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Thread: what caught my eye today

1481.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 May 2009 Mon 02:36 am

 

Quoting birdy

 

 right,ladybirds have a special charisma in Slavic nations..but we also say guest and fish stink after 3 days which is so similar to Turkish saying..anyway<personally I prefer ladybirds than invasion of unexpected guests)

 

 

Yes, it´s tragic the art of being a good guest is not taught.  Most the time it´s too quickly improvised.



Thread: Gay pleas for help fall on deaf ears

1482.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 May 2009 Mon 02:30 am

 

Quoting birdy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-3X5hIFXYU

thinking to convert..............

 

Interesting video....somewhat alarmist. I´ve always wondered how they come up with such statistics? One can´t guarantee the children of anyone will adopt their belief system, particularly in today´s climate. 

 

I do think most people will weigh the altermatives and come up with their own belief system.



Thread: What is your mood today?

1483.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 May 2009 Mon 02:26 am

 

Quoting birdy

at cancer ward

a snatch of a talk as I spent there so much time

auntie..am I beautiful...a girl of 6 asks

yes canim u r

but I don t have hair

who cares...

I do....auntie..I doooooo

lovely,bold 6 year old lady wishing only to fly in a ballon....

 

Mmy prayers and well wishes go out for all who suffer.

 



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Thread: Gay pleas for help fall on deaf ears

1484.       alameda
3499 posts
 23 May 2009 Sat 04:28 am

 

Quoting birdy

if u have time guys)

 


Yes, that is a famous book....but I disagree....this statement in particular....

"First, differences among civilizations are not only real; they are basic. Civilizations are differentiated from each other by history, language, culture, tradition and, most important, religion."

The more we study human history, the more we realize we share the same family.  Look at the DNA....it´s in there...our similarities outweigh our differences. Only when cultures/civilizations try to impose what is different on others, problems ensue. That imposition comes out of a feeling of deficiency. (need more, don´t have enough, need to feel important)

We are more similar as human beings, (I might add, fellow mammals)  than different. In reality, very few want much other than to be able to life their lives unobstructed. It is only the fear (which books like this encourage) of being forced to adopt other ways they negatively react.

Even if one looks at religion, at their hearts, there is more similarity between them than disparity. Our basic needs, our basic values are the same.  In reality, we are one.

Years ago there were no sushi bars, nobody heard of shiatsu...soy sauce...?...Thai food was unheard of,.....but now you see these proliferating all over the place.  People extract what they like from other cultures more than they want to go to war with them....unless they are manipulated.

“Naturally the common people don´t want war; neither in Russia, nor in England, nor in America, nor in Germany. That is understood. But after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine policy, and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is to tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.”  so said Hermann Göring.

Is that true?  Ultimately we all want the most is to be loved and to love. We want to be part of the loving family.........when we fix our hair, get new cloths, it´s to make ourselves more lovable......

 

How about this?

The Second Forum of the Alliance of Civilizations



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Thread: Gay pleas for help fall on deaf ears

1485.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 11:39 pm

 

Quoting birdy

 Alameda)in my opinion ppl are ppl no matter what colour of their skin is,no matter what God they pray,no matter what values they go for..

 

Of course they are.....!

 

However....a wise friend of mine once noted that humans are in essence "herd creatures". We have gone the range of clans, tribes and herds...to what we have today.

 

I´ve read that tribal society is the most efficient.....This social (herd nature) is probably why we have a difficulty being more inclusive.



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Thread: Have u heard of it and what do u think???

1486.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 11:04 pm

 

Quoting birdy

Codex alimentarius-the author Fritz Termeer-The German Scientist-working with Dr Mengele in Auschwitz-sentenced in Norimberge for 7 years- after 4 years of prison saved by Americans in brain drain programme.In 1955 became a member od Bayer firm,in1956 its chairmain..the codex is now taken into consideration by EU.One of the codex aim is forbiding cultivation and selling of herbs,non-conventional medicine progress..huhhhh???

 

Ewww....is this for real?  There has been a similar program in the US.....being a passionate advocate of herbs....and alternative medicine (homeopathic)....me too  What the hell! Huhhh? 

 

I´ve noticed hardly anyone knows about vinegar or baking soda for acid indigestion anymore....get a Tums...or Pepto-Bismo..or they are encouraged to get trteatment for Acid Reflux Syndrome



Thread: Gay pleas for help fall on deaf ears

1487.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 10:17 pm

 

Quoting birdy

what a strange swift from homosexuals into coloured ppl.like from world crises into swine flue...and all this political correctness..black is black,white is white ..what is wrong with it???

 

Well, maybe because black is not black and white is not white....as far as people go anyway..........

 

I think as the world gets smaller and we are confronted with each other, our old ideas change. 

 

It´s interesting to note that in the "good old days"  many cultures didn´t even consider different humans to be human.  The Chinese called white people Red Devils....other Asians called them round eyes....Jewish people call none Jews Goyim, the Romany (aka Gypsies) people call "others" Gadge.....the Japanese called "others" Gaijin..and had to be forced to trade with Europeans.

 

Actually in this area there is a great amount of improvement in intercultural relations....most people admit to "others" being human.



Thread: What Made You Scared Today

1488.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 08:05 pm

Moving the curtains to get a better look at my window boxes, I saw a very large spider! ScaredSeeing as I don´t like to kill things, it was a problem figuring out what to do with it.  My cats were anxious to get at it, but I was afraid it could have been a brown recluse...thus dangerous to them...and me....

 

In the end it was coaxed into a large glass jar and sent to a new home...in an abandoned building.

 

It wasn´t a brown recluse...in the glass jar I could inspect the details.



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Thread: what caught my eye today

1489.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 07:44 pm

 

Quoting DaveT

It´s not in my Redhouse as such, but I was told that one of the Turkish names for ladybug is lucky bug.

 

I was talking with some friends in eastern Turkey when I spotted a ladybug on a concrete walkway where it was in danger of being stepped on. I got it to crawl onto my hand and put it in some bushes. My friends (most of whom spoke little English) seemed to respect this quite a bit and one of them told me that it´s name was lucky bug and it was good that I had rescued it.

 

They wanted to tell me more but we couldn´t communicate well enough to share further details.

 

Nice...there is a tale here that they bring good luck if you hold them in your hand,  tell them a wish &  let them free, your wish has a very good chance of being granted.

 

I found these ladybug legends here....this site has some amazing photos!

 

HOW THE LADYBUG GOT ITS NAME:

Legends vary about how the Ladybug came to be named, but the most common (and enduring) is this:   In Europe, during the Middle Ages, swarms of insects were destroying the crops.  The farmers prayed to the Virgin Mary for help.  Soon thereafter the Ladybugs came, devouring the plant-destroying pests and saving the crops!  The farmers called these beautiful insects "The Beetles of Our Lady", and - over time - they eventually became popularly known as "Lady Beetles".  The red wings were said to represent the Virgin´s cloak and the black spots were symbolic of both her joys and her sorrows.

LADYBUG LEGENDS:

Nearly ALL cultures believe that a Ladybug is lucky.
Killing one is said to bring sadness and misfortune.

In France, if a Ladybug landed on you, whatever ailment
you had would fly away with the Ladybug.

If a Ladybug is held in the hand while making a wish,
the direction that it flies away to shows where
your luck will come from.

If the spots on the wings of a Ladybug are more than seven,
it´s a sign of coming famine.  If less than seven, it means
you will have a good harvest.

In Belgium, people believed that if a Ladybug crawled across
a young girl´s hand, she would be married within a year.

People in Switzerland told their young children
that they were brought to them, as babies, by Ladybugs.
...and we thought Storks did that)!

In some Asian cultures, it is believed that the Ladybug understands
human language, and has been blessed by God, Himself.

In Brussels, the black spots on the back of a Ladybug indicate to the
person holding it how many children he/she will have.

According to a Norse legend, the Ladybug came to earth
riding on a bolt of lightning.

  
The Victorians in Britain believed that if a Ladybug alighted on your
hand, you would be receiving new gloves.....if it landed on your head,
a new hat would be in your future, and so on.

In the 1800´s, some doctors used Ladybugs to treat measles!  They
also believed that if you mashed ladybugs (ewww!) and put them
into a cavity, the insects would stop a toothache!

During the Pioneer days, if a family found a Ladybug in their log cabin
during the winter, it was considered a "Good Omen".

In the Spring, if numerous Ladybugs are seen flying around,
British farmers say it forecasts many bountiful crops.

Many Bretons believe that the arrival of Ladybugs will bring fair weather.

Folklore suggests if you catch a Ladybug in your home, count the number
of spots and that´s how many dollars you´ll soon find.

In Norway, if a man and a woman spot a Ladybug at the same time,
there will be a romance between them.

 



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Thread: Gay pleas for help fall on deaf ears

1490.       alameda
3499 posts
 22 May 2009 Fri 06:29 pm

 

Quoting lessluv

I think the reference ´coloured´ is a better descripter for a white person.....

 

Actually...there is a lot of truth in that.  I was once with a group of women, all whom had black hair and brown eyes.  There was a third woman not there being discussed.  One of the women said (not in a disparaging manner at all), " XXX is so colorful with her blond hair, blue eyes and pink skin". I thought about that and concluded what she was saying was very true.

 

Most "white" people are very colorful.  After all,blue/purple varicose veins, those drinkers noses are much more colorful on "white" people.  When they bruise, they get really colorful.....purple...yellow...and when they get sunburned...they turn very pink.



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