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06 Oct 2007 Sat 05:04 pm |
Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting CANLI:
That is really boring,and offending too to lable people of the country 'men or women' with some personal experience !
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Well, isnt that how we all see things, through our own personal experiences? Isn't 'No I have a friend who..' a common arguement for 'defenders' to say that not all are that way? |
Actually,no
Mature people dont do that !
So,if i have a bad experience with an Egyptian man,so all Egyptian men are bad ?
Then if i have another experience with a Turk,or Birt,or what ever,then i would lable all the people with my own experience ?
We take lessons through our personal experiences,but we dont lable
Lots of women here had bad experiences with Turk,then now they are married to another Turk,so i guess they didnt lable it,they just took lessons.
Quoting Deli_kizin:
I am in love with a Turkish man, but I do not feel offended when someone says that the girls who love Tyrkish men are naive. Simply because I know they have to generalize in the discussion and dont specifically mean my case. And I dont feel the need to defend myself, because I do not feel insulted.
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You dont feel offended,but other women do.
There was an attack in another thread for the women just because she is having a relationship with a Turk,and even the woman didnt complain about it.
Some women left here because of that,so that means they really felt offended about it.
They dont defend themselves too,but they say,''Heyy,we dont like it'' its their rights .
Quoting Deli_kizin:
I agree that such threads have become boring as there is no 'final conclusion'. But saying that 'not everyone is like that', doesnt deny that there ARE people who are like that. It is a common effect that a small group can ruin it for the bigger group, but asking 'what are you doing on this website' is not the way to change the impression. The way to change it, is to make the small group stop ruining it for the bigger group. |
İ agree with you 'what are you doing on this website' is not the way to change the impression,it was a way to say 'we FED UP about it' but again,i dont agree with that too.
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