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Thread: what caught my eye today

1171.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Oct 2009 Thu 10:44 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

What are you talking about it?

We have given  70.000 deads over this subject!!!

I explained this 100 times.. 

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT WE, TURKS, SAY "the word Turk refers to a person living in Turkey".

When I say ´Ne mutlu Turkum diyene´, does somebody perceive the word TURK as an ethnic identity?

 

............and a Caucasian is a white person.....????? It´s a pecularity of linguistics....and some exploit it for different reasons.  Maybe we should call countries by numeric formulas?

 

There seems to be a trend now to define countries by a single ethnicity...silly.........nobody is pure anything.....we are all related.

 

If you have not noticed the English have quite a varied look....because they are a mix of different tribes...

same is true of the Germanic groups...Saxons, Teuton, Franks............and on and on..... Then there are the Celts.....

 

You are falling into a trap.....Turk is both a nationality......and an ethnic derivation.............as is a Pole an ethnic derivation and a nationality name....like a Caucasian....and it goes on and on.....you make it a big deal....what do you want to do....rename the country?



Thread: what caught my eye today

1172.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Oct 2009 Thu 10:33 pm

 

Quoting teaschip

 

 

 In Other Words....although I don´t know anyone accept for Alameda that uses this.<img src='/static/images/smileys//lol.gif' alt='lol'> (fast)

 

my..........you live such a sheltered life....



Thread: what caught my eye today

1173.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Oct 2009 Thu 10:32 pm

 

Quoting teaschip

 

 Yes, I realize that if you are a citizen..but what if I´m not?  Am I still a Turk?

 

 

Language is filled with these discrepancies......tell me....do you,, or others, consider you Caucasian?

 

...........so what part of the Caucasus are you from?



Thread: what caught my eye today

1174.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Oct 2009 Thu 08:25 pm

 

Quoting teaschip

So if I´m not a Turk living there..I still have to recite I am a Turk?  Strange..not a good way to embrace multi cultures.

 

If you are a citizen of the Republic of Turkey, you are a Turk

 

Citizens of Poland are called Poles....and the Poles are just one tribe of the Slavic tribes of what is now the Polish State....much like many countries took the name of whatever dominante tribe was there...like Germany...and German tribes...

 

IOW...this is much ado about nothing...........

 



Thread: what caught my eye today

1175.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Oct 2009 Thu 06:33 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

I can´t believe my ears. The girl´s consent had nothing to do, she was underage and thus it was a rape. She may not hold a grudge agains him but still, it´s a prosecuted crime! Polanski´s tough life is no excuse for what he did and his being an artist is even less important - Hitler was a painter, right? Yet somehow we don´t try to justify him.

 

My opinion is that he should be handed over to the US judicial system, tried and sentenced not only for the rape but also for escaping the States 31 years ago (he was arrested and then they gave him 3 months or weeks to finish shooting his film. He used this opportunity to flee the country)

 

I agree with you...she had no way to consent....not only was she under age, he also drugged the poor thing.  I really feel the girl (now a woman) has been humiliated enough. It´s tragic she has to go through all the publicity again, it´s too bad there isn´t a way to protect her identity.

 

Just because someone is a great artist, does not make them a saint.  How about Leni Riefenstahl?  Nobody can dispute her artistry....maybe it´s more about the victim?  Are female rape victims not important?

 

I can´t believe there is any dispute about the criminality of his action.



Thread: Looking for a turkish husband

1176.       alameda
3499 posts
 30 Sep 2009 Wed 02:23 am

 

Quoting Reema

I am an Arab girl 24 years old . I have finished university and I am working now .

To be honest with you I am so tired from the Arab men . They have a lot of disadvantages . This is why I have been thinking to move to Turkey to find a job and a husband .

I need your help

I am so desperate

 

 

 

Arab girl? What kind of Arab? As I understand, there is a great deal of diversity in the Arab world.  For instance are you from Saudi, Yemen, Palestine, Oman, Dubai, Lebanon.....or....Tunisia.......or?  Turkey also has a great deal of diversity.

  Most men do not find desperation appealing.  In fact most people run away from anyone who displays desperation.



Thread: Relationship among the Internet usage and the loneliness of Turkish adolescents

1177.       alameda
3499 posts
 29 Sep 2009 Tue 12:44 am

 

Quoting _AE_

 

 

You have frequently referred to "the good old days" in many social matters - including sexual and family ethics.  I have no idea of your age, but this is rather typical of people who spent their childhood during the hypocritically puritanical 1950s.  They seem to assume that these "values" that were fashionable in that decade had been around for centuries when, in fact, they were merely a social reaction to the promiscuity that existed during the two world wars and the very radical social and sexual revolution which took place in the 1920s.

 

The chocolate box image you seem to have of "community" and "family" are exclusive to the middle classes of that era only and in those "good old days" there were no safe places for those children to run if they were being abused or hurt - such matters were swept under the carpet for fear of precious family reputations being bruised.  It has been well documented that in many villages and communities there were often networks of paedofilies, often including local prominent figures like police officers, teachers, local politicians who would abuse children in that community with no fear of reprisals.   Some of these stories are only just coming to light thanks to the removal of taboos and the superior treatment of victims that exists now.

 

Your statement above infuriates me in it´s ignorance.

 

 

I think you misread my comment, or I didn´t make myself clear.  What I said is the total community ("It takes a village") needs to be involved in child care, child safety.  My "good old days" comment was in quotations, if you notice.

 

You are correct, child abuse, exploitation is not new.  It has been going on a long time.  In the past, it was a tabu subject.  Now that it is openly discussed and we are seeing more of it, parents and those responsible for the well being of children have become overly protective.  There must be a better way.



Edited (9/29/2009) by alameda [edit]



Thread: Relationship among the Internet usage and the loneliness of Turkish adolescents

1178.       alameda
3499 posts
 28 Sep 2009 Mon 07:49 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

There is a certain amount of fear in letting your children outside alone.  I think most parents are always fearful of the worst.  However, there isn´t any reason why, as a parent, you can not go outside with your kid/s and play with them.  What is better than going outside to play after working all day....NOTHING!  I think adults take life a bit too seriously and we are teaching our kids to do the same.  Besides, playing ball or riding a bike with your kids everyday is MUCH cheaper than any gym. My opinion is that some parents have really messed up priorities and they are missing out on the joys of parenthood by being "too busy."  

 

I agree with most of what you say Elisabeth.  I think another issue is...."it takes a village" type mentality. In the "Good Old Days"...lol....community members took more responsibility for the children............

 

Another issue is....children need time to be with other children.  There is a time for parents to play with their children and a time for them to be with other children.

 

Parents and responsible adults need to be aware of where their children are.



Edited (9/28/2009) by alameda [edit]



Thread: Relationship among the Internet usage and the loneliness of Turkish adolescents

1179.       alameda
3499 posts
 28 Sep 2009 Mon 01:39 am

 

Quoting teaschip

..............I just look around my neighborhood to see that.  Back in the day....now I sound really old.  Big smile  We use to play outside from sunrise to sundown..You rarely even see kids come out of their house now.  The cause...technology...computer games, internet, email and text messaging.

 

I think the reason you don´t see many children playing outside is because of the fear of child abduction.  Given some of the news lately, it seems to be a well founded fear. Look at the case of poor little 11 year old Jaycee Dugard, Elisabeth Smart...............and sadly a very long list of stolen children.

 



Edited (9/28/2009) by alameda [fix broken link]



Thread: What are you reading?

1180.       alameda
3499 posts
 27 Sep 2009 Sun 05:44 pm

Stiff

The curious life of human cadavers

 

by Mary Roach

 

It was certainly interesting.  I heard inverviews with the author numerous times, and thought it sounded interesting.  Still, it´s not something I probably would have bought, given the subject, but I found it during one of my garage sale adventures being sold for one dollar. How could I resist?

 

Anyone who is thinking about making a donation of their own cadaver would well benefit from reading this book.

 

 

 

 



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