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10 Mar 2008 Mon 04:14 pm |
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Actually,that wasnt exactly what i meant,
First to be fair, let's not say all guys,let's eliminate this with the percentage of men who already doing so,
The Muslim men who are married to more than to 1 woman,and the men who are having double affairs.
İm saying,when it is in İslam marrying another women should be for some reasons and with some conditions,but most men who are marrying a second wife dont even have those excuses,and just using it to marry another woman !
An in the other hand,non muslims doing the same thing but not by marriage 'because its not allowed' but by having another afair,so the result in the end he is having another woman in his life also.
İ wasnt refering to whom is carrying responsibility and wether he is carrying it r not.
Second,you got it wrong,women in İslam have the choice whether to accept her husband marrying another woman or not.
İt wont stop him also of course,but one of the conditions in the second marrige that he must inform his first wife about it BEFORE remarrying,and its her choice,if she accept that he will marry again and she be still his wife,or to have the divorce,and leave him.
So actually,YES she can divorce him if he remarry,its her right to do it by İslam rules.
And normally,women dont have more than 1 relation,i am aware of course that women do cheat too,so that means they do have more than 1 man ,but still its very minor percentage of women who do so
So wehther she is married or in a relationship ,she mostly be faithful to one man.
İts happening with Muslim women,and non Muslim women also
And i didnt say ALL non educated women would live prostitute life,that was the extream of course,or an exaggeration ,still some also did,but surelly you also cant deny life wont be easy for none educated women,even if they work,their income wont provide an easy life for them
But of course knowing that she will always have the financial support,wehther she is working or not,wether she used it or not,would make it lots easier so,as you say she wouldnt have to live under mercy for a husband she is not comfortable with.
İ agree that women in West ''not non Muslims women,because our Christians women in the East are same as Muslims..its Traditions matter also'' have freedom than women in East.
But,as for Muslim women,if they 'Men and women' follow the rules of İslam,women would be free too.
So,she would be free to marry who she wants,and divorce him if she wants ' and society wont be looking bad at her,because its her right by İslam'
And remarry again if she wants.
Women can satisfy their needs also in the concept of marriage.
İts not just İslamic thing,but having affairs out of marriage is a sin in all religions,so we dont see it as freedom.
So i actually cant say that its women right to become prostitutes,it would be like saying its the thief right to be a theif !
But actually,who is not free is the Christian women,you see,in Christianity,its not allowed to get divorce,and who get it is rejected from church ''in my country its this way,we are Orthodocs here'' and if she got the divorce in civilian courts ''asking to be divorced accourding to Muslims rules'' she wont be able to remarry again in church
So,...she is hocked !
Anyway,Muslims or non Muslims,women still have way to gain their rights!
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