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1.       Tanja
120 posts
 04 Jun 2007 Mon 02:15 pm

Am going to my first turkish wedding and have some questions:

What is going on?

What do you wear?

Gifts?

Anything that could be helpful

Thanks

2.       kurtlovesgrunge
1435 posts
 04 Jun 2007 Mon 02:24 pm

Babylon Weddings has provided information on various weddings in culture, styles, just in case you are going to a different wedding and want to know what is done at a particluar cultured wedding. below is an Turkish wedding:



There are different kinds of wedding ceremonies in Turkey. The forms of ceremonies depend on the social and economic status of couples and their families. In the rural areas, they are different from the wedding ceremonies of urban areas. In the villages, the wedding ceremonies continue for two days. There are two separate wedding ceremonies, one in the home of the bride's family and one in the home of the groom's family.
The ceremonies start Friday evening and finish Sunday noon when the groom's relatives take the bride from the home of the bride's family and bring her to the groom's home. After that, the groom's relatives and the bride's relatives have lunch together, and the bride and groom are left alone in their new home.



When a couple decides to marry, the son's family makes an appointment with the daughter's family to get permission for the couple to marry. If the daughter's family accepts this wedding, the engaged couple decides the date of the wedding ceremony together with their families. The bride's family buys some gifts and furniture for their son-in-law, and the groom's family buys some gifts and furniture for their daughter-in-law before the wedding ceremony.
Both the bride's family and the groom's family invite their relatives to the wedding ceremony which is held in a hotel ballroom at dinner time. At the beginning of the ceremony, when the couple enters the ceremony hall, the wedding march is played and the ladies of the court accompany them.
The bride and groom sit together at the table. Their witnesses sit at their right side, and a government officer who does the wedding paperwork sits at the left side of the couple. The government officer talks about the wedding and asks both the couple and their witness about the wedding. After the couple their witnesses and the government officer sign the wedding certificate, the government officer announces that the couple
is officially married.
And then, the bride and groom kiss each other and dance the first dance. After that, their relatives offer some gifts. At the end of the ceremony, the wedding cake is cut by the bride and groom and pictures are taken of the relatives as a group. Then, the newly married couple stays in that hotel their first night. The next day, they go on a honeymoon trip.
If the couple can't afford to have the wedding ceremony in a hotel ballroom with a dinner, they can have a small ceremony in one of the government sedding ceremony halls without a dinner or something like a party.



3.       Aysenur
45 posts
 08 Jun 2007 Fri 05:08 pm

Hello tanja

The guests give gifts usually "gold".
But it depends of the relation you have with the bride...
If you are a close relative to her you buy gold bracelet if not you can buy a gold penny which is approximativly 50 lira
and you will attach this gold penny on the dress of the bride...

PS; you can find those penny in every jewelery in Turkey.

4.       nur1
427 posts
 08 Jun 2007 Fri 05:18 pm


http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio3/world/onyourstreet/turkishweddings.shtml

5.       Tanja
120 posts
 09 Jun 2007 Sat 04:30 pm

A more specific question:

I'm going to my my fiancée sisters weeding this summer. Am İ suppose to buy a gift by my self or together with him, since we are not married yet???

6.       aslı
342 posts
 12 Jun 2007 Tue 12:10 am

You should ask this to your fiancee. Because of she is his siste he must already buy her gift, if he did not ask him if you can share. It is much polite to have a speacial gift for your sister in law anyway.

7.       azade
1606 posts
 12 Jun 2007 Tue 03:56 pm

I'm going to a wedding as well, it's my brother in laws daughter who's getting married and I know her somewhat well so I'd like to buy her some earrings or something. I don't want to buy a coin cause I think it's inpersonal and she can't really use for anything. I have some but I never used them for anything at all. How expensive are earrings typically? I want to buy the kind of gold they usually sell in Turkey, it's 22k or something, right (yani kind of yellow)?

Tanja regarding the clothes it depends on where you are going and if the family is somewhat traditional or more western oriented.

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