I am an Arab girl 24 years old . I have finished university and I am working now .

To be honest with you I am so tired from the Arab men . They have a lot of disadvantages . This is why I have been thinking to move to Turkey to find a job and a husband .

I need your help

I am so desperate

Çiçek = flower

Here is the difference between bit and bitir:

Bit(mek) is a reflexive verb (in the Romance languages,pseudo-reflexive) . Bitir(mek) is its transitive form. 

(1) ödev bitti

(2) ödevimi bitirdim

In (1), the subject is the patient of the action,i.e.it is the thing affected by the action, not the one that performs it. In (2), the subject is the agent of the action finishing the homework.In fact, the patient is the same in both sentences...

We use -(d)ir suffix to transfer a verb from reflexive to transitive:

bit(mek) - bit.ir(mek)

bat(mak) - bat.ýr(mak)

kan(mak) - kan.dýr(mak) 

deðiþ(mek) - deðiþ.tir(mek)

Giving an example in English will make it easier to understand: 

(1) The cup broke

(2) I broke the cup

Another example in Turkish, Spanish and English:

Tekne battý

El barco se hundió 

The boat sank

This is not the same as passive voice.

Tekne (korsanlar tarafýndan) batýrýldý.

El barco fue hundido (por pirates).

The boat was sunk (by pirates)

 Look here you have a grammar book for intermediate level  . Try it !

When I come I want to make sure I have an honest guide.

Can I trust you to help me around?

I want to make sure I do not buy too many