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1.       RICK
96 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 12:32 pm

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?

2.       kazpol
99 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 01:05 pm

korea?
hmm, that surprises me!

3.       adife
43 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 01:23 pm

where is china ?
my city many turkish busniess man most from istanbul
* welcome to china *

4.       mltm
3690 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 01:32 pm

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?


I don't agree with this very much. I cannot talk for all the turkish people because there're different people in different regions.
I don't think we feel very close to the Turkic countries like Özbekistan, Kazakistan etc. but morely we consider them as cousins
I think we feel closer to Mediterranean countries and Germany.
North Cyprus is ofcourse the small Türkiye
I think a few years ago US was also a favourite country for Turks, well now there're more haters than lovers.
For the countries that Turks don't have much sympathy for might be France as you said although we have historical relationships (well I think the opposite as I'm half french!! ) and ofcourse the arab countries we don't get along very well.
Erhmm, and what can I say about Greece, are we eternal enemies?? but still we have too much common.
Pakistani, Korea are good friends.
For the far east and south america and african countries, I think we're too far to feel something.
Well, I don't like very much making such classifyings since most of the things are political and if people want, all people can get along well and neither of us is very different than the other.

5.       kazpol
99 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 02:06 pm

well, mltm, its just worth knowing who prefers whom. i found it interesting (thanks rick). i know that those who say that they hate usa, actually deep in heart want usa, they just say so in order to show their solidarity with iraq or some other countries alike. there is no need to be politically correct or even quiet. lets openly say of what we really think and feel, nothing will terribly happen to me if turks happen not to like my country. mltm, dont pacify the feelings or rights to share the feelings. there's nothing wrong in not loving usa or france since its nobody's duty to love. i just noticed one thing, they say they hate, but actually they r not pretty sure o their hatred.
with love

6.       sophie
2712 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 02:35 pm

Well...it's all about politics.
We use to say that we hate this we hate that, but infact we hate Bush (or better the people behind him who decide for him too) or they hate Karamanlis or Erdogan and so on.

I switched on the tv yesteray, during the evening news, which is something I hadn't done for quite a long time. I regretted it from the first moment. It was all about 'the new Turkish challenge' (I have no idea what it is this time) and the 'Turkish minority' in Greece etc.

But I knew that I m a member of a turkish website, I have friends who love me here and i love them back . That i celebrated galatasaray's championship and i partied last night with the turkish entry to eurovision's finals.
Serious or silly, important or not, i find hundreds of reasons each day, to prove that I have my own way of seeing things, my own opinion and an open mind to work all the data i receive .

And that bunch of people who rule my country, can do nothing to persuade me that I should hate a whole nation, for the sins that they or we made in a distant past...

7.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 02:50 pm

Quoting kazpol:

korea?
hmm, that surprises me!



korea is important for us! our grandparents were there when there was the war between south and north korea, they fought for south, but not important the side...

8.       kazpol
99 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 03:04 pm

Quoting caliptrix:

Quoting kazpol:

korea?
hmm, that surprises me!



korea is important for us! our grandparents were there when there was the war between south and north korea, they fought for south, but not important the side...


really, gosh, i didnt know that

9.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 03:58 pm

Quoting kazpol:

Quoting caliptrix:

Quoting kazpol:

korea?
hmm, that surprises me!



korea is important for us! our grandparents were there when there was the war between south and north korea, they fought for south, but not important the side...


really, gosh, i didnt know that


if you remember, when turkey was 3rd in worldcup, that was in korea/japan, and all korean fans were following turkish matches, all supported turkey, and had turkish flags and korean flags together....
japanese ppl also supported, i think.

10.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:01 pm

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?



i am not sure about venezuela and cuba... i never hear something like that...

but france: they always say "turks made massacre to armerians", so this makes turks angry. maybe this is a point...

11.       oceanmavi
997 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:11 pm

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?



i guess we will find out at eurovision

12.       RICK
96 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:11 pm

Quoting caliptrix:

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?



i am not sure about venezuela and cuba... i never hear something like that...

but france: they always say "turks made massacre to armerians", so this makes turks angry. maybe this is a point...

There must be a reason for everything hmm then i should think about my reason "why i posted it" well maybe coz i want to share somethings i ve seen and heard.. yes this is logical
Meanwhile, those are not my opinions ok? Please do not get anything serious here! I didnt mean people hate... some countries .. what i meant is just the thought of people's here about some countries only.. Every country has at least one lover all over the world I love the people of the world! especially the ones in this website!

13.       sophie
2712 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:35 pm

Quoting RICK:

I love the people of the world! especially the ones in this website!



Awww Rick is in a sweet mood today!
We love you too dear.

(hurry up! post your translation requests before he turns back to his sarcastic mood )

14.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:43 pm

Quoting sophie:

Quoting RICK:

I love the people of the world! especially the ones in this website!



Awww Rick is in a sweet mood today!
We love you too dear.

(hurry up! post your translation requests before he turns back to his sarcastic mood )



sweeter when he doesnt use always CAPS

15.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:43 pm

Quoting sophie:

Quoting RICK:

I love the people of the world! especially the ones in this website!



Awww Rick is in a sweet mood today!
We love you too dear.

(hurry up! post your translation requests before he turns back to his sarcastic mood )



sweeter when he doesnt use always CAPS

16.       sophie
2712 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 04:46 pm

Quoting caliptrix:


sweeter when he doesnt use always CAPS



Caps go with his mood. I told you he is in a sweet mood today!

17.       mltm
3690 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 05:31 pm

Quoting caliptrix:


japanese ppl also supported, i think.


hehe Japanese people supported İlhan Mansız lol

18.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 05:48 pm

Quoting mltm:

Quoting caliptrix:


japanese ppl also supported, i think.


hehe Japanese people supported İlhan Mansız lol



but ilhan went there after that competiton...

19.       mltm
3690 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 08:00 pm

Quoting caliptrix:

Quoting mltm:

Quoting caliptrix:


japanese ppl also supported, i think.


hehe Japanese people supported İlhan Mansız lol



but ilhan went there after that competiton...



No, but he played in the Turkish team, and therefore Japanese girls fell in love with him. When he went there, he had already japanese fans.Wasn't it like this? :-S

20.       teaschip
3870 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 10:38 pm

I think this is the most ignorant post, I have seen at this site yet. What was the point to this, anyhow?

21.       libralady
5152 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 10:47 pm

Quote:


And that bunch of people who rule my country, can do nothing to persuade me that I should hate a whole nation, for the sins that they or we made in a distant past...



And the opposite is also true! We cannot be made to like a whole nation either.

It worries me how much we depend on the USA (in the UK) and how much we are becoming like Americans - in terms of shopping centres, fast food joints, obesity rising especially in Children, mindless violence (15 year stopped to death outside his school in front of his friends).

I would much prefer we align with Europe.

I personally think this choice business is more to do with what government wants to you like or dislike, not personal choice as that is something I hope you make up your own mind over!

22.       Aenigma
0 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 10:52 pm

Quoting libralady:

I personally think this choice business is more to do with what government wants to you like or dislike, not personal choice as that is something I hope you make up your own mind over!



Well, yes it is a personal choice, Libralady. It's called democracy . Unfortunately, people are too scared to vote for anyone other than the two main parties. Remember the Thatcher years? Everyone complained and you could never find a single person who would admit to voting for her.. and yet she always got back in power overwhelmingly . Until people take a risk and are brave enough to vote for a different kind of government, we can only blame overselves.

23.       libralady
5152 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:23 pm

I voted for her - three times!! And I have NOT voted for Blair

24.       teaschip
3870 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:35 pm

I find it ironic you shall cast the first stones, when you have never been to America. We have 10 million immigrants in our country today, what for? Because were a horrible country, I think not. Unless you have been to the U.S. maybe your watching to much tv.

25.       Aenigma
0 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:43 pm

Quoting teaschip:

I find it ironic you shall cast the first stones, when you have never been to America. We have 10 million immigrants in our country today, what for? Because were a horrible country, I think not. Unless you have been to the U.S. maybe your watching to much tv.



I am not sure who your question was directed to teaschip? I myself have both lived in and visited the USA thanks. The most shocking thing i found was the lack of interest or knowledge in world news or current events. But...I don't want to get involved in country-bashing

26.       teaschip
3870 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:47 pm

It's not worth further discussing.

27.       Aenigma
0 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:49 pm

Quoting libralady:

I voted for her - three times!! And I have NOT voted for Blair



BINGO! So, you think Thatcher was LESS cosy with the USA? You think she was more European? lol

28.       Aenigma
0 posts
 19 May 2006 Fri 11:50 pm

Quoting teaschip:

I think you just did!



Yeah sorry . Great country though

29.       karamurat
7 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 01:57 am

hii guys first think who is the clossest country for turkey azerbajian i dont think soo they are more close to russia ,they make more busnes with russia nort cyprus you said is anybody been there they dont like turkey at all they dont like turkish soldiers there even they protect them they prefer british or american soldier i belive they use british pound all over the country but they always use turkey do you know how mush money turkish govermant spend for cyprus millions of dollars going for what
we have relations ship with this turk countries but thats all we didnt do anythink for them they didnt do for us
how come greece become our friends i dont understand that too old enemy became new friend its imazing
usa try too rule the world we like it or not like it why we agains to america because 600 years ago when ottoman rule the world no body like ottoman now america greatest country in the world and this is their turn i am not judge them they right or wrong but they are strong and we all dont like someone stronger then ourselfs
i hope one day we became greatest country around the world but i dont think i live that much
this is our problem we dont know who is our enemy who is our friend who ever smile to us thats it

30.       RICK
96 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 09:44 am

Quoting teaschip:

I think this is the most ignorant post, I have seen at this site yet. What was the point to this, anyhow?

I dont understand your anger susan.. when i posted the topic, my only idea was sharing a thing with classmates.. i didnt mean "ppl hate usa or americans" this is another thing.. and i can never dare to say such thing.. i think there is some misunderstanding or your mind is not so clear to understand my meaning... so ask people who is ignorant here... some people here know me well but your first imagine does not seem nice to me.. how can a person so political! gosh .. please try to accept the opinions of the rest of the world then think again what is ignorance .. of course you wont do that coz you dont need to do it you believe.. by the way i was born in Vancouver so you are talking to wrong person about the us

31.       kazpol
99 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 09:57 am

TURKS dont hate usa, i dont believe they hate!
i believe these r false declarations made in anger.
if we think a bit logic(teaship is right) why would millions imigrate to usa?
turks definetly dont hate usa!
turks dont hate either greece!

32.       RICK
96 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 10:03 am

Quoting kazpol:

TURKS dont hate usa, i dont believe they hate!
i believe these r false declarations made in anger.
if we think a bit logic(teaship is right) why would millions imigrate to usa?
turks definetly dont hate usa!
turks dont hate either greece!

oh noooo!! whats going on here?? who said turks hate americans????

33.       kazpol
99 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 10:18 am

the "dont like" turned into "hate"!

34.       RICK
96 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 10:24 am

Quoting kazpol:

the "dont like" turned into "hate"!

well it seems like it s my fault i dont wanna be misunderstood at all.. hey how could i have tens of american friends if i meant it In this case, I want apologize to everyone here .. especially american ones.. i never meant about a hate " gosh .. i m feeling a bit guilty now
what i meant is "which countries turkish people find close to theirselves " it was only my own observation nothing then that.. it s not academic nor scientific.. can be the opposite also... moderators can you delete this topic?

35.       kazpol
99 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 11:12 am

hey, rick, i dont think its ur fault! this is an interesting topic! thats how it works in forums, someone starts smth which later on turns into another thing!
i dont find ur topic negative or politically incorrect!
no nation or country is perfect!

36.       sophie
2712 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 11:31 am

Quoting kazpol:

hey, rick, i dont think its ur fault! this is an interesting topic! thats how it works in forums, someone starts smth which later on turns into another thing!
i dont find ur topic negative or politically incorrect!
no nation or country is perfect!



I was about to write the same thing, but i had to join the chat so i postponed it
Rick you don't have to feel sorry or apologize for anything. After all it was us, the ones who followed your post, who wrote about hate. You didnt mention anything like that.

37.       ramayan
2633 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 12:10 pm

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ



totaly agree except few ones...

we may add russia and china too with usa,england,french....but umm i may not like their country but this never means i dont like the ppl live in them...i love every human beings..

38.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 02:22 pm

Aslında sevilmeyen şeyler ülkeler ya da insanlar değil, genel manada hükümetlerin politik seçimleri... Yani biz Amerika'yı sevmiyor değiliz, asıl sevmediğimiz Amerikan hükümetinin yaptıkları. Benzer şekilde Fransa için de aynı şeyler söz konusu...

Hadi bunu da biri İngilizce açıklasın.

39.       Kadir37
0 posts
 20 May 2006 Sat 04:40 pm

40.       libralady
5152 posts
 23 May 2006 Tue 03:04 pm

Quoting teaschip:

I find it ironic you shall cast the first stones, when you have never been to America. We have 10 million immigrants in our country today, what for? Because were a horrible country, I think not. Unless you have been to the U.S. maybe your watching to much tv.



I have been to America, I have been with my American friends all weekend. I did not say, if you are referring to me, that I say America is a horrible country - I just dont like certain things about it, same as I dont like certain things about the UK and they are physical things - shopping centres, fast food chains, the decline of our regional towns, etc etc not the people.

41.       RICK
96 posts
 23 May 2006 Tue 04:06 pm

wow i didnt know a lot of people would have something to say out about my post
i should thank to everyone who wrote their thougths here. you complete idea

42.       caliptrix
3055 posts
 23 May 2006 Tue 05:08 pm

Quoting RICK:

wow i didnt know a lot of people would have something to say out about my post
i should thank to everyone who wrote their thougths here. you complete idea



nevermindlollollol
desem yine ukalalık olur mu?

i said "nevermind" as if who replies to this topic were just me and Rick thanked just me.

43.       teaschip
3870 posts
 23 May 2006 Tue 07:56 pm

Your welcome, Rick. Even though your comments aren't backed up with factual statistical research. That is why it is an opinion and everyone is entitled to their own. We can agree to disagree. No harm done.

44.       madalinakenan
72 posts
 12 Aug 2006 Sat 02:45 pm

darling u forgot about Romania!!!

45.       MrX67
2540 posts
 12 Aug 2006 Sat 04:19 pm

thats depend if about goverment,high Turkish society ,or awaradge Turkish people.Choises so different for each one,but i can say that Turkish men mostly more interested in with Slavic countries since deep of history

46.       susie k
1330 posts
 13 Aug 2006 Sun 12:04 pm

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47.       MrX67
2540 posts
 13 Aug 2006 Sun 09:15 pm

i bet we all missing a borderless globe,but still many prvialges or prejudicies in our minds,aren't each country close as as much as all others?

48.       MrX67
2540 posts
 13 Aug 2006 Sun 09:26 pm

and i think theres big missions on politicians and intllectuals for make less this privilages and prejudicies .coz they drawing the borders in the person's brains.we r all close to each other as same as a member of a big&great family...

49.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 01:38 am

Quoting MrX67:

they drawing the borders in the person's brains.we r all close to each other as same as a member of a big&great family...



I can't agree more. But I have to say that I find/feel Greeks more close to Turks. Maybe that is because we spent hundreds of years together and our cultures are so mixed up that both parties cannot be sure of a cultural thing (tradition, humor, you name it.. ) if it is 100% Greek or Turk.

I have many Greek friends, when we are together, making jokes, it is so specific that only we can understand and laugh to death, while usually other people with us are observing us and thinking "What the Hell is so funny about it they are laughing like that!!" lol

And the arguments, we can argue about anything and in the extreme such silly things that no one can find any point

What about the things both parties are proud of?
For instance, Lets talk about coffee?
A typical conversation with a Greek friend:
-Lets make Turkish coffee man, I am so drunk!
-- You mean Greek coffee!?
-Whatever! Let’s make it.

Same conversation can also be observed for Raki/Ouzo:
--What will you guys serving with BBQ Party?
-Ouzo man, Ouzo! We got original label from Greece
-You mean Raki man; it is not Ouzo but Raki you know?
-Whatever! Are you coming or not!

And the list goes on and goes on...

50.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 01:47 am

51.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 01:49 am

what is new ıraq?

52.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 01:56 am

Susie it is usually the case.
The problem is that the governments spent so many years on both sides doing propaganda for political reasons that any Turk or Greek who never have the chance to know in person a Greek or Turk believes.

It is different in United States since we have the chance to really know each other

I have many great Greek friends whom I trust like I trust my own people and from where I live, the Turkish community and Greek community help each other in many aspects.

I can show you a Greek company which is fanatically supported by Turks and the reverse is true.

My company even uses me with Greek clients because of this fact. They prefer to send me for negotiations and our Greek clients specifically ask for me for assistance. By the way, I am talking about small/medium sized businesses here.

We have so much in common that it still shocks me

53.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:08 am

54.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:23 am

i think prejudicies make us blind sometime,ther r so many reasons for like or love evetyhing,so why we looking for silly and unusefull reasons for don't?take of prejudice glasses enough to see all goodness on everythings,this much easy

55.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:26 am

and to realize everything easier when we been aware of nationality,religions or races just the chance events,and they r only sweet differences on the human life

56.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:28 am

57.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:33 am

friendship land's road pass on ''WORLDİSH'' i think ,so never on to Turkish,,Greek,Spanish,Polish,British,Arabic etc.....

58.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:35 am

59.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:46 am

It is a sad story

They did too much damage, I mean the politicians, and they introduced both sides as monsters. The saddest thing is/was people believed without questioning because they are/were told so while they are/were young enough to accept everything their families/schools told them to believe.

But I guess it is rapidly changing with globalization since people have the chance to do business around the globe and so know/experience relations with each other in person.

Both governments also gave up feeding that kind of propaganda realizing that it is silly and no more benefits since majority of the people are beginning to laugh at them instead of taking their silly propagandas seriously.

But in your case, there are still Turks and Greeks who believe that we are enemies. When you ask them if they ever known a Greek or a Turk, drink together, or hang out together, etc..; the answer is almost always the same; NO. As you mentioned, when you asked them then why this hate is, you probably get something like; “My grand mom told me once… “Or “everybody knows how come you don’t!!” etc...

It is true that in history, we both make mistakes but it is sad that some people insist on basing their beliefs of nations on mistakes. Some people can only want to see the mistakes and prefer to live in past. For this kind of people, saying that you love a Turk or Greek is a strike to what they believe.

I have one friend here like you guys. He fell in love with this gorgeous, wonderful Greek girl and they are getting married. Although he is willing to live in Greece, both of them agreed not to do so, she found a teaching job in UK, and my friend thinks that his future wife’s career is important than his own (mostly because he does not want to make her family think that he ruined her carrier by insisting on staying in United States so he is ruining his, love is a strange thing) so they will be living in UK.

Anyway, as I said I have many great Greek friends that I will not change it for millions (I guess I am a capitalist, the first thing I can thing of as an exchange value was dollars, Arrggh I hate myself hehe lol ).

60.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:50 am

61.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 02:51 am

Quoting HomeSick:

It is a sad story

They did too much damage, I mean the politicians, and they introduced both sides as monsters. The saddest thing is/was people believed without questioning because they are/were told so while they are/were young enough to accept everything their families/schools told them to believe.

But I guess it is rapidly changing with globalization since people have the chance to do business around the globe and so know/experience relations with each other in person.

Both governments also gave up feeding that kind of propaganda realizing that it is silly and no more benefits since majority of the people are beginning to laugh at them instead of taking their silly propagandas seriously.

But in your case, there are still Turks and Greeks who believe that we are enemies. When you ask them if they ever known a Greek or a Turk, drink together, or hang out together, etc..; the answer is almost always the same; NO. As you mentioned, when you asked them then why this hate is, you probably get something like; “My grand mom told me once… “Or “everybody knows how come you don’t!!” etc...

It is true that in history, we both make mistakes but it is sad that some people insist on basing their beliefs of nations on mistakes. Some people can only want to see the mistakes and prefer to live in past. For this kind of people, saying that you love a Turk or Greek is a strike to what they believe.

I have one friend here like you guys. He fell in love with this gorgeous, wonderful Greek girl and they are getting married. Although he is willing to live in Greece, both of them agreed not to do so, she found a teaching job in UK, and my friend thinks that his future wife’s career is important than his own (mostly because he does not want to make her family think that he ruined her carrier by insisting on staying in United States so he is ruining his, love is a strange thing) so they will be living in UK.

Anyway, as I said I have many great Greek friends that I will not change it for millions (I guess I am a capitalist, the first thing I can thing of as an exchange value was dollars, Arrggh I hate myself hehe lol ).

congrats for wonderfull comments brother

62.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:06 am

Quoting MrX67:

congrats for wonderfull comments brother



And also congrats to you , my brother

Quoting susie k:

My husband's very angry about this - hence why it is not discussed! But he always told me that if any Turk saw a Greek in trouble they would be there to help.

Thankyou for your reply



Any day, any time, I can stand one step forward to defend my Greek friends or be there to help them and I know they will do the same for me.

63.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:09 am

64.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:13 am

Quoting susie k:

Really love conquers all. Sometimes I wonder why our life has been so difficult since we met....... The brother and sister who did this used my dead fathers memory against my husband aswell, I know that my Dad would've have loved him....
But I have gained a wonderful husband and I have really found out who my true friends are...

This website has been invaluable for me, I feel so isolated at times..
I just thank God every day for my other sisters and brothers for their help and support.

But most of all I thank him for my husband.

love wins everything susie,and so nice to se you a love winer to friend,and i wish ur happiness get more and more day by day with every simple reasons

65.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:19 am

66.       MrX67
2540 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:21 am

Quoting susie k:

Anyway!!!!!!

ENOUGH!
I don't want to break my heart anymore, we are happy and healthy and lifes too short!

Sorry for posting something so depressing I'm normally very happy!
I work nights and I've just done 3 in a row - everyones sleeping but me and I'm feeling nostalgic!!!!

Thankyou for your replies I feel a lot better now, its nice to hear kind words!

and ur words inspiring us to,so tyvm for shared ur feelings and privates with us

67.       gezbelle
1542 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 03:30 am

i was just wondering what turkish people's thoughts were on australians? because that hasn't been mentioned.

we get taught a lot here about our "shared" history.

68.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 04:16 am

I know about Gallipoli, which we were taught during high school years. We are taught that soldiers from Australia brought to a war in which they did not belong to, and they fought bravely and died bravely for a cause that was not even in their agenda.

As long as I know, Ataturk made a speech addressing to Australian families who lost their children in that war, saying something like "Do not trouble your hearts, your sons are now our sons, we will show the same respect that we are showing to our own soldiers that died here".

But personally, I do not know Australian culture or people and I believe that most of the Turks do not know much about that, too.

69.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 04:32 am

This is out of topic, but I love Australian made Sci-Fi series, Farscape, the best scifi on TV ever. I am a big fan of Farscape series, it was brilliant. When the Sci-Fi channel cancelled the series I was among with the ones who were sending faxes, raising campaigns, forcing Sci-Fi channel to step back with their funny decision lol

They had to air Farscape back! Anyway sorry for hijacking the topic, but truth must be heard

70.       gezbelle
1542 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 04:55 am

i suppose australia is so far away that turkish people wouldn't really see it as a place to go and visit, unless they have family here.

otherwise, they would only really come into contact with australians when they visit turkey as tourists and at the anzac day ceremonies.

71.       HomeSick
137 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 05:24 am

Quoting gezbelle:

i suppose australia is so far away that turkish people wouldn't really see it as a place to go and visit, unless they have family here.

otherwise, they would only really come into contact with australians when they visit turkey as tourists and at the anzac day ceremonies.



I agree with you, mostly at Anzac day ceremonies.

We know very little about Australia that is because of the geography. For most of the European countries, and Eastern countries, we have a history together (politics, wars, being allies, being enemies). But with Australia, we do not have such relations in history which in turn explains why we know very little about each other I guess.

72.       susie k
1330 posts
 14 Aug 2006 Mon 08:24 pm

M

73.       HomeSick
137 posts
 16 Aug 2006 Wed 09:04 am

After gezbelle's post about "shared history" and Anzacs, I found something that I didn't know. It seems that Turkey and Australia, two distant countries, are trying to develop their relationship. Although it is military , it can serve as a a starting point for two nations for further relations. I just wanted to share it

May 13, 2006

Australia and Turkey have signed a new agreement to strengthen defence cooperation.

Head of the Australian Defence Force Air Chief Marshal Angus Houston and Commander of the Turkish Armed Forces General Hilmi Ozkok formalised the arrangements at a ceremony in Canberra.

Air Chief Marshal Houston said it would strengthen the defence relationship between Australia and Turkey.

"The agreement will give Australia and Turkey the flexibility to enhance cooperation in military and defence areas of mutual interest, including ANZAC Day commemorations, defence materiel cooperation and educational exchanges," he said in a statement.

"Australia and Turkey increasingly share global strategic interests that can benefit from closer defence cooperation."

General Ozkok is visiting Australia as a guest of Air Chief Marshal Houston and will meet Governor General Michael Jeffery and Defence Minister Brendan Nelson.

Air Chief Marshal Houston said Turkey was an active member of NATO and was contributing to operations in which Australia was also involved, such as Afghanistan.

74.       gezbelle
1542 posts
 16 Aug 2006 Wed 09:25 am

teşekkürler homesick... i didn't know of these arrangements either. that is pretty interesting.

over here in australia, in our anzac day celebrations, i think in the past few years, turkish ex-soldiers who fought in gallipoli are now honoured and march alongside their australian counterparts in the annual anzac day parades.

the turkish soldiers are the only non-australian "enemies" (so to speak, as we didn't fight for the same side then) who are allowed to march.

the japanese and german ex-soldiers from world war 2, etc. aren't allowed to march.

i think it is because of what happened in gallipoli and the stories of friendship/courtesy between the australians, new zealanders, and turkish soldiers (even though we fought on different sides) that we have been told as we grow up.

75.       cemtar
2 posts
 16 Aug 2006 Wed 09:25 am


AND JAPAN...


Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE

COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?

76.       vonnyz
176 posts
 16 Aug 2006 Wed 07:47 pm

hey...what about Asians. What's the impression of Asian's in turk's eyes.

Asians (includes Japanese, korean, Thais, Malaysians, Indonesians & not forgetting Singaporeans - yours truly)

77.       gezbelle
1542 posts
 17 Aug 2006 Thu 03:15 am

Quoting vonnyz:

hey...what about Asians. What's the impression of Asian's in turk's eyes.

Asians (includes Japanese, korean, Thais, Malaysians, Indonesians & not forgetting Singaporeans - yours truly)



i think turks were confused by me when i was over in turkey.

look asian, speak aussie style lol

78.       MrX67
2540 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 02:11 am

Quoting vonnyz:

hey...what about Asians. What's the impression of Asian's in turk's eyes.

Asians (includes Japanese, korean, Thais, Malaysians, Indonesians & not forgetting Singaporeans - yours truly)

we Turks know Asians with their wonderfull modesty,honesty and hospitality,and at the last years i think Turkish people more interesting in with Asian countries,after heard their big sincere and modesty

79.       geniuda
1070 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 04:19 am

ok. what do we hate here?...a President? a government? or the whole nation? Unfortunately, as part of this nation (USA)I feel included in the list which is not fair. We have become judges when in reality, it is not the whole nation's fault for the decisions made by one individual and his followers. I have met very nice Turkish people here and I can not hate no one regarless of its etnicity or political preferences. I have traveled enough and learned how to appreciate people not its government or who they follow. That is why I feel free to be here with you all, sharing my thoughts. I believe each of us no matter where we are from are nice people, capable of appreciate each other...regardless where are we from.

teşekkür ederim


Quoting sophie:

Well...it's all about politics.
We use to say that we hate this we hate that, but infact we hate Bush (or better the people behind him who decide for him too) or they hate Karamanlis or Erdogan and so on.

I switched on the tv yesteray, during the evening news, which is something I hadn't done for quite a long time. I regretted it from the first moment. It was all about 'the new Turkish challenge' (I have no idea what it is this time) and the 'Turkish minority' in Greece etc.

But I knew that I m a member of a turkish website, I have friends who love me here and i love them back . That i celebrated galatasaray's championship and i partied last night with the turkish entry to eurovision's finals.
Serious or silly, important or not, i find hundreds of reasons each day, to prove that I have my own way of seeing things, my own opinion and an open mind to work all the data i receive .

And that bunch of people who rule my country, can do nothing to persuade me that I should hate a whole nation, for the sins that they or we made in a distant past...

80.       Seticio
550 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:53 am

watching turkish tv you can see that they don't like Israel. And Armenia.

81.       gizmo
30 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 12:26 pm

Yeah we dont ı dont like them either do you know why?No one loves Israel at all.You know what they done.Armenia hah!Coz they are liar.I'm sure everyone knows about so-called Armenian genocide.This is not true!!They'd been living in Ottoman Empire and they'd been safe and sound.After Slav rebellion they decided to be free.They were already free!!!In Ottoman Empire Everyone had got the same benefits.But they betrayed us.In every war so many men are killed.There's another genocides but no one talks about them!!This is not fair.I dont know what the world wants from us.What have we got here???I cant understand sometimes.If someone doesnt hurt us,We dont do that too We are not a fighter people now.
No one misunderstands me please I just wanted to defend my country when ı got a chance

82.       Seticio
550 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 12:50 pm

Yes I know why, I talked about it with my Turkish friend many times and I know you way of thinking. That is why I have written it.

83.       gizmo
30 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 01:00 pm

Yes Thanx I like it I just wanted to write that's all maybe other members might not have known about the facts and ı went into details in brief.Because you know there are 112 statue about that genocide.It looks like there are people who agreed with that lie.

take care

84.       Seticio
550 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 01:09 pm

I think the problem is that there are very many Armenians abroad who are talking about their tradegy ( for them it was a tragedy) but there are no Turkish talking about their version ( maybe it's not the best word). There are 4 million Turkish in Germany but I've never heard them latking about it anywhere. Armenia has stron lobby abroad but Turkish seem not to think about it much. Maybe the problem is that most of Turkish in Germany go there as workers, generally not educated villagers and they thougt more about making money than about history of their country..

85.       gizmo
30 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 01:48 pm

You're right our people are unreactive.But ı can say that we're tired at all.We have politic problems at all times.We're just trying to save ourselves not our country everyone goes abroad these days.This is wrong next year I'm going to America I know that's wrong but ı have no choice to have a good education.this is a vicious circle I'm sorry about my people

86.       teaschip
3870 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 05:03 pm

Quoting gizmo:

You're right our people are unreactive.But ı can say that we're tired at all.We have politic problems at all times.We're just trying to save ourselves not our country everyone goes abroad these days.This is wrong next year I'm going to America I know that's wrong but ı have no choice to have a good education.this is a vicious circle I'm sorry about my people



I don't think it's wrong at all to go to another country. I believe we are all God's children no matter where we live. I'm American but I have Irish and German descent. Look at history and all of the explorers. There isn't anything wrong with having a devotion for your country and love for other borders. I welcome you to America, who knows you may like it here if you are open-minded.

87.       MrX67
2540 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 05:23 pm

why peoples have prejiducies with unvoluntary things?(nationality,race)i think thats the easier and better to look at life with voluntary things(personality,character)

88.       CANLI
5084 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 07:14 pm

İ don't know about Armenia,and Türkiye,anyone care to explain ?

89.       susie k
1330 posts
 21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:46 pm

90.       roba
6 posts
 16 Sep 2006 Sat 02:18 am

Quoting mltm:

Quoting RICK:

TURKS FIND THEIRSELVES CLOSE TO THE COUNTRIES BELOW (AS I VE SEEN):

OF COURSE AZERBAIJAN - N.CYPRUS - UZBEKISTAN - KAZAKHSTAN - TURKMENISTAN - KIRGIZISTAN

THEN

UKRAINE - GEORGIA - GERMANY (SURPRISING?) - GREECE - SPAIN - ITALY

THENNN

KOREA - INDONESIA - BANGLADESH - PAKISTAN - CUBA - VENEZUELA ( )

WELL THATS ALL I REMEMBER NOW ......

SO THE COUNTRIES THEY DONT LIKE;

FRANCE (NUMBER 1 NOW) - USA - NEW IRAQ

AM I WRONG ABOUT IT?


I don't agree with this very much. I cannot talk for all the turkish people because there're different people in different regions.
I don't think we feel very close to the Turkic countries like Özbekistan, Kazakistan etc. but morely we consider them as cousins
I think we feel closer to Mediterranean countries and Germany.
North Cyprus is ofcourse the small Türkiye
I think a few years ago US was also a favourite country for Turks, well now there're more haters than lovers.
For the countries that Turks don't have much sympathy for might be France as you said although we have historical relationships (well I think the opposite as I'm half french!! ) and ofcourse the arab countries we don't get along very well.
Erhmm, and what can I say about Greece, are we eternal enemies?? but still we have too much common.
Pakistani, Korea are good friends.
For the far east and south america and african countries, I think we're too far to feel something.
Well, I don't like very much making such classifyings since most of the things are political and if people want, all people can get along well and neither of us is very different than the other.


actually i think that turks and arabs are on good terms 2gether since they have the same religion and nearly have the same culture. i mean that they are similar to arabs and to westerns at the same time and arabs love turks and vice versa plus many turkish words are derived from arabic words..they even have similar kinds of food.and when i went there they loved hearing that im from egypt (misir)wutever thats my point of view

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