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4330.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 10:51 pm

 

Quoting Yersu

 

 

How about "sünnet"(cirumcision) for example, I don´t see much difference between these two. A lot of people would think ritual mutilation is a horrible thing but I don´t see it going away anytime soon. This is their culture, they define themselves with it. They brag about the "töre" and are proud of it. You can not pity people who don´t pity themselves, and I don´t care as long as it is not me in front of the barrel.

Female genital mutilation

key facts

  • Female genital mutilation (FGM) includes procedures that intentionally alter or injure female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
  • An estimated 100 to 140 million girls and women worldwide are currently living with the consequences of FGM.
  • In Africa, about three million girls are at risk for FGM annually.
  • The procedure has no health benefits for girls and women.
  • Procedures can cause severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later, potential childbirth complications and newborn deaths.
  • It is mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15 years.
  • FGM is internationally recognized as a violation of the human rights of girls and women.

so how is it similar to circumcision? It´s like saying there´s no difference between cutting your toenails and cutting your toes {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}

 

If it´s such a no big deal, would you do it to your mom?

4331.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 10:54 pm

 

Quoting Yersu

 

 

This is their culture, they define themselves with it.

 

so if there´s a long tradition of cannibalism in a culture, does it mean the world should applaud it and not want it to change? Cool {#emotions_dlg.stoneage}

 

Yersu, I think you just made it to the post of the week thread!

4332.       Yersu
241 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 10:56 pm

How about female circumcision then? It leaves a woman permanently disabled so this could be a better example. Anyway; these are not completely different issues as you claim. The least harmful is sünnet, as you increse the scale you have female circumsicion, as you increase it even further you have blood feuds and honor killings. All are harmful acts dictated by ones culture and I don´t see much difference between them except the scale.

 

(Oops someone seems to have posted about female circumsicion before me, damn I can´t write in English fast enough :S)



Edited (1/19/2010) by Yersu

4333.       ptaszek
440 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 10:57 pm

 

Quoting lemon

 

 

that was an excellent example of diverting the cats for you, miss warsaw!

 

cats post was more on spot and logic.

 

 damn Polish vice,isn´t it?good night!))Ms spiteful)))

4334.       Trudy
7887 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 10:58 pm

 

Quoting Yersu

How about female circumcision then? It leaves a woman permanently disabled so this could be a better example. Anyway; these are not completely different issues as you claim. The least harmful is sünnet, as you increse the scale you have female circumsicion, as you increase it even further you have blood feuds and honor killings. All are harmful acts dictated by ones culture and I don´t see much difference between them except the scale.

 

4335.       Yersu
241 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:04 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

so if there´s a long tradition of cannibalism in a culture, does it mean the world should applaud it and not want it to change? Cool {#emotions_dlg.stoneage}

 

Yersu, I think you just made it to the post of the week thread!

 

How did human society grow out of cannibalism? Was there an intervention? (of aliens lets say). Turkish government has been trying to prevent all these töre related issues, but it just doesn´t work. Every attemp is regarded as an assault on their culture, because they define themselves with töre.

 

Here is the issue: an average Kurd without töre isn´t much different than an average Turk. You can tell these two apart physically but it isn´t as evident as whites and blacks. They practice the same religion, have similar cuisines etc. More than half of Kurds can not speak any Kurdish dialect and %90+ can understand Turkish. Töre and feudal lifestyle is one of those few things(or maybe the only thing) that sets them apart. That´s one of the reasons why complete abolishment of töre = assimilation for them. And this is true to some degree.

4336.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:11 pm

 

Quoting Yersu

 

 

 Turkish government has been trying to prevent all these töre related issues, but it just doesn´t work. Every attemp is regarded as an assault on their culture, because they define themselves with töre.

 

 

Yes, we all know the Turkish government is extremely delicate and culture-sensitive, especially towards the Kurdish, or, shall I say, the mountain Turks´ culture.

 

You´d think a government which does not hesitate to invade other country´s territory in order to do their business should be a bit more successful in fighting crime and providing education. Meanwhile, it´s like leaving those poor girls on their own.

4337.       catwoman
8933 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:29 pm

 

Quoting lemon

so far i have never seen any turk here in tc posting things happen this sad  in turkey or neaighbouring eastern countries to show their outrage or anger. or coming with ideas or wishes to change this.

 

I agree! Which again shows taht some people are only upset when it´s "racism against Turkish people" or "racism of non-Muslims against Muslims", but not when it´s racism OF Turkish people, or Muslims agasint non-Muslims, or Muslims against other Muslims, even when those events are much worse. I am very skeptical when I see people criticizing others who are unable to bear criticism themselves, because they will turn around and do the same thing when THEY are in the position of power. It´s kind of like what´s happening now in Israel...

4338.       Yersu
241 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:35 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

Yes, we all know the Turkish government is extremely delicate and culture-sensitive, especially towards the Kurdish, or, shall I say, the mountain Turks´ culture.

 

You´d think a government which does not hesitate to invade other country´s territory in order to do their business should be a bit more successful in fighting crime and providing education. Meanwhile, it´s like leaving those poor girls on their own.

How about honor killings amongst immigrants in Europe? Shouldn´t European countries succeed where Turkey seems to have failed, fighting crime and education? Last time I checked they are even more common there.

4339.       catwoman
8933 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:37 pm

 

Quoting Yersu

 

 

Why would Turkish people get offended by that? This is how it was and how it will be, Kurds just won´t give up the feodal lifestyle and "töre". I have heard supposedly leftist/liberal DTP´s parliament members defend the "töre" with my own ears. This isn´t a simple education issue, it´s cultural. Any action against töre is regarded as an attempt of assimilation. We don´t have any choice but to let them practice their culture as they please.

 

That´s just ridiculous and racist. You are saying that Kurds are primitive, backwards people unable of making intelligent decisions. Yes, it may be their culture, but I am sure that there are progressive people amongst them who wish things could change, if only there were fair laws applied in fair ways. But of course that Kurds won´t trust Turks who at the same time put them to prison for celebrating their holidays.



Edited (1/19/2010) by catwoman

4340.       armegon
1872 posts
 19 Jan 2010 Tue 11:52 pm

 

Quoting lemon

 

 

{#emotions_dlg.unsure}

 

i dont know. they get offended by anything.

 

 

 

Haha, tell this to those who starts the sentence "firstly im not christian but" & "it is horrible however" etc, ok lemon the nightmare of zurna players?

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