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Very, very interesting conversation, guys. If you don't mind me joining.
Medracer,
it's wonderful that finally you could become a successful man and to conquer at least one girl (Not to say you are robbing a cradle) not that I am trying to say that it is easy to impress young girl's hearts, I am sure you are a smart and successful man, and probably not from some 3rd World coutry either. Anyway, Congratulations on Your Engagement, Sir!
Hopefully, for most of the guys here, it will not take forever to achieve something and to be able to find a soulmate or at least a girlfriend. For everyone there is a match. SO,GUYS, IF YOU THINK YOU ARE READY FOR SUCH RESPONSIBLE STEP AS CONQUERING A GIRL'S HEART, here are some hints on "how to", it does not metter if she is Turkish or any other nationality:
1.Remember that girls are sensitive creatures, they sense any lies more easily than you do, so be careful with what u tell them, try to be as honest and sencier as possible.
2.Girls, for most part, enjoy dating smart boys, preferably with higher education (so there is a little something for you to work on)
3.Girls like when guys tell them complements. It is very very TRUE. So,guys, try to learn a lot of beautiful Turkish (or in whatever language is her native) words that describe how beautiful, gracious and smart she is, because that's why you fell in love with her.
4. Girl likes when a guy talks... and usually about something that she likes, so learn what she likes and talk about it. IMPORTANT!!!Don't forget to stop and listen when she starts talking!!!
5.And YES!!! Call her, Give her flowers, Send her sms, Send her cards with sentimental notes, Send her emails, You are lucky if you can write a poem, she will REALLY REALLY APPRECIATE IT, SHE WILL BE IMPRESSED
!!!CONSTANTLY SHOW HER THAT YOU REALLY REALLY CARE!!!!
!!!WARNING!!!
If you don't see very much interest after trying hard for a while (I'd say at least a month)slow down, let her feel what it is like to be without your attention, she might start missing it (the power of conditioning). Just don't slow down completely, or someone else might steel her from you. If she still does not show very much interest - stop trying, she might be in love with someone else, or maybe you are not her type. BUT, GOOD NEWS! she might change her mind after while, girls do that alot. So,ocasionally, not too often, give her a call, send her a note or a buket of flowers with a card, just to let her know you are still there and still interested.
PATIENCE AND DEDICATION IS THE KEY TO ANY GIRLS HEART.
You are ready now!
BEST WISHES adn GOOD LUCK!
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