. So in the USA  we have an estimated uncaught 500 mass murderers roaming the country, and if they stick to prostitutes, there won´t be an awful lot of effort being made to catch them, in Egypt maybe 500 honour killings... either way it is the women who suffer since they ´deserved´ it.  

 

Could not agree with you more!!!!

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215.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 15 Sep 2010 Wed 07:12 pm

Sorry for the late reply, tonsilitis kept me half conscious for a couple of days. There´s not much left for me to say, though, as I´ve noticed a few people already answered for me.

I just found it amusing that somebody would consider an individual incident that happens in Europe a christian tradition, but would swear that the numbers Wiki quotes as for honour killings in Muslim societies (a few a week in one country only!) do not prove anything. It also makes me laugh how Turkey doesn´t have a Kurdish problem, but whatever bad happens, it´s not Turks, it´s Kurds lol

Oh, and referring to Arafta´s question, yes, I do condemn crimes wherever they happen - be it Middle east, Africa, Europe or Pacific Islands.

Barkindo - of course gender equality in the west still has to be improved. But you can´t argue that it´s a general rule that fathers sell underage girls or that somebody would actually legally marry a 12-year-old. Or that police won´t do anything if they´re called for a home intervention after a woman reported domestic violence. You don´t need your husband´s permission to go to work and can sue their co-workers if they´re harrassed. In most cases - they win, the courts do not put the blame on them only because they are women. Also, mothers generally get the custody of children, not fathers. How many stories have you read about western women marrying Arab men, being beaten and unable to report it, or having reported it but still being ignored because they apparently deserved a good licking? How many of them were able to get custody of their children in case of divorce? There used to be a programme on Polish tv about detective who had a few successful cases of stealing women and their children from their Arab tyrants. All cases were true, although not all successful. So, please, don´t tell me that women in the west are discriminated in the same way women in the east are. because it´s not true.

 

 

216.       Arafta
54 posts
 16 Sep 2010 Thu 02:57 am

Quoting Daydreamer

I just found it amusing that somebody would consider an individual incident that happens in Europe a christian tradition, but would swear that the numbers Wiki quotes as for honour killings in Muslim societies (a few a week in one country only!) do not prove anything. It also makes me laugh how Turkey doesn´t have a Kurdish problem, but whatever bad happens, it´s not Turks, it´s Kurds lol

Oh, and referring to Arafta´s question, yes, I do condemn crimes wherever they happen - be it Middle east, Africa, Europe or Pacific Islands.

 

 

and I find it amusing that you consider an idividual incident that happens in Arabia a muslim tradition. yes Turkey has this problem of Kurdish terrorism, or the Kurdish problem as you call it. Likewise you have a problem of oppression against the Muslims and Gypsies in Europe, and whatever bad happens you will blame not your christian people but the muslims and Gypsies.

217.       Arafta
54 posts
 16 Sep 2010 Thu 03:01 am

oh btw. if you are so much into statistics, you may want to check out the statistical data on this link about the sexually abused children in the christian country of Canada.

It seems like they are strict followers of their church or those infamous christian priests.


http://www.child-abuse-effects.com/child-abuse-statistics.html

Edited (9/16/2010) by Arafta

218.       stumpy
638 posts
 16 Sep 2010 Thu 04:21 am

The only reason why you are able to get your hands on statiscs is taht every reported case of abuse is registered.

At least it is being reported and not hidden like in some places.

219.       Arafta
54 posts
 16 Sep 2010 Thu 04:34 am

Quoting stumpy

not hidden like in some places.

like in what places? go ahead, tell us.

Edited (9/16/2010) by Arafta

220.       stumpy
638 posts
 16 Sep 2010 Thu 04:44 am

I have a question for you arafta, why do you label countires by their religion?

Canada is one of the most diverse country religion wise.

Are you that intolerant towards other religions that are diffrent than yours?

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