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finding love in turkey?
1.       takecoverdude
1 posts
 18 Aug 2010 Wed 10:19 pm

I just got home from alanya, and I can´t stop thinking of this guy I met there. He works as a bartender so i met him when I was having drinks with my girlfriends. He gave me roses and told me how beautiful. He was very kind and we went out that night together. Now I can´t help to wonder if this is something he sais to all tourist girls who comes to his bar.. He was just so adorable, so I hope he ment it.

 

Anyone who has experience of this??

2.       oeince
582 posts
 18 Aug 2010 Wed 10:46 pm

If i were you, i would just remember that as a nice memory without thinking how much special you were...

Go back to life....The holiday is over...

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3.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 19 Aug 2010 Thu 10:57 am

Yes, they say it to almost all people... sorry.

4.       Capoeira
575 posts
 19 Aug 2010 Thu 10:55 pm

 

Quoting takecoverdude

I just got home from alanya, and I can´t stop thinking of this guy I met there. He works as a bartender so i met him when I was having drinks with my girlfriends. He gave me roses and told me how beautiful. He was very kind and we went out that night together. Now I can´t help to wonder if this is something he sais to all tourist girls who comes to his bar.. He was just so adorable, so I hope he ment it.

 

Anyone who has experience of this??

 

every bartender, male or female flirts to increase their tips! yes, he probably really did find you attractive and like you. but that doesn´t mean that it´s love or a match made in heaven. just a beautiful memory from a holiday. take it as a postcard and move on. travel a bit more and you´ll learn that it doesn´t matter which country you go to. holiday staff seem to all have a certain charm and personality. how do you think they get their jobs? it is the ´service´ industry after all...

 

5.       sonunda
5004 posts
 20 Aug 2010 Fri 07:16 pm

Anyone who has experience of this??

 

Just about everyone on this site-either first hand or by reading about the experiences of others.

6.       libralady
5152 posts
 20 Aug 2010 Fri 11:29 pm

 

Quoting takecoverdude

I just got home from alanya, and I can´t stop thinking of this guy I met there. He works as a bartender so i met him when I was having drinks with my girlfriends. He gave me roses and told me how beautiful. He was very kind and we went out that night together. Now I can´t help to wonder if this is something he sais to all tourist girls who comes to his bar.. He was just so adorable, so I hope he ment it.

 

Anyone who has experience of this??

 

 

And I bet you weren´t the only one that week either, and as soon as you have gone, he will have moved on to the next few girls.

 

If you gave him your MSN or similar, wait for the sob story asking for money.......

 

Half of this website contains stories like yours.....

7.       kuskonmaz
37 posts
 22 Mar 2011 Tue 01:21 am

I dont want to jump on the bandwagon and make you feel sad, but i have to agree with everyone else. Ofcourse theres a chance he did really like you, and maybe it could be more, but i doubt it. I had a similar experience... and say, save yourself any heartache, dont waste your time and money. Anything you were feeling at the time was possibly more intense because subconciously, you knew you only had a limited amount of time to spend with this guy. Had you of met him in a different setting, you may not feel the same/as strongly as you feel for him now.

 

Try to forget.

 

Sorry

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