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Turkish and or muslim dress
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 07:57 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal: btw
sera, you look very sexy and very modest  your hijab must be invisible.
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I never said i wore the hijab all the time and nor did i say that i was wearing one in any of my photos.Plus you should be able to be/feel sexy or attractive and wear a scarf,its the mens problem for staring at you not yours for being hot  |
now you conrtadict yourself.
you, girl definetly dont know what you are talking of.
first think, do researches, wear the shoes of eastern women in real life, then speak your wonderful ideas. |
Seeing as i am the one talking here,not you and these are my posts then i definately do know what i am talking of.You may not agree but thats your Prerogative.I never said i knew all the answers i am simply giving my opinion as we all are doing here.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:00 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005:
Thank God the world has not gone totally mad,i couldnt agree more.I tend to go with the flow as you said,i don't wear a scarf all the time however as i have said before no one seems to have a problem with it.I take life as it comes,some days i feel like it and others not. |
what if the flow falls down the chasm?
flowing with the current is very meaningless.
only boring people like alameda or you do so (which is wide mass of parrots)
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:01 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: Quoting SERA_2005:
Well unfortunately this is the nature of the beast,seeing as this is a forum we tend to have the read the posts.Hmm surprise surprise..not!
Anyway moving on i am also a person of free will however i am sure most of us would agree that if we are attending a place which is sensitive such a grave yard etc then it is only out of respect i would wear a scarf.After all i am marrying into this culture and my finace knows better than anyone that i am English and i hold western values what ever they are,this means that we have an understanding and both know what we are getting into! So he wouldnt want to ask me to something which would make me feel uncomfortable or strange to me however out of love and respect for him i choose too do things that may not be 'normal' in my own culture,thats what a relationship is all about give and take. |
Who is forcing you to read the posts? Is someone demanding it of you? Femme!! Are you forcing Sera to read things she doesn't want to read? I tend to do selective reading. I have never been informed of the rule that says I have to read posts. 
It appears I really touched a nerve with you by commenting on your pictures....no need to get all riled up! But you may want to remember that you posted them in a public profile....not private....as you stated in that endearing PM you sent to me.
In my opinion, self-respect far outweighs the respect of a fiance or his family. How could anyone who selectively wears a scarf to show respect for someone else or a situation have any respect for themselves? |
I didnt say one one was forcing you to read the posts i was simply pointing out that in order to offer an informed and comprehensivly reply it may be a wise idea to read the posts before you respond.that it all.You can comment on my pictures all you like it doesnt bother me,I just think its a shame you spend so much time trying to come back with answers to my opinion rather than actually coming up with one of your own.Anyway that wasnt the reason i started this thread it was talk about muslim dress in the wider sense not just in my wardrobe,Its actually quite boring.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:03 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005:
Seeing as i am the one talking here,not you and these are my posts then i definately do know what i am talking of.You may not agree but thats your Prerogative.I never said i knew all the answers i am simply giving my opinion as we all are doing here. |
if you dont know the answers, why do you claim what you say is right?
first learn, then speak!
listen to lenin (PBUH) he said: LEARN, LEARN AND LEARN!
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:08 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005:
Thank God the world has not gone totally mad,i couldnt agree more.I tend to go with the flow as you said,i don't wear a scarf all the time however as i have said before no one seems to have a problem with it.I take life as it comes,some days i feel like it and others not. |
what if the flow falls down the chasm?
flowing with the current is very meaningless.
only boring people like alameda or you do so (which is wide mass of parrots) |
I am aware you like to talk in abstract terms,so i will respond appropriatly...going with the flow is not meaning,why can't it be a good thing to be flexible.There is a difference between being flexible and being a door matt.Elizabeth talking about a relationship being one sided in one of her previous posts,and i agree totally that is not healthy for one person to be doing all the giving and another to be taking all time.However (not that you are interested) i can safely inform you all that we both contribute equally.If this wasnt the case i wouldnt be commiting myself,my life and my time to this relationship.
p.s i am certainly not a parrot! However it wouldnt so bad they are beautiful animals.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:09 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005:
Seeing as i am the one talking here,not you and these are my posts then i definately do know what i am talking of.You may not agree but thats your Prerogative.I never said i knew all the answers i am simply giving my opinion as we all are doing here. |
if you dont know the answers, why do you claim what you say is right?
first learn, then speak!
listen to lenin (PBUH) he said: LEARN, LEARN AND LEARN!
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I never said i was right i said i was expressing my opinion.Perhaps you are the one that needs to do more learning or reading in this case!
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:10 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005:
Thank God the world has not gone totally mad,i couldnt agree more.I tend to go with the flow as you said,i don't wear a scarf all the time however as i have said before no one seems to have a problem with it.I take life as it comes,some days i feel like it and others not. |
what if the flow falls down the chasm?
flowing with the current is very meaningless.
only boring people like alameda or you do so (which is wide mass of parrots) |
I am aware you like to talk in abstract terms,so i will respond appropriatly...going with the flow is not meaningless,why can't it be a good thing to be flexible.There is a difference between being flexible and being a door matt.Elizabeth talking about a relationship being one sided in one of her previous posts,and i agree totally that is not healthy for one person to be doing all the giving and another to be taking all time.However (not that you are interested) i can safely inform you all that we both contribute equally.If this wasnt the case i wouldnt be commiting myself,my life and my time to this relationship.
p.s i am certainly not a parrot! However it wouldnt so bad they are beautiful animals. |
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:11 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: I just think its a shame you spend so much time trying to come back with answers to my opinion
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you dont like our opinions?
its a shame that a person who speaks about modesty uploads non-modest pics of herslef.
Quoting SERA_2005:
rather than actually coming up with one of your own.
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am i not coming with my own?
Quoting SERA_2005:
Anyway that wasnt the reason i started this thread it was talk about muslim dress in the wider sense not just in my wardrobe,Its actually quite boring. |
its a shame you dont know what you started. its a shame you dont know the real life of those really veiled women!
we dont talk about wardrobe.
and theres no wider sense in muslim coverings!
what wider sense there could be?
maybe you should tell us wider and deeper?
sera, you are boring, you come with nothing, talk nothing, and offend us telling that we are boring.
if this is your attitude to the case, then dont talk to us.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:11 pm |
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Quote: Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal:
Thank God the world has not gone totally mad,i couldnt agree more.I tend to go with the flow as you said,i don't wear a scarf all the time however as i have said before no one seems to have a problem with it.I take life as it comes,some days i feel like it and others not. |
what if the flow falls down the chasm?
flowing with the current is very meaningless.
only boring people like alameda or you do so (which is wide mass of parrots) |
I am aware you like to talk in abstract terms,so i will respond appropriatly...going with the flow is not meaningless,why can't it be a good thing to be flexible.There is a difference between being flexible and being a door matt.Elizabeth talking about a relationship being one sided in one of her previous posts,and i agree totally that is not healthy for one person to be doing all the giving and another to be taking all time.However (not that you are interested) i can safely inform you all that we both contribute equally.If this wasnt the case i wouldnt be commiting myself,my life and my time to this relationship.
p.s i am certainly not a parrot! However it wouldnt so bad they are beautiful animals. |
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:28 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005: I just think its a shame you spend so much time trying to come back with answers to my opinion
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you dont like our opinions?
its a shame that a person who speaks about modesty uploads non-modest pics of herslef.
Quoting SERA_2005:
rather than actually coming up with one of your own.
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am i not coming with my own?
Quoting SERA_2005:
Anyway that wasnt the reason i started this thread it was talk about muslim dress in the wider sense not just in my wardrobe,Its actually quite boring. |
its a shame you dont know what you started. its a shame you dont know the real life of those really veiled women!
we dont talk about wardrobe.
and theres no wider sense in muslim coverings!
what wider sense there could be?
maybe you should tell us wider and deeper?
sera, you are boring, you come with nothing, talk nothing, and offend us telling that we are boring.
if this is your attitude to the case, then dont talk to us.
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When i talked about people coming up with their own opinions i was not refering to you Fem,you misunderstood my post. In my opinion there is nothing immodest about the photos on my profile.I don't see anything wrong with them,just because i am not wearing a veil doesnt mean that i am not modest.
When i refered to muslim dress in the wider sense i was talking about male/female coverings and from country to country e.g. how clothes are worn,what is exceptable in which parts of the world.For example i am aware that Asian,African dress etc is practiced in the Diasphora rather than the country or continent of origin.Also as this thread demonstrates it varies widly depending upon who is interpreting the teachings and what the exisiting culture,dress code etc is of the country in which a person may be living.For example a muslim woman living in the UK or U.S may wear the veil but also wear western clothes such as jeans etc rather than the full muslim dress.
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20 Dec 2007 Thu 08:30 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting SERA_2005: I just think its a shame you spend so much time trying to come back with answers to my opinion
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you dont like our opinions?
its a shame that a person who speaks about modesty uploads non-modest pics of herslef.
Quoting SERA_2005:
rather than actually coming up with one of your own.
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am i not coming with my own?
Quoting SERA_2005:
Anyway that wasnt the reason i started this thread it was talk about muslim dress in the wider sense not just in my wardrobe,Its actually quite boring. |
its a shame you dont know what you started. its a shame you dont know the real life of those really veiled women!
we dont talk about wardrobe.
and theres no wider sense in muslim coverings!
what wider sense there could be?
maybe you should tell us wider and deeper?
sera, you are boring, you come with nothing, talk nothing, and offend us telling that we are boring.
if this is your attitude to the case, then dont talk to us.
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When i talked about people coming up with their own opinions i was not refering to you Fem,you misunderstood my post. In my opinion there is nothing immodest about the photos on my profile.I don't see anything wrong with them,just because i am not wearing a veil doesnt mean that i am not modest.
When i refered to muslim dress in the wider sense i was talking about male/female coverings and from country to country e.g. how clothes are worn,what is exceptable in which parts of the world.For example i am aware that Asian,African dress etc is practiced in the Diasphora rather than the country or continent of origin.Also as this thread demonstrates it varies widly depending upon who is interpreting the teachings and what the exisiting culture,dress code etc is of the country in which a person may be living.For example a muslim woman living in the UK or U.S may wear the veil but also wear western clothes such as jeans etc rather than the full muslim dress. |
When i said the word boring i was talking about my wardrobe as i am sure most of us would say ours is (how exciting can clothes be).I was not talking about myself,after all if i thought i didnt have anything to offer i wouldnt have joined a forum.
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