No, she just wants to be prepared. She doesn´t have a lot of knowledge about this issue, and thought she would find some people who know more about it. A.k.a...the FRIENDLY people of this forum. I will not let grumpy people like you, scream and complaint so that people like her run and hide and never come on this forum again. So...scream and complaint all you want, I will express my opinion that you should be very ashamed behind your messages every time

LOVE YOU!

so that means either

her bf has no knowledge about the issue.

or she trusts the people on a forum more than her bf.

Tami, you forget that some men lie Not you, of course, but there are some bad men out there! So it´s safe to ask around.

At the end of the day, though, it is up to your bf and his family how your religion will be treated.

Is it wrong to be a bit prepared? She doesn´t want to be "one of those sad stories" ... If she trust her boyfriend or not, I don´t know. I can´t see in her heart. But she is very well aware of her limited knowledge about the cultural differences. It is good to be aware of our own limitations.

I think she´s being smart... And don´t worry, I still love you!

Poor man just can´t post a thing without someone recognizing him! 

I am an intelligent and well educated British woman ( well my CV says that any way !!!) Turkish men and british woman..

 in my experience this falls not in to any one category.

You have your young girl on holiday who has saved up all year and clearly is looking for what she would see as a little romance.. on occassion I have seen this turn in to a marriage and a happy one at that

We then have the girls of whom to be fair we would rather not own as our country woman.. who can blame any man Turkish, Spanish, Greek etc for not having a bit of " how´s your father" and if the lass is daft enough well that´s the story we will read next month in Closer Magazine or similar.

Then we have the older lady ( of which I am one 45 ) If their head is not on the right way by this time what hope.. It is not Turkish Men who are the propblem it is the stupid opportunities that British Woman provide, it may be a tirk, a greek or a spaniard etc, if the opportunity is there certain men and indeed woman will take advantage it is not a matterof race or creed but personality.

So ridiculous - going back and blame the victim. As far as I can tell, these (albeit naive) women have done nothing wrong. Put the blame back on the predator please.

So who do you think gets hit the hardest?  From what I´ve seen it´s the ´older lady´ who usually ends up losing everything. (btw 45 is probably considered quite young in dudu terms!!).  And what makes you think it´s just the British women on holiday who make themselves ´available´? 

 A 49 divorced English women went with my 17 (!!!) year old Turkish cousin. Her daughter clearly stated that my cousin was flirting with her and rubbing her leg under the table, but her mom didn´t seem to listen. After a while she discovered that her one true love, was actually cheating on her with loads of young girls (surprise surprise). She cancelled her next trip to Turkey. Two weeks later she was going to Turkey anyway, because she had contact with a very nice Turkish 25 year old. Whom she met through my cousin´s father (!!!) I warned her that I knew of this man, and that she should be very very careful (the cousin´s father dodgy, and any friend of his is the wrong kind of person). But, she was going anyway, to see her new lover. Ohw how nice he was, and yes, she really thought she was falling in love with him.

I know it´s not right to blame the victim... but sometimes... You just can´t help yourself!

 What is this? The synopsis of a soap opera?

 Barba has many friends, each´s life may be used as a scenario of a soap opera