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30 Apr 2007 Mon 06:48 pm |
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My family do not like the idear of me going over to turkey for a Turkish guy. They seem to think it will never work it was a holiday romance and they say that he probably just wants money. This makes me pretty mad as i would like support on my choices. I have no one to talk to about this, is anyone on the same boat???
Sarah
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:12 pm |
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As a hot headed 17 year I would have been the same as you, and defied my family - but on the other hand, as a parent I would be the same as your parents. So there is no easy answer.
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:20 pm |
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you will understand em better when you been a parent,so its early to understand em for you
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:25 pm |
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This situation has happened to 2 of my friends and unfortunatly...her parents were right. One of the guys acted as if he was in the hospital and somehow fell in love with her after a holiday romance and then was asking her for money. It's unfortunate...but why can't he come see you?
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:36 pm |
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I know he doesn't have that much money, he offered to give me money a couples of times and i didn't take it. I also make it clear that i don't have any money to give him and he doesn't ask. I understand my parents concern but also my parents do not want to let me go. I love Turkey, am not planning on moving for good i just want to enjoy the experience.
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:40 pm |
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thats such a bad to mention about money while talking about love,but pity love sometime look likes a monster,so it needs careful attention
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 07:50 pm |
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Quoting sweet.kane: My family do not like the idear of me going over to turkey for a Turkish guy. They seem to think it will never work it was a holiday romance and they say that he probably just wants money. This makes me pretty mad as i would like support on my choices. I have no one to talk to about this, is anyone on the same boat???
Sarah
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before 20 yeares old, love makes u fly,when u are older love make u think all u have such as family,friends,money( that s so important)
I have respect to your choice
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 08:04 pm |
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Quoting sweet.kane: My family do not like the idear of me going over to turkey for a Turkish guy. They seem to think it will never work it was a holiday romance and they say that he probably just wants money. This makes me pretty mad as i would like support on my choices. I have no one to talk to about this, is anyone on the same boat???
Sarah
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My situation is just the opposite. The mother of my fianceé does not want her to leave Türkiye and come to USA. She thinks that she will never see her daughter again because a foreigner has taken her away. I tried to assure her that I am one of those foreigners who fell in love with Türkiye, the people, and the kültür and would eventually move there once I have saved up enough money, but unfortunately, it appears as just fancy words to her.
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 08:10 pm |
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So what we going to do?!
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30 Apr 2007 Mon 08:21 pm |
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If you don't think it's going to last or if you're early into the relationship, I'd say spare yourself of the heartbreak. It's really hard to be in that kind of relationship.
I also met a guy and my parents were against it for the same reasons as yours but went ahead with it anyway because I had a strong belief in us. We're married today
Unfortunately most of these relationships are doomed, but not all.
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