Hello,
I really wrote about this subject heading to get an insight into this part of Muslim culture I wanted to read about the whole ceremony and how the days events are undertaken, I have since spoke to Nesrin about this and yesterday they through a party for the boy in question. He had the operation a few days ago and now is recovering in a larger more comfortable bed which was arranged by his parents. Nes was at the party where family and friends brought gifts for the young boy, she said she wished I was there to witness this traditional ceremony I would have liked to have been.

Living in England we have not such good traditions and we rarely have this type of culture that brings everybody together at one time and celebrate these occassions. I for one would like to take part in as much of these occasions as possible and really feel part of my new family and new friends I have made. I am going to make a confession here I recently had a circumcision myself why there was no particulary need to have this done but I do now respect my new fiancee and my new life and wanted to feel part of this new life, the only thing is I did not have a party to celebrate

Hello,
I was talking to my fiancee and one of her best friends boy is going to have a circumcision and she is invited to the party afterwards I do not know alot about this ceremony but understand why it is done. She told me that Eddis who is nine will have a nice big comfortable bed afterwards and he will also have a party where family and friends bring gifts. When my fiancee's nephew had this performed he wore a white suit I found it a very proud moment for the family in this tradition and Nes showed me his picture.

I bought Nesrin some nice wedge shoes with open toes as a gift when she comes to England, I think feet are quite nice if they are cared for well

Hi paulam594
I have only just last week come through this process for my Turkish fiancee and this was after her first refusal, my advice paulam is to have one sole sponsor, it could be your mum or dad just someone with a healthy bank balance but remember when sending this evidence to your boyfriend to scrub out the account number. I have been reading alot about this process and also visited my local M.P. and there advice was to have one sole sponsor, when you have more than one it is more information they have to check for. The second most important rule is to ensure he has enough money in his bank account even if he lends some money to show a healthy balance they want to see that he can support himself when he comes to the U.K. I would also strongly reccomend you see your local M.P. to obtain a letter to supply with all your other documents I am sure this is a huge help. Best of luck

Hi
Can someone write me a birthday message for an e-card I want to send to my fiancee's sister. I have wrote a few sentances but want to make sure they are right first. Thanks very much

Dear Nil,
Wishing you a very happy birthday Nil, have a good day dear I wish you could have come to England with Nes also. Take care look after yourself
Best wishes Rich xxx