I would like to know if women do military service in Turkey.I never heard of it but wondered about it.

I would like to know Admin if the moderators and admin are viewing peoples private messages-if so they are not "private" are they and people should be made aware of that.

I will try to write something in Turkish!
anlamiyorum

I studied world religions as part of my degree and like to have discussions with people about their beliefs and practices. I have a lot of respect for Islam and increasingly think I may study more in depth and perhaps convert. It is actually a very peaceful and respectful religion and really too many people in the West misunderstand Islam it is good to discuss things so people can be educated.

I don't know-I am new to this Website so I do not know how it works if it is possible to change the decisions.I just feel it is a rather over the top reaction to what was clearly a very heated debate Konat.

I understand that Attila but I ask you are we adults or small children that we cannot have such a discussion.

It gets boring just reading all the women talking about their Turkish darlings etc!!

i just wanted to express that i feel sad that you feel the need to impose a rule that no discussion is allowed about politics and religion.

I have a great interest in both these subjects and it is a shame that they cannot be discussed in a respectful way so that people can share knowledge and opinion without becoming aggressive and offensive.

I agree with everybody-you have only one life and you deserve to be happy as does your baby. It would be different if your husband was being a good man to you then maybe you would have something to feel guilty about but he is treating you badly so does not deserve you. My Father was an abusive man-I won't give all the details but for ayear my Mother secretly saved money and when she had enough she waited until he went to the pub one night and then quietly took myself and my brother and travelled overnight to get away. Take control of your life if you start planning now you could have the chance of a life filled with love and joy-instead of tears and pain.

Your darling in Turkey sounds a good man- sit very still for long time listen to your heart and it will tell you what you should do!!!

If this man di really love you he would work hard-extra hours extra jobs to get the money to come see you. I think you are lonely and vulnerable at present time. Enjoy chatting with these guys but take time to get to know him better and if he is angsy towards you when you will not send the money then I do not thing he can be a good person.

Is it just basic possessiveness-ownership.
Or maybe -I have seen the way some European girls behave in Turkey-maybe it is beleived we all are capable of such behaviour