Nightingale thanks so much for helping me out ... Thanks to you I think I get the gist of it

Please can someone translate this song.

Kaybettik Biz

Bir nefeste aldım seni
Bin nefeste çıkmaz oldun
Tam göğsüme bastım seni
Sevmek varken uyunur mu

Ne diyor ne diyor yeni aşklar
Bahar oluyor mu sert kışlar
Yanılıyorumdur inşallah
Gözlerinde telaş var

Acı sözler sarf ettik biz
Birbirimizi incittik biz
Acı sözler sarf ettik biz
Nerden baksan kaybettik biz

The distance & language barriers don't help do they? I empathise. I am in a similar position to you. On & off. And never sure which way it is cutting.

Other girls - I only know when I was in Istanbul the guys there were not exactly monogamous. I was chatted up by one while his girlfriend was a few tables away (a friend of his told me later Later one man told me it was a game...see who could score the most foreign girls.
Now maybe it was just the area I was in - but this made me think...

A poem though - that's got to be a good sign?

Hi xkirstyx you seem to know? So, what's it really like? And is it like this for everyone? Or do some of us 'westerners' find eternal happiness with Turkish men?
Is it true that we are just amenities & conviniences after marriage or is that very narrow thinking? I don't mean to offend anyone - there are bad people everywhere but it just seems from talking to other woman there are definate problems linked to what? Culture? Conditioning? - probably it cuts both ways? But it just seems so many woman seem unhappy after marrying Turkish men.