maybe you could find answer for this question....why always in life is  that when you are happy and yours dreams started to comes true....coming event which putting you to deep darkness , without any light in....as longer im thinking abou it as longer i cant find an explanation....

what must we do to hold happiness and hope ??? is there any way??

 Answer is very easy. you cant get whatever you want in this world. we are not in the heaven caným. for you it s a darkness, but u dont know it s a new start!!!

I wait more optimistic posts from you. From ur posts I can guess why u are unhappy and why u write this even I have noý idea about you and your life

 To me, it all depends on your perspective.  I think happiness is something that you choose, not something that happens to you.  It doesn´t fall out of the sky and rain on you like a storm.  Bad things happen sometimes....it doesn´t have to be the end of the world. 

I believe some people feel that happiness comes from external forces.  Most of these people can only be happy for short periods of time....like when everything is "going their way".  Some people choose to be happy no matter what happens.  They choose to see the bright side of situations.  I think a lot depends on your disposition and your belief system. 

  Be happy, foka......life is very short!

thank you for good wishes and yes today is a bit better but still not much bright...

i try to be optimist mostly and when im working with people ( im psychologist) i try to show them this light in darkness....only sometimes is hard to find for yourself ....

but life is life and with sure would be bright one day

greetings to everybody

hugs

 What a life this would be if everyone could be happy all the time.  But were human we have emotions. Some people are dealt a great hand, then others aren´t so lucky.  I do believe you have control, but only partially.  Try to turn something that is negative into a positive and learn from your experience.  Good luck!

You are totaly right Teas...

once again thank you ...and Good Luck for you too