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Turkish and or muslim dress
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 02:24 am |
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Hmmm...let me see, when it rains I wear something to keep myself dry. When I go to an "event" I dress up. When I go to work, I wear "professional" garments.
Have you ever heard of the concept of "going with the flow"?
Quoting girleegirl:
In my opinion, self-respect far outweighs the respect of a fiance or his family. How could anyone who selectively wears a scarf to show respect for someone else or a situation have any respect for themselves? |
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 02:51 am |
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Quoting alameda: Hmmm...let me see, when it rains I wear something to keep myself dry. When I go to an 'event' I dress up. When I go to work, I wear 'professional' garments.
Have you ever heard of the concept of 'going with the flow'?
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You are really going to compare these types of situations?  But hey...if these are your values, I say don't wear that rain gear. If it is against your principle to dress professionally, be a slob.
You really reach far out on the limb there...be careful it doesn't break.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 05:01 am |
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If I'm on a flexible branch, it will be able to take weight and stress better than if I were on a brittle, stiff and inflexible one.
Dry reeds break in the wind.
Quoting girleegirl: ...You are really going to compare these types of situations? But hey...if these are your values, I say don't wear that rain gear. If it is against your principle to dress professionally, be a slob.
You really reach far out on the limb there...be careful it doesn't break. |
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 06:37 am |
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Quoting alameda: If I'm on a flexible branch, it will be able to take weight and stress better than if I were on a brittle, stiff and inflexible one.
Dry reeds break in the wind.
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What a wonderful statement and it would be very convincing coming from someone who is actually flexible but all I can hear is the snapping of those brittle, stiff branches that you are perched upon.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 02:57 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal: btw
sera, you look very sexy and very modest  your hijab must be invisible.
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I never said i wore the hijab all the time and nor did i say that i was wearing one in any of my photos.Plus you should be able to be/feel sexy or attractive and wear a scarf,its the mens problem for staring at you not yours for being hot  |
now you conrtadict yourself.
you, girl definetly dont know what you are talking of.
first think, do researches, wear the shoes of eastern women in real life, then speak your wonderful ideas.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 03:01 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: its the mens problem for staring at you not yours for being hot |
A turkish man once posted a very interesting observation here. He said that Turkish men do not want a beautiful or "hot" wife - they would rather she was plain. However, once he has married his "plain wife" he spends his time chasing (and sometimes catching) the beautiful "hot" ones 
Nice
(Of course this excludes dudus who will marry "anything" with a cheque book)
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 05:14 pm |
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Quote: thats what a relationship is all about give and take. |
Sera, you are right that a relationship is give and take but it sounds to me like you are doing all the giving and he is doing all the taking. Of course, we have no knowledge of your relationship other than what you reveal in these forums....so I hope this is not the case.
Good luck.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 05:15 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Turkish men do not want a beautiful or "hot" wife - they would rather she was plain. However, once he has married his "plain wife" he spends his time chasing (and sometimes catching) the beautiful "hot" ones |
If it was only an individual with this attitude, he would go to a psych ward, but since it's a big group, we call it culture. 
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 07:51 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting SERA_2005: its the mens problem for staring at you not yours for being hot |
A turkish man once posted a very interesting observation here. He said that Turkish men do not want a beautiful or "hot" wife - they would rather she was plain. However, once he has married his "plain wife" he spends his time chasing (and sometimes catching) the beautiful "hot" ones
Nice
(Of course this excludes dudus who will marry "anything" with a cheque book) |
Ok ok all is forgotten i don't wanna argue.That just really made me laugh!!
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 07:53 pm |
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Quoting alameda: Hmmm...let me see, when it rains I wear something to keep myself dry. When I go to an "event" I dress up. When I go to work, I wear "professional" garments.
Have you ever heard of the concept of "going with the flow"?
Quoting girleegirl:
In my opinion, self-respect far outweighs the respect of a fiance or his family. How could anyone who selectively wears a scarf to show respect for someone else or a situation have any respect for themselves? |
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Thank God the world has not gone totally mad,i couldnt agree more.I tend to go with the flow as you said,i don't wear a scarf all the time however as i have said before no one seems to have a problem with it.I take life as it comes,some days i feel like it and others not.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 07:57 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal: btw
sera, you look very sexy and very modest your hijab must be invisible.
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I never said i wore the hijab all the time and nor did i say that i was wearing one in any of my photos.Plus you should be able to be/feel sexy or attractive and wear a scarf,its the mens problem for staring at you not yours for being hot |
now you conrtadict yourself.
you, girl definetly dont know what you are talking of.
first think, do researches, wear the shoes of eastern women in real life, then speak your wonderful ideas. |
Seeing as i am the one talking here,not you and these are my posts then i definately do know what i am talking of.You may not agree but thats your Prerogative.I never said i knew all the answers i am simply giving my opinion as we all are doing here.
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