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1.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 06:00 am

‘Headscarf still an issue,' Parliament speaker says
Speaker of Parliament Köksal Toptan has said the headscarf issue remains a social problem, saying that it should cease to be on the agenda and must be resolved as soon as possible and once and for all.

Toptan was answering questions from the press upon his arrival at the Ankara Chamber of Commerce's (ATO) conference hall to attend a meeting sponsored by the Turkish Association of Agriculture (TZD). Toptan stressed that the headscarf was still a social problem and that it had to be settled immediately one way or another. "Technically speaking, I don't think it can be resolved through a change in the constitution, but since it stands out as a social problem, it should cease to be on Turkey's agenda," he said.
In response to questions on the notorious Article 301 of the Turkish Penal Code (TCK), Toptan said: "It is apparent that it is the Turkish citizens who are implied in the phrase 'Turkishness' in Article 301. It is obvious that we cannot possibly file any lawsuits in connection with an insult hurled at people of Turkish origin who live outside of Turkey. The government is working on this issue. Once it is finished and submitted to Parliament, the optimal steps will be taken. But let me say this: The hypothesis that 'articles similar to 301 exist in the constitutions of all European countries, but are not enforced' is not true. It is enforced in all of them, and the number of cases is far higher than in Turkey, as a matter of fact. But we should also admit that we have had problems from early on since the passage of this article. Maybe an amendment of this article will lessen the practices based on it."


2.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 06:54 am

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!

3.       catwoman
8933 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 08:28 am

Quoting girleegirl:

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!


Hahahah, you're kidding me? Women shouldn't decide on such important issues on their own, god forbid, they might leave Islam altogether!

4.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 08:38 am

Quoting catwoman:


Hahahah, you're kidding me? Women shouldn't decide on such important issues on their own, god forbid, they might leave Islam altogether!


Of course I am kidding...what do I know? I am just a stupid western woman!

5.       hanan
197 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:08 am

Quoting girleegirl:

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!



i agree that women should make thier own decisions about this isssue, i know this is so sensitive islamic issue but to me the relation between any person and god is so private and only god can forgive or punish, so humans should stay away and try to stop making rules about religion for people, the islam is so clear as allah said in holy quran in albagara's sura (the cow sura):

In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful.

"2.256": There is no compulsion in religion; truly the right way has become clearly distinct from error; therefore, whoever disbelieves in the Shaitan and believes in Allah(god) he indeed has laid hold on the firmest handle, which shall not break off, and Allah is Hearing, Knowing."

6.       hanan
197 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:18 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting girleegirl:

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!


Hahahah, you're kidding me? Women shouldn't decide on such important issues on their own, god forbid, they might leave Islam altogether!



dear catwoman i guess you are little wrong not all woman would leave islam, for me i will never leave it even if they turned me to peices. .

7.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 01:47 pm

What I hate about religions (at least those with long traditions), apart from the fact that they seem a mass brain-washing, is that they are based on patriarchal system of values. It is men who tell women whether she may or may not wear a scarf, it is men who tell women she cannot have an abortion...Let women decide for themselves, who gives you the right to know better!

8.       MrX67
2540 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 02:21 pm

But seems some women like to talk for other women even if their men don't decide about their decissions,a bit more tolerance and a bit more respect,thats the best fix...Sure there r planty reasons of that problem and sure all headscarfed girls or women don't do that with their free willing,but i think we forget planty women who do that with their free wiling just as a part of their beliefs,you will defend democracy when its good for you,but you will deny some freedoms when seems danger for you,such a big paradox.We all have to respect all sort freedoms ''in limits'',unless doesn't give any harm to social and world peace..

9.       SuiGeneris
3922 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 04:43 pm

The only people create this as a problem yet again the politicians, other higher state managers of Turkey.

There is no problem with the society.. there are people who wear and there are poeple doesnt...

its just holding the society busy with this topic and see whats going on behind of what they are doing...

the problem is that... woman who wears headscarf cannot enter some public areas especially to schools...
the problem is not that if they can decide theirselves or not...

for true analysis.. you have to buy your tickets and travel all around turkey and ask every single woman wears headscarf 'why are you using this?'... and then you can understand whats the reality...

10.       SERA_2005
668 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 04:49 pm

Quoting SuiGeneris:

The only people create this as a problem yet again the politicians, other higher state managers of Turkey.

There is no problem with the society.. there are people who wear and there are poeple doesnt...

its just holding the society busy with this topic and see whats going on behind of what they are doing...

the problem is that... woman who wears headscarf cannot enter some public areas especially to schools...
the problem is not that if they can decide theirselves or not...

for true analysis.. you have to buy your tickets and travel all around turkey and ask every single woman wears headscarf 'why are you using this?'... and then you can understand whats the reality...



Even then i think you would come up with more questions than answers.

11.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 09:55 pm



Edited (3/9/2009) by peacetrain

12.       catwoman
8933 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:10 pm

Quoting peace train:

I have several friends who wear the scarf and they also "wear the trousers" in their marriage!

I'm not sure of my facts and would like someone to clarify but, just as women are excluded from schools and some public places, are men with beards subject to the same restrictions?


You may know several people who "wear the trousers" in their marriage, but you completely ignore the fact that a great majority of muslims, especially in muslim countries, not only don't allow women to be equal partners, but abuse them. That's at home. In the public sphere, women have NO voice and opportunities. Tell me, why is it that young women get flogged or killed by their FAMILIES for having sex before marriage? Why is it that we don't hear any muslims protesting against that? They defend it! Even women! It's appaling.
Please, don't quote some EXCEPTIONS as a disprove of the overwhelming oppression of women in the muslim world (no, it's not only muslim world that oppresses women!).

I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs; I have a lot against the society that convinces women to wear a scarf because they believe that it's women's responsibility to hide herself and live in fear in order not to be a victim of predatory men. And I have a lot against the culture that boxes women in roles that give them no control of their lives, makes them servants of men and work for men's success and that convinces women that it's their fault when men can't help themselves and show no basic human morals. Headscarf in the islamic world is a symbol of these issues.

13.       SuiGeneris
3922 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:16 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting peace train:

I have several friends who wear the scarf and they also "wear the trousers" in their marriage!

I'm not sure of my facts and would like someone to clarify but, just as women are excluded from schools and some public places, are men with beards subject to the same restrictions?


You may know several people who "wear the trousers" in their marriage, but you completely ignore the fact that a great majority of muslims, especially in muslim countries, not only don't allow women to be equal partners, but abuse them. That's at home. In the public sphere, women have NO voice and opportunities. Tell me, why is it that young women get flogged or killed by their FAMILIES for having sex before marriage? Why is it that we don't hear any muslims protesting against that? They defend it! Even women! It's appaling.
Please, don't quote some EXCEPTIONS as a disprove of the overwhelming oppression of women in the muslim world (no, it's not only muslim world that oppresses women!).

I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs; I have a lot against the society that convinces women to wear a scarf because they believe that it's women's responsibility to hide herself and live in fear in order not to be a victim of predatory men. And I have a lot against the culture that boxes women in roles that give them no control of their lives, makes them servants of men and work for men's success and that convinces women that it's their fault when men can't help themselves and show no basic human morals. Headscarf in the islamic world is a symbol of these issues.



Wow! that was a scream!!

14.       catwoman
8933 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:31 pm

Quoting SuiGeneris:

Wow! that was a scream!!


No, it's not a scream, Sui! I just can't believe how some people can completely ignore all these issues and speak as if being a muslim woman, especially in a muslim country, is such a fairy tale.

15.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 10:40 pm

Are we discussing Muslim countries or Turkey?? Try to preserve some dignity....and don't fall off your rocker.

16.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 09 Jan 2008 Wed 11:54 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting peace train:

I have several friends who wear the scarf and they also "wear the trousers" in their marriage!

I'm not sure of my facts and would like someone to clarify but, just as women are excluded from schools and some public places, are men with beards subject to the same restrictions?


You may know several people who "wear the trousers" in their marriage, but you completely ignore the fact that a great majority of muslims, especially in muslim countries, not only don't allow women to be equal partners, but abuse them. That's at home. In the public sphere, women have NO voice and opportunities. Tell me, why is it that young women get flogged or killed by their FAMILIES for having sex before marriage? Why is it that we don't hear any muslims protesting against that? They defend it! Even women! It's appaling.
Please, don't quote some EXCEPTIONS as a disprove of the overwhelming oppression of women in the muslim world (no, it's not only muslim world that oppresses women!).

I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs; I have a lot against the society that convinces women to wear a scarf because they believe that it's women's responsibility to hide herself and live in fear in order not to be a victim of predatory men. And I have a lot against the culture that boxes women in roles that give them no control of their lives, makes them servants of men and work for men's success and that convinces women that it's their fault when men can't help themselves and show no basic human morals. Headscarf in the islamic world is a symbol of these issues.



I wasn’t ignoring any facts and, of course, I know there are many oppressed women out there , and they don’t all wear headscarves. I understand everything you are saying and I know it is a reality for many women, but don’t ignore the fact that there are many strong minded Muslim women in Turkey, who make decisions for themselves (when the law allows it). I was sharing personal experience, not making a judgement or trying to disprove anything. Perhaps I should have acknowledged that there is another side. Just because I didn’t acknowledge it, doesn’t mean I don’t believe it happens, I do. I wasn’t debating, I wasn’t denying some (many?) Muslim women are oppressed, I was sharing personal experience and I have many others too. Perhaps I may have been a little too casual in my post, which may have looked as though I was trivialising the issue – purely unintentional.
I wasn’t trying to disprove anything you said at all. It is sad, what goes on in some areas, but there are stories of enlightenment out there if you look for them and the more they are aired the more some women may gain some strength or hope.
I have read that if the headscarf is allowed, in all areas, in Turkey then women who do not wear the scarf will feel pressured into wearing it. I myself don’t really understand this point of view because all the change in the law will do (maybe I’m being too simplistic or naive) is allow women who wear scarves, to wear them everwhere they go. I have Turkish friends, living in Turkey, some wear the scarf, some don’t. Those that do are mainly teachers and they remove their scarves when they get to work and replace them when they leave. A change in the law will mean they will no longer need to compromise themselves and will be able to wear their scarves all the time. It will also mean that more women will remain in the education system and also fewer will seek education abroad.

In my view (and this is only my view) the Government in Turkey is hesitant about allowing the scarf because if they do, there will be many who cry “Islamist”, in today’s climate. But surely the Government would be allowing freedom of choice in Turkey.

No matter how much people believe Muslim women are “convinced” into wearing headscarves, the fact remains that there are many women who read the Qur’an for themselves and interpret/decide for themselves on what it means to cover and lengthen garments. There are also websites out there in cyberspace that have been established by Muslim women, for Muslim women, or anyone else who cares to visit them. Some of them are quite radical. There are Muslim women out there fighting for what they want. This is not to deny what you have said btw and neither am I attempting to dissuade you from your opinion, as it as you make valid points, but as you know, the issue isn’t one dimensional.

In recent weeks there has been debate about the nature of debate Just as debate can involve two opposing sides trying to win an argument, the word debate can been deliberate or consider. Just because someone puts forward a point to consider, it doesn’t mean it is an exclusive opinion held by them. As I said in the beginning, perhaps I should have made myself clear.






17.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:15 am

Peace train, thanks for clarifying yourself! Perhaps I'm a bit sensitized to posts in which people say that muslim women aren't oppressed . There are people who dig out some examples of women who became successful and use as an argument against the widespread abuse of women in islam, so I get frustrated easily by such posts. While there are some exceptional examples of very strong women, it is extremely alarming what's the fate of the majority and I think muslims should talk about it and be furious about it.

Anyways, headscarf in Turkey - yes, from a democratic standpoint, it should be a personal choice. At the same time, I think it's a valid concern that women who don't wear headscarf might be under pressure to wear it, as we all know some people like to moralize and demonize those who don't follow the main religion. I'm afraid that the oppression would be reversed, not in a legal way, but by the society. It's a difficult decision, but I'd prefer if there was no governmental interference in such matters.

18.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:16 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting peace train:

I have several friends who wear the scarf and they also "wear the trousers" in their marriage!

I'm not sure of my facts and would like someone to clarify but, just as women are excluded from schools and some public places, are men with beards subject to the same restrictions?


You may know several people who "wear the trousers" in their marriage, but you completely ignore the fact that a great majority of muslims, especially in muslim countries, not only don't allow women to be equal partners, but abuse them. That's at home. In the public sphere, women have NO voice and opportunities. Tell me, why is it that young women get flogged or killed by their FAMILIES for having sex before marriage? Why is it that we don't hear any muslims protesting against that? They defend it! Even women! It's appaling.
Please, don't quote some EXCEPTIONS as a disprove of the overwhelming oppression of women in the muslim world (no, it's not only muslim world that oppresses women!).

I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs; I have a lot against the society that convinces women to wear a scarf because they believe that it's women's responsibility to hide herself and live in fear in order not to be a victim of predatory men. And I have a lot against the culture that boxes women in roles that give them no control of their lives, makes them servants of men and work for men's success and that convinces women that it's their fault when men can't help themselves and show no basic human morals. Headscarf in the islamic world is a symbol of these issues.



The irony is that girls with head scarf are not allowed to enter universities where they can have an education and become free individuals. You can not liberate these girls by banning the head scarf.

I think you do not know Turkey very well. Because there are many women with head scarf who are happy with their religious beliefs and they are not abused by men. If you are blaming Islam for patriarchy, you can see the same things in Christian societies too.

So make sure if you are against Islam or patriarhy in general.

lastly, you are saying "I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs" OK but there is something missing here: in turkey nowadays men decide that women SHOULD NOT wear head scarf. So again if you are againts patriarchy, you should first talk about that ban on head scarf. after that we can talk about headscarf itself.

19.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:38 am

There are two questions that bother me about headscarfs. Other than the following two questions - I can not care less if they decide to close their eyes too: If they bump into me, I will hit back.

Question 1 :
WHERE EXACTLY IS THE LIMIT?..SHALL WE EVENTUALLY HAVE HIGHSCHOOL - MIDDLE SCHOOL - KINDERGARTEN GIRLS IN TURBAN TOO?

Question 2 :
SAY GIRLS IN TURBAN ARE ALLOWED INTO UNIVERSITIES (I EXPECT SYMBOLS RELATING TO OTHER RELIGIONS WILL ALSO BE FREE, NO?): WHAT DO WE DO WITH THESE GIRLS AFTER THEY GRADUATE?

IF RELIGIOUS SYMBOLS BECOME FREE TO DISPLAY EVEN IN GOVERNMENT OFFICES, SAY IN LEGAL COURTS, HOW WILL ONE OF OUR TURBANED MOSLEM LADIES FEEL IN COURT - AFTER HAVING A CAR ACCIDENT WITH ANOTHER LADY WEARING THE GOLDEN STAR OF DAVID - UPON DISCOVERY THAT THE LADY JUDGE ON THE BENCH IS WEARING AN EVEN BIGGER STAR OF DAVID?

20.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:53 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting peace train:

I have several friends who wear the scarf and they also "wear the trousers" in their marriage!

I'm not sure of my facts and would like someone to clarify but, just as women are excluded from schools and some public places, are men with beards subject to the same restrictions?


You may know several people who "wear the trousers" in their marriage, but you completely ignore the fact that a great majority of muslims, especially in muslim countries, not only don't allow women to be equal partners, but abuse them. That's at home. In the public sphere, women have NO voice and opportunities. Tell me, why is it that young women get flogged or killed by their FAMILIES for having sex before marriage? Why is it that we don't hear any muslims protesting against that? They defend it! Even women! It's appaling.
Please, don't quote some EXCEPTIONS as a disprove of the overwhelming oppression of women in the muslim world (no, it's not only muslim world that oppresses women!).

I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs; I have a lot against the society that convinces women to wear a scarf because they believe that it's women's responsibility to hide herself and live in fear in order not to be a victim of predatory men. And I have a lot against the culture that boxes women in roles that give them no control of their lives, makes them servants of men and work for men's success and that convinces women that it's their fault when men can't help themselves and show no basic human morals. Headscarf in the islamic world is a symbol of these issues.



The irony is that girls with head scarf are not allowed to enter universities where they can have an education and become free individuals. You can not liberate these girls by banning the head scarf.

I think you do not know Turkey very well. Because there are many women with head scarf who are happy with their religious beliefs and they are not abused by men. If you are blaming Islam for patriarchy, you can see the same things in Christian societies too.

So make sure if you are against Islam or patriarhy in general.

lastly, you are saying "I have nothing really against women wearing scarfs. I do have a lot against MEN DECIDING for women whether they should wear scarfs" OK but there is something missing here: in turkey nowadays men decide that women SHOULD NOT wear head scarf. So again if you are againts patriarchy, you should first talk about that ban on head scarf. after that we can talk about headscarf itself.



With reference to a point kadersokak made, I have heard several stories first hand of young girls deciding to wear the scarf, but only putting it on when they are out of sight of their home, taking it off before they return home. Many parents are against their daughters wearing the scarf because they believe it will prevent them from furthering their education. Some decide against removing their scarves and either go abroad or do not enter the Turkish further education system. Some decide to remove their scarves for some time of the day in order to receive their education. Some decide to leave their scarf removed altogether rather than only during time in university (these women may decide to wear their scarves if the law is changed to allow scarves). Some women don't wish to wear the scarf and probably will not be persuaded otherwise even if the law is changed to allow it.

I can't visualize any more pressure being put on women who don't wear the scarf to wear it if the law changes, to allow (not enforce)it. The reason I can't visualize this is because changing the law doesn't change people's views and pro scarf people can pressurize others now, they don't have to wait for the law to change in order to stand in judgement of others.

Islam teaches that we must not judge others' decisions regarding practice. It is between the individual and God.

btw I wasn't being flippant in an earlier post when I asked for clarification regarding men wearing beards. Neither was I trying to divert the issue from that of the scarf. I genuinely wanted to know if it was a fact.

21.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:00 am

Quoting catwoman:

Perhaps I'm a bit sensitized to posts in which people say that muslim women aren't oppressed . There are people who dig out some examples of women who became successful and use as an argument against the widespread abuse of women in islam, so I get frustrated easily by such posts. While there are some exceptional examples of very strong women, it is extremely alarming what's the fate of the majority and I think muslims should talk about it and be furious about it.



Forum rule # 10. Any discussion on politics or religion and religious matters is strictly prohibited.

Forum rule #11. Postings about your religious beliefs; explaining any subject from a religious perspective; trying to influence others with your religious beliefs; getting religion involved in any subject and/or any subjects with religion as the main theme is prohibited. This is a religion - free website where all members should feel comfortable whether they are religious, atheist, agnostic or whatever.

catwoman, you do know better, don't you? However, here you go again demonizing the entire Islamic World. I hardly think you are an expert on Islamic jurisprudance or history, and I think you have no business doing that given your credentials and the forum rules. Issues you are talking about are part of the cultures and not sanctified by formal Islamic jurisprudance....of which I can not and would not get into on this forum, as it's clearly not the place for it.

If we are not supposed to discuss religion on this forum, then don't do it. If anyone trys to say anthing good about it, they they are accused of prosthelsysing.

However, prosthelsysing goes both ways. You seem to want to convert people away from Islam with your anti-Islamic posts. This is a double standard.

As I have said many many times before, it is a complicated issue, not one for a few careless thoughtless offhand quips.

22.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:00 am

new subject: Why do most Turks were moustaches? National tradition?

23.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:06 am

I am bearded.
Any one who wears a beard, in Islamic tradition, has to obey certain rules. I know some of the rules,
1. The beard should be of modest length, so that one is not mixed up with followers of other religions.
2, It should always be well trimmed, clean and suitably perfumed.
3. The beard should not rise in a way to close your cheeks (high cheek bones). (can you guess why?)
4. It is not obligatory for moslem men to wear beards, but it is recommended.

My own beard, unfortunately, fails on more than one count...

24.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:13 am

Women who wear head scarves say that they adopt this dress as a sincere expression of their religious beliefs. The decision to wear (or not to wear39) dress such as head-covering in public is a form of personal and religious expression protected by various instruments, including Articles 9 and 10 of the European Convention on Human Rights, and can only be limited where interests of the individual are outweighed by the state's legitimate concerns regarding, for example, public order, health or morality. In Turkey the wearing of the head scarf by students or elected representatives has not presented a threat to public order, health or morality, and it is difficult to imagine circumstances in which it might.

The head scarf issue has not been tested in the European Court of Human Rights either with respect to educational institutions or the workplace. However, the Turkish educational establishment is using the considerable prestige and authority of the Council of Europe to justify the ban. An evaluation of legal issues relating to the ban, believed to have been prepared by the Council for Higher Education (YÖK) and circulated to university rectors, as well as a statement by the Turkish Prime Minister's Office's High Coordinating Council for Human Rights, refer to and summarize an admissibility decision in the case of Lamiye Bulut.40
http://www.hrw.org/reports/2000/turkey2/Turk009-05.htm

25.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:20 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting catwoman:

Perhaps I'm a bit sensitized to posts in which people say that muslim women aren't oppressed . There are people who dig out some examples of women who became successful and use as an argument against the widespread abuse of women in islam, so I get frustrated easily by such posts. While there are some exceptional examples of very strong women, it is extremely alarming what's the fate of the majority and I think muslims should talk about it and be furious about it.



Forum rule # 10. Any discussion on politics or religion and religious matters is strictly prohibited.

Forum rule #11. Postings about your religious beliefs; explaining any subject from a religious perspective; trying to influence others with your religious beliefs; getting religion involved in any subject and/or any subjects with religion as the main theme is prohibited. This is a religion - free website where all members should feel comfortable whether they are religious, atheist, agnostic or whatever.

catwoman, you do know better, don't you? However, here you go again demonizing the entire Islamic World. I hardly think you are an expert on Islamic jurisprudance or history, and I think you have no business doing that given your credentials and the forum rules. Issues you are talking about are part of the cultures and not sanctified by formal Islamic jurisprudance....of which I can not and would not get into on this forum, as it's clearly not the place for it.

If we are not supposed to discuss religion on this forum, then don't do it. If anyone trys to say anthing good about it, they they are accused of prosthelsysing.

However, prosthelsysing goes both ways. You seem to want to convert people away from Islam with your anti-Islamic posts. This is a double standard.

As I have said many many times before, it is a complicated issue, not one for a few careless thoughtless offhand quips.



Almeda, I don't think it's fair to highlight only Catwoman's words. I think most contributions on this thread (and other similar threads) have probably contravened the rules to some extent.

But you are right in what you say about the rules. The problem is many of the thread titles invite contravention of the rules, so perhaps there is another issue here. I think the moderators have a huge job on their hands because this site is so popular and therefore hard to "police". Perhaps more moderators are needed or perhaps it is the thread titles that need to be policed in the first place. Just a thought.

26.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:25 am

I wonder why people do not prefer to discuss my imperfect islamic beard, rather than risky issues like religion, politics etc..

There must be ways to improve this beard !

27.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:42 am

Quoting peace train:

..........Almeda, I don't think it's fair to highlight only Catwoman's words. I think most contributions on this thread (and other similar threads) have probably contravened the rules to some extent.

But you are right in what you say about the rules. The problem is many of the thread titles invite contravention of the rules, so perhaps there is another issue here. I think the moderators have a huge job on their hands because this site is so popular and therefore hard to "police". Perhaps more moderators are needed or perhaps it is the thread titles that need to be policed in the first place. Just a thought.



The site definitly needs more moderation and more moderators! As for my highlighting catwoman's threads, we have a history, and she was one of the administrators here, so I hold her to a higher standard and call her on it more than I would anyone else. Also, I just saw the thread. Perhaps I was too hard on her....but...

As for headscarves, I think much too much attention is given to the whole thing. What about women who are having chemo? Maybe a woman is having a bad hair day. All that is really going on is a fashion statement that has been given way too much significance, IMHO.

28.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:45 am

or women or men who have cosmetic surgery like J. Lopez and Bulent Ersoy

29.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:46 am

You are so right...I have a friend who has a nice beard, he does sort of a topiary job on it. It looks very nice. I suppose one has to have a rather dense growth of hair to get that effect.

So, do you have a topiary effect AlphaF?

Quoting AlphaF:

I wonder why people do not prefer to discuss my imperfect islamic beard, rather than risky issues like religion, politics etc..

There must be ways to improve this beard !



30.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:50 am

Noo, I am perfect ! (ezcept the tousled beard)

31.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:52 am

Transsexual Diva Bülent Ersoy (who recently underwent extensive external-body plastic surgery) pooh-poohed her Esthetic Surgeon's well-intended advice and refused to fully recuperate before resuming work. As a result, she's suffering a number of surgical complications. For example, the silicon that had been injected into legs and knees to enhance their looks, has now slipped down to her ankles (ayak bileğe) -- and everyone is (cruelly) joking about the diva's silicon woes ('ayak bileğine kayan' silkonunu).
And in the sidebar entitled Çorabın sırrı çözüldü (Secret of the stockings solved), we learn that Ersoy chided one of the female Popstar contestants for not wearing stockings on-stage. The argument heated up when fellow-female jury-member Ebru Gündeş declared "I don't wear stockings either." And it caused people to say that Bülent Hanım only favored stockings these days because they help hide the scars from her esthetic knee surgery.

32.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:03 am

Quoting Roswitha:

Transsexual Diva Bülent Ersoy (who recently underwent extensive external-body plastic surgery) pooh-poohed her Esthetic Surgeon's well-intended advice and refused to fully recuperate before resuming work. As a result, she's suffering a number of surgical complications. For example, the silicon that had been injected into legs and knees to enhance their looks, has now slipped down to her ankles (ayak bileğe) -- and everyone is (cruelly) joking about the diva's silicon woes ('ayak bileğine kayan' silkonunu).
And in the sidebar entitled Çorabın sırrı çözüldü (Secret of the stockings solved), we learn that Ersoy chided one of the female Popstar contestants for not wearing stockings on-stage. The argument heated up when fellow-female jury-member Ebru Gündeş declared "I don't wear stockings either." And it caused people to say that Bülent Hanım only favored stockings these days because they help hide the scars from her esthetic knee surgery.



Ahh...poor Bulent....such a talented and beautiful singer. I have many of her albums. At the age of 55, it's a little late for the glamor thing anyway. Bulent Ersoy All this to be beautiful to be loved....so sad. Her singing is more than enough.

33.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:12 am

I think, first of all my opinion about the ban:
The ban must stay for the personel working for the goverment departments. Teachers, doctors, clerks etc whoever gives the governements services CAN NOT WEAR anything symbolizes a religion.
Because, simply, governments must treat everybody equal regardless their religion (muslims, christians, jews etc). it is governments duty to put equal distance to everybody. So because a democratic, secular government cant have a religion, the turban ban should remain as it is. If you allow it, the very basic idea of 'government has the same distance to everybody' will have a shadow.
Basically governments cant have a religion. Coming to power by elections and thinking that 'oh we have the power then we can change it' is fundemantally WRONG. (with the same principles, religion sections in ID cards should be removed immediatly.)

About the universities:
My personal idea will be removing the ban from universities..However, at high school and in primary education, the ban even should not be discussed. Because at that age, they should be protected from the pressures coming from the society. They are vulnerable.

Now then about turban itself:

we all know that there are millions of milions of muslims they think that wearing turban is not necessary and turban problem is nothing to do with freedom. They are simply not covering themselves. We all know that the way they practice islam in libya, saudi arabia and turkey is very very different. so where is the line?.who is right? what is the answer?

Then what about the religious communities which are spending everything they have, on bringing sheria (which they are quite powerful at the moment in Turkey. One of them is Fettullah Gulen for example, which owns Zaman!!!) ? What about the pressure they are imposing everywhere? think of a girl wearing a mini skirt in a place where majority is wearing head scarf? (ie Fatif in Istanbul) how long do you think that girl can wear that skirt? or simple how long will she last without putting a headscarf herself? or what do you think the majority will think about that girl? well we all know what they think..dont we? where is that girls rights then? everything is legal from outside. no forcing..BUT THAT IS PRESSURE!!
(we can find thousands of examples about this type of pressure.) And of course you can go back to universities about this ban as well: what about as a parent if you think your daughter will be seen as less muslim, not honourable, non muslim or not muslim ENOUGH? It will be denying rights..wont it?

Secularism (if it could be imposed properly) is a very important at this moment because a secular country's government must protect its citizens from religious communities' pressure.. Because it is STATE'S BASIC DUTY. (State should provide the environment for its citizens to practice their religions freely WITHOUT any pressure from anywhere)

When you look at the posts above, the common idea is that muslims are not living freely or practising their religions in Turkey because of turban ban. That is not right.

I believe that turban is a symbol as far as Turkey is concerned..It is a statement.
My mother hides her hair because she is a muslim. Old school woman..
In any of the government departments she was never ever returned back because she is wearing a head scarf. She has never ever been denied anything in any of the hospitals. She has never ever been mistreated. I have never ever heard of any of women i know, complaining about those things.

34.       zbrct
90 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:29 am

Quoting thehandsom:

I think, first of all my opinion about the ban:
The ban must stay for the personel working for the goverment departments. Teachers, doctors, clerks etc whoever gives the governements services CAN NOT WEAR anything symbolizes a religion.
Because, simply, governments must treat everybody equal regardless their religion (muslims, christians, jews etc). it is governments duty to put equal distance to everybody. So because a democratic, secular government cant have a religion, the turban ban should remain as it is. If you allow it, the very basic idea of 'government has the same distance to everybody' will have a shadow.
Basically governments cant have a religion. Coming to power by elections and thinking that 'oh we have the power then we can change it' is fundemantally WRONG. (with the same principles, religion sections in ID cards should be removed immediatly.)

About the universities:
My personal idea will be removing the ban from universities..However, at high school and in primary education, the ban even should not be discussed. Because at that age, they should be protected from the pressures coming from the society. They are vulnerable.

Now then about turban itself:

we all know that there are millions of milions of muslims they think that wearing turban is not necessary and turban problem is nothing to do with freedom. They are simply not covering themselves. We all know that the way they practice islam in libiya, saudi arabia and turkey is very very different. so where is the line?.who is right? what is the answer?

Then what about the religious communities which are spending everything they have, on bringing sheria (which they are quite powerful at the moment in Turkey. One of them is Fettullah Gulen for example, which owns Zaman!!!) ? What about the pressure they are imposing everywhere? think of a girl wearing a mini skirt in a place where majority is wearing head scarf? (ie Fatif in Istanbul) how long do you think that girl can wear that skirt? or simple how long will she last without putting a headscarf herself? or what do you think the majority will think about that girl? well we all know what they think..dont we? where is that girls rights then? everything is legal from outside. no forcing..BUT THAT IS PRESSURE!!
(we can find thousands of examples about this type of pressure.) And of course you can go back to universities about this ban as well: what about as a parent if you think your daughter will be seen as less muslim, not honourable, non muslim or not muslim ENOUGH? It will be denying rights..wont it?

Secularism (if it could be imposed properly) is a very important at this moment because a secular country's government must protect its citizens from religious communities' pressure.. Because it is GOVERNMENT'S BASIC DUTY.

When you look at the posts above, the common idea is that muslims are not living freely or practising their religions in Turkey because of turban ban. That is not right.

I believe that turban is a symbol as far as Turkey is concerned..It is a statement.
My mother hides her hair because she is a muslim. Old school woman..
In any of the government departments she was never ever returned back because she is wearing a head scarf. She has never ever been denied anything in any of the hospitals. She has never ever been mistreated. I have never ever heard of any of women i know, complaining about those things.



I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.

35.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:33 am

Quoting thehandsom:

I think, first of all my opinion about the ban:
The ban must stay for the personel working for the goverment departments. Teachers, doctors, clerks etc whoever gives the governements services CAN NOT WEAR anything symbolizes a religion.
Because, simply, governments must treat everybody equal regardless their religion (muslims, christians, jews etc). it is governments duty to put equal distance to everybody. So because a democratic, secular government cant have a religion, the turban ban should remain as it is. If you allow it, the very basic idea of 'government has the same distance to everybody' will have a shadow.
Basically governments cant have a religion. Coming to power by elections and thinking that 'oh we have the power then we can change it' is fundemantally WRONG. (with the same principles, religion sections in ID cards should be removed immediatly.)

About the universities:
My personal idea will be removing the ban from universities..However, at high school and in primary education, the ban even should not be discussed. Because at that age, they should be protected from the pressures coming from the society. They are vulnerable.

Now then about turban itself:

we all know that there are millions of milions of muslims they think that wearing turban is not necessary and turban problem is nothing to do with freedom. They are simply not covering themselves. We all know that the way they practice islam in libiya, saudi arabia and turkey is very very different. so where is the line?.who is right? what is the answer?

Then what about the religious communities which are spending everything they have, on bringing sheria (which they are quite powerful at the moment in Turkey. One of them is Fettullah Gulen for example, which owns Zaman!!!) ? What about the pressure they are imposing everywhere? think of a girl wearing a mini skirt in a place where majority is wearing head scarf? (ie Fatif in Istanbul) how long do you think that girl can wear that skirt? or simple how long will she last without putting a headscarf herself? or what do you think the majority will think about that girl? well we all know what they think..dont we? where is that girls rights then? everything is legal from outside. no forcing..BUT THAT IS PRESSURE!!
(we can find thousands of examples about this type of pressure.) And of course you can go back to universities about this ban as well: what about as a parent if you think your daughter will be seen as less muslim, not honourable, non muslim or not muslim ENOUGH? It will be denying rights..wont it?

Secularism (if it could be imposed properly) is a very important at this moment because a secular country's government must protect its citizens from religious communities' pressure.. Because it is GOVERNMENT'S BASIC DUTY.

When you look at the posts above, the common idea is that muslims are not living freely or practising their religions in Turkey because of turban ban. That is not right.

I believe that turban is a symbol as far as Turkey is concerned..It is a statement.
My mother hides her hair because she is a muslim. Old school woman..
In any of the government departments she was never ever returned back because she is wearing a head scarf. She has never ever been denied anything in any of the hospitals. She has never ever been mistreated. I have never ever heard of any of women i know, complaining about those things.



Very interesting and informative post. Thank you. I think many are under the impression that any woman wearing a scarf is denied services. As you point out, that is not the case.

36.       zbrct
90 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:40 am

Quoting alameda:

Quoting thehandsom:

I think, first of all my opinion about the ban:
The ban must stay for the personel working for the goverment departments. Teachers, doctors, clerks etc whoever gives the governements services CAN NOT WEAR anything symbolizes a religion.
Because, simply, governments must treat everybody equal regardless their religion (muslims, christians, jews etc). it is governments duty to put equal distance to everybody. So because a democratic, secular government cant have a religion, the turban ban should remain as it is. If you allow it, the very basic idea of 'government has the same distance to everybody' will have a shadow.
Basically governments cant have a religion. Coming to power by elections and thinking that 'oh we have the power then we can change it' is fundemantally WRONG. (with the same principles, religion sections in ID cards should be removed immediatly.)

About the universities:
My personal idea will be removing the ban from universities..However, at high school and in primary education, the ban even should not be discussed. Because at that age, they should be protected from the pressures coming from the society. They are vulnerable.

Now then about turban itself:

we all know that there are millions of milions of muslims they think that wearing turban is not necessary and turban problem is nothing to do with freedom. They are simply not covering themselves. We all know that the way they practice islam in libiya, saudi arabia and turkey is very very different. so where is the line?.who is right? what is the answer?

Then what about the religious communities which are spending everything they have, on bringing sheria (which they are quite powerful at the moment in Turkey. One of them is Fettullah Gulen for example, which owns Zaman!!!) ? What about the pressure they are imposing everywhere? think of a girl wearing a mini skirt in a place where majority is wearing head scarf? (ie Fatif in Istanbul) how long do you think that girl can wear that skirt? or simple how long will she last without putting a headscarf herself? or what do you think the majority will think about that girl? well we all know what they think..dont we? where is that girls rights then? everything is legal from outside. no forcing..BUT THAT IS PRESSURE!!
(we can find thousands of examples about this type of pressure.) And of course you can go back to universities about this ban as well: what about as a parent if you think your daughter will be seen as less muslim, not honourable, non muslim or not muslim ENOUGH? It will be denying rights..wont it?

Secularism (if it could be imposed properly) is a very important at this moment because a secular country's government must protect its citizens from religious communities' pressure.. Because it is GOVERNMENT'S BASIC DUTY.

When you look at the posts above, the common idea is that muslims are not living freely or practising their religions in Turkey because of turban ban. That is not right.

I believe that turban is a symbol as far as Turkey is concerned..It is a statement.
My mother hides her hair because she is a muslim. Old school woman..
In any of the government departments she was never ever returned back because she is wearing a head scarf. She has never ever been denied anything in any of the hospitals. She has never ever been mistreated. I have never ever heard of any of women i know, complaining about those things.



Very interesting and informative post. Thank you. I think many are under the impression that any woman wearing a scarf is denied services. As you point out, that is not the case.



I absolutely agree with you: We, modern people, should support all of the bans in Turkey such as ban on head scarf and ban on teaching Kurdish in public schools. Even some people say Kurdish people are discriminated in Turkey. As a response to that I want to repeat what you said: " I think many are under the impression that any woman wearing a scarf is denied services. As you point out, that is not the case." There is not any problem neither related to women with head scarf nor related to Kurds in Turkey. Long live the bans by the state...No to freedoom of speech in Turkey!

37.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:40 am

Quoting zbrct:


I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.


Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?

38.       zbrct
90 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:42 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:


I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.


Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



I agree with you and I do not want to see a state official speaking Kurdish...

39.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:48 am

Quoting zbrct:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:


I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.


Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



I agree with you and I do not want to see a state official speaking Kurdish...


Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..

40.       zbrct
90 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:57 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:


I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.


Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



I agree with you and I do not want to see a state official speaking Kurdish...


Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...





41.       E.T.K.O
0 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:58 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:


I agree with you head scarf and ESPECIALLY speaking Kurdish in public spaces should not be allowed. Who cares freedoom of speech. State can determine what is good for people.

Yes, in European countries women with head scarf are allowed to work even in public places but they are Europeans, freedoom is a part of their civilization.
We belong to another civilization that is why any sign of religion and ethnicity should be banned by the Turkish state.

How happy to say I am a TURK and how happy to say I am a SECULAR.


Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



I agree with you and I do not want to see a state official speaking Kurdish...


Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..



In your dreams maybe...

42.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:04 am

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?

43.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:06 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:


Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


lol

44.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:16 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


This is unbelievable! lol I have never actually seen a real racist in my life, so I'm really honored to meet a Turkish racist here! What an amazing experience... lol

45.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:19 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



If you say so then I have the right not to want a Kurdish speaking professor even he knows Turkish, right?

And, you know what they do have monks in their religious costumes as teachers in European and American universities. Yes, they have. But, right we are not talking about European civilization here we are talking about Turkey where people want freedom only for themselves...

I think we should not have either a monk or a Kurdish speaking professor in our universities...

I totally agree with zbrct and you that state should determine how indivuals should wear and speak...

46.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:22 am

The thing is that Turkey is not a liberal country and has severe violations of free speech, therefore it is somewhat dangerous to give religious freedoms (read: islamic ONLY!) and not enforce freedoms FROM religion. If a president preaches about religion, and is a former imam and a former leader of an islamist party... not much good can happen for liberal values there.

47.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:25 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

I think we should not have either a monk or a Kurdish speaking professor in our universities...

I totally agree with zbrct and you that state should determine how indivuals should wear and speak...


Hahahahahah, please next time be a little more clear with your sarcasm, or I may actually believe that you really mean the above blasphemy!

48.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:28 am

Quoting catwoman:

The thing is that Turkey is not a liberal country and has severe violations of free speech, therefore it is somewhat dangerous to give religious freedoms (read: islamic ONLY!) and not enforce freedoms FROM religion. If a president preaches about religion, and is a former imam and a former leader of an islamist party... not much good can happen for liberal values there.



Especially we should end democratic freedooms in Turkey because half of the Turkish population have voted for the president and prime minister that you are blaming...

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?

49.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:36 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.

50.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:39 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

The thing is that Turkey is not a liberal country and has severe violations of free speech, therefore it is somewhat dangerous to give religious freedoms (read: islamic ONLY!) and not enforce freedoms FROM religion. If a president preaches about religion, and is a former imam and a former leader of an islamist party... not much good can happen for liberal values there.



Especially we should end democratic freedooms in Turkey because half of the Turkish population have voted for the president and prime minister that you are blaming...

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Secularism is a MUST for any given democracy in anywhere in the world.
And asking the STATE being a proper SECULAR STATE is absulately necessary in Turkey.
For example, not letting jesus's picture in government offices is perfectly normal for a state. (he/she is allowed at home for example) and it is nothing to do with democratic freedom..
You are mistaken there.
You misunderstood what democracy or what secularism is..May be..

51.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:42 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.



I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...

52.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:44 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

The thing is that Turkey is not a liberal country and has severe violations of free speech, therefore it is somewhat dangerous to give religious freedoms (read: islamic ONLY!) and not enforce freedoms FROM religion. If a president preaches about religion, and is a former imam and a former leader of an islamist party... not much good can happen for liberal values there.



Especially we should end democratic freedooms in Turkey because half of the Turkish population have voted for the president and prime minister that you are blaming...

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Secularism is a MUST for any given democracy in anywhere in the world.
And asking the STATE being a proper SECULAR STATE is absulately necessary in Turkey.
For example, not letting jesus's picture in government offices is perfectly normal for a state. (he/she is allowed at home for example) and it is nothing to do with democratic freedom..
You are mistaken there.
You misunderstood what democracy or what secularism is..May be..



Then, Nationalism and national unity is also a MUST for any country too. That is why for our NATIONAL UNITY, kurdish should not be allowed in public buildings...

53.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:44 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...


What are you talking about??? You completely missed the point. It is YOU who keeps repeating that Kurds shouldn't have equal rights.

54.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:45 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Then, Nationalism and national unity is also a MUST for any country too. That is why for our NATIONAL UNITY, kurdish should not be allowed in public buildings...


This is a conversation about religion, not ethnicity!

55.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:48 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.



I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...


haha
Freedom should be for everybody..
And democracy is misunderstood by Turkey's islamists..
They think that if they come to power or if majority wants sheria is very democratic.
Nope..
It is not..Even if the majority is 99%..It is not..Sorry

56.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:53 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.



I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...


haha
Freedom should be for everybody..
And democracy is misunderstood by Turkey's islamists.. T
hey think that if they come to power or if majority wants sheria is very democratic.
Nope..
It is not..Even majority is 99%..It is not..



I know...That is why I am very happy. As our army generals repeatedly say Turkey has two main enemies: Political Islam and Kurdish Nationalism. Thanks to our special democratic systems neither head scarf nor teaching Kurdish in public schools will never be allowed. I am really happy we have a SECULAR and NATIONALIST state and ARMY.

By the way, you are not Kurdish, are you?

57.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:01 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.



I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...


haha
Freedom should be for everybody..
And democracy is misunderstood by Turkey's islamists.. T
hey think that if they come to power or if majority wants sheria is very democratic.
Nope..
It is not..Even majority is 99%..It is not..



I know...That is why I am very happy. As our army generals repeatedly say Turkey has two main enemies: Political Islam and Kurdish Nationalism. Thanks to our special democratic systems neither head scarf nor teaching Kurdish in public schools will never be allowed. I am really happy we have a SECULAR and NATIONALIST state and ARMY.
By the way, you are not Kurdish, are you?


Well.. You can be very happy..But I am not really.
We have kurdish nationalism problem in Turkey because of the mistakes mainly done by the army itself.
And about the political islam, I am sorry but Sheria is dangerous for any type of democracy..
Dont you agree?

58.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:05 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

By the way, we should also limit freedoom for the Kurds, right?


Yeah, I also think they have too much freedom right now. I mean, being a Kurd has become more than an honor in Turkey.



I really like the logic you guys have: You want freedoom just for yourselves and for the ones you think they deserve itYou just ignore the the others who suffer Good for you...This should be the modern civilization...

P.S. Please ignore my previous long post which includes 3 articles by Nihal Bengisu Karaca...


haha
Freedom should be for everybody..
And democracy is misunderstood by Turkey's islamists.. T
hey think that if they come to power or if majority wants sheria is very democratic.
Nope..
It is not..Even majority is 99%..It is not..



I know...That is why I am very happy. As our army generals repeatedly say Turkey has two main enemies: Political Islam and Kurdish Nationalism. Thanks to our special democratic systems neither head scarf nor teaching Kurdish in public schools will never be allowed. I am really happy we have a SECULAR and NATIONALIST state and ARMY.
By the way, you are not Kurdish, are you?


Well.. You can be very happy..But I am not really.
We have kurdish nationalism problem in Turkey because of the mistakes mainly done by the army itself.
And about the political islam, I am sorry but Sheria is dangerous for any type of democracy..
Dont you agree?



I am really very happy that we have such a great army which defends Turkey againts both KURDISH SEPERATIST TERRORISTS and POLITICAL ISLAM. You are right, allowing headscarf can make Turkey a religious state and allowing Kurdish ethnic rights may divide Turkey.

59.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:06 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

I am really very happy that we have such a great army which defends Turkey againts both KURDISH SEPERATIST TERRORISTS and POLITICAL ISLAM.


Kadersokak, I am joining you in your happiness! But for god's sake, enough about you!!!

60.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:09 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting kaddersokak:

I am really very happy that we have such a great army which defends Turkey againts both KURDISH SEPERATIST TERRORISTS and POLITICAL ISLAM.


Kadersokak, I am joining you in your happiness! But for god's sake, enough about you!!!



You do not have to answer me.

61.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:12 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


This is unbelievable! lol I have never actually seen a real racist in my life, so I'm really honored to meet a Turkish racist here! What an amazing experience... lol


lol lol lol lol (I am really cracking here )

62.       E.T.K.O
0 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:14 am

It is out of Topic but how funny to see the Kittens as they were having rights their freedom of "speech"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tO5bxshM-5g

63.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:17 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


This is unbelievable! lol I have never actually seen a real racist in my life, so I'm really honored to meet a Turkish racist here! What an amazing experience... lol


lol lol lol lol (I am really cracking here )




OK now I understand why you support the ban on head scarf in Turkey.

http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_7_25909

I think girls need that stuff you showed in post 4 not the head scarff

64.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:19 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

It is out of Topic but how funny to see the Kittens as they were having rights their freedom of "speech"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tO5bxshM-5g


Hahahah, not an especially funny video, but a lot better then your other posts!

65.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:21 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


This is unbelievable! lol I have never actually seen a real racist in my life, so I'm really honored to meet a Turkish racist here! What an amazing experience... lol


lol lol lol lol (I am really cracking here )




OK now I understand why you support the ban on head scarf in Turkey.

http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_7_25909

I think girls need that stuff you showed in post 4 not the head scarff


haha..you are making your mind up so fast..
I will recommend http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_7_25909_4 number 38
Sorry really

66.       kaddersokak
130 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:27 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting kaddersokak:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
I want to see a Turkey, which its citizens are not afraid of speaking their language or say what their origins are..


In your dreams maybe...


This is unbelievable! lol I have never actually seen a real racist in my life, so I'm really honored to meet a Turkish racist here! What an amazing experience... lol


lol lol lol lol (I am really cracking here )




OK now I understand why you support the ban on head scarf in Turkey.

http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_7_25909

I think girls need that stuff you showed in post 4 not the head scarff


haha..you are making your mind up so fast..
I will recommend http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_7_25909_4 number 38
Sorry really



Do not worry, telling a lie is not banned by Turkish state.

67.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:29 am

Quoting kaddersokak:

Do not worry, telling a lie is not banned by Turkish state.


So what are they waiting for? Oh... that would put the whole government in prison, I see...

68.       E.T.K.O
0 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:30 am

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting E.T.K.O:

It is out of Topic but how funny to see the Kittens as they were having rights their freedom of "speech"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tO5bxshM-5g


Hahahah, not an especially funny video, but a lot better then your other posts!



Question :

In the video, Which one was the imperialistic Kitten ?


a) One which said hello.
b) All of them
c) catwoman

69.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:32 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Question :

In the video, Which one was the imperialistic Kitten ?


a) One which said hello.
b) All of them
c) catwoman


The guy next to the cat, his name: erlik han. Now, don't lie that I didn't get it right.

70.       E.T.K.O
0 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:39 am

Quoting catwoman:

The guy next to the cat, his name: erlik han. Now, don't lie that I didn't get it right.



Erlik Han is a symbol what reperesents Satan in Ancient Turkic Religion. But i am an

71.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:41 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting catwoman:

The guy next to the cat, his name: erlik han. Now, don't lie that I didn't get it right.



Erlik Han is a symbol what reperesents Satan in Ancient Turkic Religion.


Don't talk about religion, it's a forbidden topic.

72.       E.T.K.O
0 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:52 am

Quoting catwoman:

This is a conversation about religion, not ethnicity!




Quoting catwoman:

Don't talk about religion, it's a forbidden topic.



Rolling it with a buncha sticky dosia is harmful for (your) mental health.

73.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 05:15 am

Quoting E.T.K.O:

Quoting catwoman:

This is a conversation about religion, not ethnicity!




Quoting catwoman:

Don't talk about religion, it's a forbidden topic.



Rolling it with a buncha sticky dosia is harmful for (your) mental health.


Things become forbidden when you join the debate (because it harms our mental health)...

74.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:16 am

Quoting catwoman:


The guy next to the cat, his name: erlik han. Now, don't lie that I didn't get it right.


Wait...I thought his name was Reinhard....oh no...it was uluhan...or was it ETKO....or.....or.....god I don't know....it's too confusing to keep up with!
I wonder what his next name will be. Erlikuluhard?

75.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:48 am

Quoting girleegirl:

Wait...I thought his name was Reinhard....oh no...it was uluhan...or was it ETKO....or.....or.....god I don't know....it's too confusing to keep up with!
I wonder what his next name will be. Erlikuluhard?


lol lol lol

What do you mean "next name"? Are you expecting etko to be deleted for some reason? Are you scheming how to frame him?

76.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:51 am

Uhhh....women's intuition?

77.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:07 am

Quoting girleegirl:

Uhhh....women's intuition?


lol lol lol

78.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:24 am

To all smart ladies, moslem or not,

Turban makes you invisible ! You dont have to wear anything else, if it is warm enough.
Free headscarves while stocks last, anyone?

79.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:04 am

Quoting AlphaF:

To all smart ladies, moslem or not,

Turban makes you invisible ! You dont have to wear anything else, if it is warm enough.
Free headscarves while stocks last, anyone?


lol lol lol

80.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:48 am

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.

81.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:29 pm

Quoting MrX67:

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.




Are you sure?
I have never seen any strong secular bureacurates or false intellectuals wearing headscarves !

82.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:33 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Quoting MrX67:

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.




Are you sure?
I have never seen any strong secular bureacurates or false intellectuals wearing headscarves !

either you young or you only look at events with fun glasses,whatever i wish you good luck on ur each searchs brother,cheersssss

83.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:35 pm

Quoting MrX67:

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.



and fanatic islamics !!!!!

84.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:38 pm

Quoting Cacık:

Quoting MrX67:

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.



and fanatic islamics !!!!!

and fanatic blinkers!!!!!!

85.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:48 pm

Quoting MrX67:

Quoting Cacık:

Quoting MrX67:

headscarf never been a problem for society in Turkey ,just it used as a political weapon by the strong secular bureacurats and supposedly (false) intellectuals.



and fanatic islamics !!!!!

and fanatic blinkers!!!!!!



I knew a female student in Istanbul university so many years ago who looked as modern as can be. When there became some strong tension between islamic far right students (for example - male students refusing to give way to female students in corridors and rooms) and the modern students, there were female students who finally admitted that as soon as they finish in the university, they will cover their head to fight for the cause !!!! rather a strange reason to cover !!! not fanatic of course !

You may be wearing blinkers also MrX if you truly believe there is no political agenda to "some" woman covering their heads !!!!

However, I do agree that there are many reasons for covering up.

For example, my in-laws cover the heads but they ABSOLUTELY HATE the ladies who cover in the political and fanatic style. My in-laws think this is wrong.

This surely proves that even amounst Turkish ladies who cover their heads also feel that fanatics use this as a symbol.

86.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:55 pm

35 years ago there were plenty of strong secular bureaucrats and many intellectuals around; there were many moslems too; but there was no turban...

Somebody else probably started it, no?

87.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:58 pm

pity thats our one of most weak side,there r so many social and political phobias in our country,so why we walk on democracy road as turtels,and blinkers never let us to see real sides of freedoms.İts ok when ur in laws wearings but its danger when a student or public worker or politican wearing,isn't that to nothing then mislead urself????

88.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:00 pm

real peace will set in this great country when we show same tolerance for decolette and headscarf....

89.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:03 pm

Quoting MrX67:

pity thats our one of most weak side,there r so many social and political phobias in our country,so why we walk on democracy road as turtels,and blinkers never let us to see real sides of freedoms.İts ok when ur in laws wearings but its danger when a student or public worker or politican wearing,isn't that to nothing then mislead urself????



Oh MrX - I have a feeling that I misunderstood your previous post. I thought you were talking about the critics of the headscarves wear blinkers - that is why I said maybe you also wear blinkers. Now I see in your post above that you mean, many people here are blinkered !!!

Oh blinken' henry - this gets confusing.

PS: blinken' henry is a phrase from old time England, something like saying oh damn - but I don't like using damn, I prefer tatlı phrases like the old ones !!

90.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:09 pm

to Alameda:

I take it you have Arabic origin and well versed in ways of Islam. Can you pls confirm whether or not, I am correct on following two points.

1. "Turban" as worn by some ladies of Turkia now, was a popular headgear among Jewish ladies of Lebanon, about 40-50 years ago.
2. Islamic tradition (maybe, even Quran) requires Moslem ladies not to dress in a way that may lead to their confusion with followers of another faith.

91.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:12 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

to Alameda:

I take it you have Arabic origin and well versed in ways of Islam. Can you pls confirm whether I am correct on following two points.

1. "Turban" as is worn by some ladies of Turkia now, was a popular headgear among Jewish ladies of Lebanon, about 40-50 years ago.
2. Islamic tradition requires Moslem ladies not to dress in a way that may lead to their confusion with followers of another faith.

shape or self which one is more important brother?and sorry if i made rude by replaying ur question...

92.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:24 pm

I will tell you exactly what is important, when Alemeda replies my request..

You were not rude, at all

93.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:29 pm

shame on who using beliefs and details of beliefs for the political aims and shame on who doesn't respect to induvidual preferences (unless this preferences don't give any harm social peace )

94.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:04 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.

95.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:10 pm

Quote:

As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.



Way to go Waseem !!!

If only everyone was truly madly deeply the same way in thinking - we would all be free. That goes for every race and religion !

96.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:13 pm

Quoting thehandsom:



Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



Does it matter so much what the person you're dealing with looks like?

97.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:23 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:



Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



Does it matter so much what the person you're dealing with looks like?


It would not matter much to me..
But it will/may matter to a muslim person.

98.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:26 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.


Well.. Most of the muslim parents wont like a teacher wearing priest costume and a huge cross neckles..
wont you mind yourself for example?

99.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:43 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:



Well... I never said anything about the kurds or kurdish..did I?
I am not talking about STATE what to decide about its people..
I am saying that it is STATE'S DUTY TO BE EQUAL TO ALL ITS CITIZENS.
I would not want to deal with a man wearing a priest costume when i want to pay my council tax..
Is that not simple?



Does it matter so much what the person you're dealing with looks like?


It would not matter much to me..
But it will/may matter to a muslim person.



You just used the big 'I' for yourself...

100.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:44 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.


Well.. Most of the muslim parents wont like a teacher wearing priest costume and a huge cross neckles..
wont you mind yourself for example?



Do I need to repeat myself?

101.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:51 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.


Well.. Most of the muslim parents wont like a teacher wearing priest costume and a huge cross neckles..
wont you mind yourself for example?


Do I need to repeat myself?


Well you dont need to.. If you really do not have issues with that well done!! But many many muslim families will object..I will Object too

102.       MarioninTurkey
6124 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:07 pm

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.

103.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:11 pm

I totally agree with you, Marion. Very well formulated!

104.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:13 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zbrct:



Really...? So what about those Turkish citizen girls who want to study and work with their head scarfs?

Oh ok, I understand now. We want freedoom just for ourselves...But that is not sincere...


Well..I already told above that turban ban in universities should be removed. And about the work. what about the private sector? I already told that the STATE should have equal distance to all its citizens. It is the reason any statement relating to religionS should not not be allowed..
I would not want a monk in orange dress as a teacher for example..
would you?



As long as the monk in orange dress is qualified to teach the subject, I don't mind. I don't look at the appearance of my teachers, only the ability and quality.


Well.. Most of the muslim parents wont like a teacher wearing priest costume and a huge cross neckles..
wont you mind yourself for example?



Do I need to repeat myself?



Hi Waseem - he does have a point though here. Most difficulties appear to come from muslim sectors not wishing to intigrate - probably UK is a better example of this rather than Turkey. It genuinely seems far easier here than it does in the UK.

105.       SERA_2005
668 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:14 pm

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.



Totally agree Marion, I think it can only be a good thing to experience as many different cultures as possible. And way to go your school(s) for employing such a diverse bunch!! On the other hand i also believe that religious schools should be allowed to remain. I do not believe in getting rid of them all together because there will be those parents who will only ever want to send their child to a religious school and i don't have a problem with that, they should have that choice. Oh and maybe they would like to consult the child as well!!

106.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:27 pm

Quoting Cacık:



Hi Waseem - he does have a point though here. Most difficulties appear to come from muslim sectors not wishing to intigrate - probably UK is a better example of this rather than Turkey. It genuinely seems far easier here than it does in the UK.



Hi Cacik, I'm sure he has a point. But I don't understand what "genuinely seems far easier here than it does in the UK"?
Are we talking about tolerance and secularism in the UK now or Turkey?

107.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:55 pm

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.


I totaly agree with what you are saying Marion..
BUT
Do you really think a teacher in Turkey wearing a turban will say "religion is the opium of the people"? Or even allow her pupils to talk about Darwin? Or talk about other religions?
I dont know every single school in the UK of course, but when they study 'religions' as a subject here, one week they study islam, next week they study hinduism, christianity etc. can you see anything like that in Turkish schools? They teach how to pray namaz straight away!!
I have had some jews friends an Uni..One of them was saying that he was so scared to say that he was a jew for example.

I sincerely believe that turban problem in Turkey is nothing to do with freedom..It is something to do with the desire to convert the society into Sheria. And it is not me being paranoid..
And I am totaly against the Sheria!!

108.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:59 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting Cacık:



Hi Waseem - he does have a point though here. Most difficulties appear to come from muslim sectors not wishing to intigrate - probably UK is a better example of this rather than Turkey. It genuinely seems far easier here than it does in the UK.



Hi Cacik, I'm sure he has a point. But I don't understand what "genuinely seems far easier here than it does in the UK"?
Are we talking about tolerance and secularism in the UK now or Turkey?



Hi there Waseem - sorry not to be clear, I was only making an observation or thinking aloud as it were ! I mean that I find there less of a problem in society in Turkey about the topic than in the public in the UK. Hold on - I am kand of busy right now, can I carry on a bit later on ?

109.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:00 pm

thats such an easy to blame others to be with somethings about their preferences and thats such a big mistake to see theirself once owner of all system??

110.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:03 pm

Quoting MrX67:

thats such an easy to blame others to be with somethings about their preferences and thats such a big mistake to see theirself once owner of all system??


Well..
The system I am trying to defend here is democracy..And it should owned by everybody.
But I cant say the same thing for Sheria.
Sheria is not democratic AT ALL.
Dont you agree?

111.       MrX67
2540 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:05 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting MrX67:

thats such an easy to blame others to be with somethings about their preferences and thats such a big mistake to see theirself once owner of all system??


Well..
Sheria not democratic AT ALL.
Dont you agree?

sure i agree about that,but how can we blame everyone with they willing for that about their some individual preferences?Secularism and democracy best fix to hold all together all differences,and we can creat and set a real peace by to be respectfull our diversities in law rules..

112.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:11 pm

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.



Hello there Marion - I really enjoyed your post but do have two comments (purely in debate style): a) your schooling was quite a few years ago and things are different now possibly. b) don't you think that many muslim girls went to those schools because there were no other choices for them in that catchment area. Withthte steady growth of faith schools in the UK this may now start to dramatically change.

I am in totally agreement with you that multiculturalism is nothing to be scared of - but only when all culturals concerned have the same openess of mind to understand that - and this final point is where I find the beginning of problems !!!

113.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:48 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

I totaly agree with what you are saying Marion..
BUT
Do you really think a teacher in Turkey wearing a turban will say "religion is the opium of the people"? Or even allow her pupils to talk about Darwin? Or talk about other religions?
I dont know every single school in the UK of course, but when they study 'religions' as a subject here, one week they study islam, next week they study hinduism, christianity etc. can you see anything like that in Turkish schools? They teach how to pray namaz straight away!!
I have had some jews friends an Uni..One of them was saying that he was so scared to say that he was a jew for example.

I sincerely believe that turban problem in Turkey is nothing to do with freedom..It is something to do with the desire to convert the society into Sheria. And it is not me being paranoid..
And I am totaly against the Sheria!!



Very good points Handsome. I am afriad I have to agree with you. I use the term "afraid" because it is sad that these facts are true in the most part. What would happen to a teenager in a school here who refused to learn islamic prayer and instead wanted to discuss the christian Lord's Prayer or chant hindu worship !

114.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 05:33 pm

Off the topic, sort of.... IF I was to base my view of Turkey with the rants on TLC forums, I'd not bother with Turkey anymore. That was a big IF.

After my first visit to Turkey I was so enchanted ! I thought how marvellous a country. What struck me were the contrasts and diversity. A democratic country that should be an example for other 'Muslim' countries in the Middle East. And not only that but an example for the 'Muslim' individuals living in the non-Muslim countries. An example of tolerance and co-existance.

I guess I was mistaken. Regardless, I still love Turkey and it's people and the language.

115.       Cacık
296 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 05:56 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Off the topic, sort of.... IF I was to base my view of Turkey with the rants on TLC forums, I'd not bother with Turkey anymore. That was a big IF.

After my first visit to Turkey I was so enchanted ! I thought how marvellous a country. What struck me were the contrasts and diversity. A democratic country that should be an example for other 'Muslim' countries in the Middle East. And not only that but an example for the 'Muslim' individuals living in the non-Muslim countries. An example of tolerance and co-existance.

I guess I was mistaken. Regardless, I still love Turkey and it's people and the language.



Hi Waseem - no no good point. When you look at Turkey from a superficial point (ie tourist short term stay not meaning you are superficial), you see a modern society all mixing together quite nicely.

But it can be very different when you live here. There are many cases of intolerance and there are many underlying problems. It doesn't mean that Turkey isn't beautiful, it truly is. But I find there tends to be a misconception of Turkey by people who haven't really lived here long-term.

As for the "rant" you see here, please understand that we are all of mixed nationalities trying to communicate in one common language. This often makes some arguments appear like "rants" but really it isn't - it probably more like frustration from members who can't truly express their emotions clearly enough in a second language. Living in Turkey trying to express myself in Turkish sure drives me wild often and makes people think I am crazy. I am not, I am just frustrated at having no fluidity to my second language.

116.       SERA_2005
668 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 06:48 pm

Quoting Cacık:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Off the topic, sort of.... IF I was to base my view of Turkey with the rants on TLC forums, I'd not bother with Turkey anymore. That was a big IF.

After my first visit to Turkey I was so enchanted ! I thought how marvellous a country. What struck me were the contrasts and diversity. A democratic country that should be an example for other 'Muslim' countries in the Middle East. And not only that but an example for the 'Muslim' individuals living in the non-Muslim countries. An example of tolerance and co-existance.

I guess I was mistaken. Regardless, I still love Turkey and it's people and the language.



Hi Waseem - no no good point. When you look at Turkey from a superficial point (ie tourist short term stay not meaning you are superficial), you see a modern society all mixing together quite nicely.

But it can be very different when you live here. There are many cases of intolerance and there are many underlying problems. It doesn't mean that Turkey isn't beautiful, it truly is. But I find there tends to be a misconception of Turkey by people who haven't really lived here long-term.

As for the "rant" you see here, please understand that we are all of mixed nationalities trying to communicate in one common language. This often makes some arguments appear like "rants" but really it isn't - it probably more like frustration from members who can't truly express their emotions clearly enough in a second language. Living in Turkey trying to express myself in Turkish sure drives me wild often and makes people think I am crazy. I am not, I am just frustrated at having no fluidity to my second language.



I totally know what you mean and it can be extremely frustrating not being able to communicate exactly what you want and then there is the problem of things getting lost in translation.

117.       zettea
160 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 07:30 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

I think, first of all my opinion about the ban:
The ban must stay for the personel working for the goverment departments. Teachers, doctors, clerks etc whoever gives the governements services CAN NOT WEAR anything symbolizes a religion.



I feel for jobs or schools that requires the person to wear a government UNIFORM specifically for the job then they have to make do without the Hijab.. it's just part fo the job.. u cant change the UNIFORM of the job. For example if you work as a prison warder, police, military.
And i dont understand why rules like no headscarf is also imposed on other family members of Military personnels.. his family members are not on the job let them wear what they want!

Quoting thehandsom:

Because, simply, governments must treat everybody equal regardless their religion (muslims, christians, jews etc). it is governments duty to put equal distance to everybody. So because a democratic, secular government cant have a religion, the turban ban should remain as it is. If you allow it, the very basic idea of 'government has the same distance to everybody' will have a shadow.



well then send women to 15months military service too! lol then everybody is equal regardless of sex too.
Government should give rights to people, Government should be fair.

Quoting thehandsom:

About the universities:
My personal idea will be removing the ban from universities..However, at high school and in primary education, the ban even should not be discussed. Because at that age, they should be protected from the pressures coming from the society. They are vulnerable.



I dont understand pressure from society.. peer pressure to wear the headscarf? lol i thought kids have peer pressure to smoke, to skip school, to join gangs.... since when headscarf is a bad thing.. :S omg!

But of course.. in primary and high school education there is a school UNIFORM that is compulsory hence.. they have to wear no matter what...


Quoting thehandsom:

Now then about turban itself:

we all know that there are millions of milions of muslims they think that wearing turban is not necessary and turban problem is nothing to do with freedom. They are simply not covering themselves. We all know that the way they practice islam in libya, saudi arabia and turkey is very very different. so where is the line?.who is right? what is the answer?



Those questions are what we have to ask ourselves? Seek knowledge to know what is right.. If u believe in a religion that u seek what is right in the Holy Book, bible, Quran, Mahabarata etc... and if u believe in God..God will make u see. Use the intelligence God give us to judge on our own. We have Free will.

Quoting thehandsom:

Then what about the religious communities which are spending everything they have, on bringing sheria (which they are quite powerful at the moment in Turkey. One of them is Fettullah Gulen for example, which owns Zaman!!!) ? What about the pressure they are imposing everywhere? think of a girl wearing a mini skirt in a place where majority is wearing head scarf? (ie Fatif in Istanbul) how long do you think that girl can wear that skirt? or simple how long will she last without putting a headscarf herself? or what do you think the majority will think about that girl? well we all know what they think..dont we? where is that girls rights then? everything is legal from outside. no forcing..BUT THAT IS PRESSURE!!
(we can find thousands of examples about this type of pressure.) And of course you can go back to universities about this ban as well: what about as a parent if you think your daughter will be seen as less muslim, not honourable, non muslim or not muslim ENOUGH? It will be denying rights..wont it?



The golden rule in life... BE YOURSELF, DONT GIVE A DAMN TO WHAT OTHERS THINK. To wear headscarf or not it's YOUR CHOICE.. U should not be pressured by anybody. All these issues like 'what will others think' and 'oh if my daughter doesnt wear headscarf but i do then what will my friends think of my family" and "oh shit all these guys are now after the girls around me who wearing headscarfs because they think i am of less moral"...all these are not worth one's worry! Because no matter what HUMANS will always have something to say about something.. people tend to have issues about everything... Sometimes in life u do right but still people judge you wrongly lol

Besides, girls who dont observe headscarf can be more pious in terms of other aspects of the religion than those who observe headscarf. Just dont judge a person by how she dress simple. In Michael Jackson song,Man In The Mirror "Look at yourself and make a change" lol so start with yourself and dont judge people... Maybe put slogans around turkey to promote this attitude or something.. And change the mindset of people... then less "PRESSURE" =D

Quoting thehandsom:

Secularism (if it could be imposed properly) is a very important at this moment because a secular country's government must protect its citizens from religious communities' pressure.. Because it is STATE'S BASIC DUTY. (State should provide the environment for its citizens to practice their religions freely WITHOUT any pressure from anywhere)



Guys, Read this article... Secularism in Singapore

http://www.asiaone.com/News/The%2BStraits%2BTimes/Story/A1Story20071030-32979.html



118.       zbrct
90 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:15 pm

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.



The difference is in many developped western countries DIVERSITY is stressed. However in Turkey differences are ignored and unity is emphasized. That is you can see Kurds wanting freedoom for themselves but they are against the religious freedoom or vice versa.

119.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:30 pm

Quoting zbrct:

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hmmmmm.

In London, a lot of muslim parents send their daughters to all-girls schools run by the Catholic church or the Church of England, because the schools have a good academic record, and also because there are no boys. e.g. the Virgo Fidelis school 2 minutes from my mum's home has a lot of Pakistani students, and St. Martin-in-the-Fields (my old school) has a lot of Nigerian students.
In actual fact, when I was there one girl in my class was Turkish, and another was Egyptian.

Does this mean muslims in London are more tolerant than secular Turks in Turkey? Ouch.

I am a Christian, and have had some wonderful teachers who are Jews, Buddhists, total atheists, and yes of course Muslim. My first primary school teacher was Mrs Mirza from Pakistan. She wore shalvar-kamiz and a head covering. I remember Mrs Sheikh (married to an Arab), and Mr Helowitz (Polish Jew), and Miss Meliniotis (Greek Orthodox) as well as "religion is the opium of the people" being one of the favourite phrases of Mrs Marsden. I didn't see any difference between them and Miss Martin who was a deacon in the anglican church, or Mrs Drey who was married to a Baptist minister. None of them treated me any differently, or gave me better or worse marks because of religion. The only thing that mattered to me was whether they were good or bad teachers.
A multi-cultural education is really nothing to be scared of, it adds breadth and depth to your life-experience, and to your personality I think.



The difference is in many developped western countries DIVERSITY is stressed. However in Turkey differences are ignored and unity is emphasized. That is you can see Kurds wanting freedoom for themselves but they are against the religious freedoom or vice versa.


Nobody is against Religious freedom..

But, however, religious freedom can never ever be considered as Sheria.
That is the mistake which is done by the islamists in Turkey.
Sheria can never be religious freedom for everybody.

120.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:38 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

to Alameda:

I take it you have Arabic origin and well versed in ways of Islam. Can you pls confirm whether or not, I am correct on following two points.

1. "Turban" as worn by some ladies of Turkia now, was a popular headgear among Jewish ladies of Lebanon, about 40-50 years ago.
2. Islamic tradition (maybe, even Quran) requires Moslem ladies not to dress in a way that may lead to their confusion with followers of another faith.



Sorry, I just saw this question AlphaF. As far my being well versed in the ways of Islam, that is, of course, relative. As I can tell, exactly how the "turban" or head scarf is worn differs depending on the particular Islamic society or school of Fiqh one follows.

As far as I am aware of, the point is to dress in a modest manner and not draw attention to oneself.

There is one ayat in the Quran that states women should dress in a manner so as to be indentified as a Muslim woman, but that was during a particular time when there was massive chaos going on and I dare not go into interpreting that ayat.

In Islam we see different styles of head coverings from the long scarf drawn over the head showing about 1/4 of the head hair, to the ones where no hair is shown at all.

As to Jewish women in Lebanon dressing like the "turban" wearers in Turkia today. I can not now comment. I have seen photos of Jewish and Armenian women from the Caucasus who dressed in a similar fashion. I can not now find a link. Perhaps later I can.

In Jewish law women are not to show their collar bone, or anything under it. The hair is also to be covered. Some Jewish women wear wigs, some wear scarves. Some of the wigs are quite fantastic and almost indistinguishable from real hair. The manner of scarf wearing is, and has been different for quite some time as far as I am aware of.

As in Islam, there are different schools in Judaism. Ashkanazi, Sephardic, Mizrahi....and so on. Each interprets teachings differently. For instance Ashdanazi women do not wear shalvar or trousers, but Sephardic can.

Jewish women's head coverings

Jewish dress law

I hope this helps somewhat, it's all I can contribute at this time to such a and complicated lengthy topic.

121.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:41 pm

Quoting zettea:


I feel for jobs or schools that requires the person to wear a government UNIFORM specifically for the job then they have to make do without the Hijab..


Well they think it is a sin not wearing hijab in public.

Quoting zettea:


And i dont understand why rules like no headscarf is also imposed on other family members of Military personnels.. his family members are not on the job let them wear what they want!


I dont get it either.

Quoting zettea:


well then send women to 15months military service too! lol then everybody is equal regardless of sex too.
Government should give rights to people, Government should be fair.


agreed

Quoting thehandsom:


I dont understand pressure from society.. peer pressure to wear the headscarf? lol i thought kids have peer pressure to smoke, to skip school, to join gangs.... since when headscarf is a bad thing.. :S omg!


Because they think not wearing turban is sinful and they think the girls not wearing is a sinful person. Can you live in an environment most of them think you are sinful and feel nothing? it is pressure...is it not?

Quoting thehandsom:


Those questions are what we have to ask ourselves? Seek knowledge to know what is right.. If u believe in a religion that u seek what is right in the Holy Book, bible, Quran, Mahabarata etc... and if u believe in God..God will make u see. Use the intelligence God give us to judge on our own. We have Free will.


You believe in God with your heart not with your intelligence. Even the most sophisticated islamists will accept that!!

122.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:51 pm

I live in USA where people are allowed to study and work with their headscarf or with any other religious or cultural dressing. In this country we do not look at what do you wear and what do you believe in. We look at how hardworking you are. This the secret, I think, that makes USA a super power. We respect diversity. Where I work there is a girl with head scarf and there is a a very religious jewish guy.

I think, letting people have Kurdish language classes does not divide Turkey. Letting girls wear headscarf does not make Turkey an Islamic state.

If you do not want an Islamic regime in Turkey, you should allow girls with head scarf to study and work in public spaces otherwise they will be the enemy of the secular system.

As you are scared of religious people, some people are scared of Kurds. You should respect the differences.

123.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:53 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting zettea:


I feel for jobs or schools that requires the person to wear a government UNIFORM specifically for the job then they have to make do without the Hijab..


Well they think it is a sin not wearing hijab in public.

Quoting zettea:


And i dont understand why rules like no headscarf is also imposed on other family members of Military personnels.. his family members are not on the job let them wear what they want!


I dont get it either.

Quoting zettea:


well then send women to 15months military service too! lol then everybody is equal regardless of sex too.
Government should give rights to people, Government should be fair.


agreed

Quoting thehandsom:


I dont understand pressure from society.. peer pressure to wear the headscarf? lol i thought kids have peer pressure to smoke, to skip school, to join gangs.... since when headscarf is a bad thing.. :S omg!


Because they think not wearing turban is sinful and they think the girls not wearing is a sinful person. Can you live in an environment most of them think you are sinful and feel nothing? it is pressure...is it not?

Quoting thehandsom:


Those questions are what we have to ask ourselves? Seek knowledge to know what is right.. If u believe in a religion that u seek what is right in the Holy Book, bible, Quran, Mahabarata etc... and if u believe in God..God will make u see. Use the intelligence God give us to judge on our own. We have Free will.


You believe in God with your heart not with your intelligence. Even the most sophisticated islamists will accept that!!



And you think it is a sin to wear hijab in public places
So, what is the difference?

124.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:55 pm

This is an article published in Turkish Daily News by a brilliant young Turkish intellectual, Mustafa Akyol.

Why Are We a Nation Obsessed with the Headscarf?
[Originally published in Turkish Daily News]

To most outside observers the scene must be looking pretty bizarre: Thousands of otherwise reasonable men and women in this country, who make up much of the social elite, are having panic attacks in the face of the possibility that Turkish universities might tolerate their students wearing the Islamic headscarf. Virtually everyday, bureaucrats, pundits and even university rectors lash out against the proposed article in the proposed constitution to set the headscarf free. "This will be the end of the secular republic," they passionately claim, without realizing that a secular republic that doesn't respect the rights and liberties of its citizens is called a secular tyranny.

I have repeatedly said what I think about this prohibition on the headscarf: It is a violation of human rights, and it is a shame on our democracy. I also have made a suggestion to make things more fair if this ban is going to last: The citizens who wear the headscarf should pay less taxes. They obviously don't get anything from Turkey's education system, and they should not be required to take a share in its finance. If they are second-class citizens, why should they pay the same rates with the folks in the first class?

Anyway, tyrannies are tyrannies and they don't bother about such details. And the story of our homegrown one is too broad a topic to discuss in a single column. That's why I rather want to focus on the origins of the obsession with the headscarf. While other Islamic practices such as the Ramadan fast is not a problem in Turkey, why is this one a huge bone of contention?


Remembering the hat revolution

To find an answer, we have to go back to the Ottoman Empire, which underlies much of modern Turkey. In this multi-ethnic and multi-religious state, headgear was an important symbol because it specified a person's religious and thus legal identity. For a long time, the three “nations” of the empire — the Muslims, the Jews and the Christians — had their own distinct turbans. What you put on your head also said who you are.

The person who changed that was Sultan Mahmud II, who, during his reign (1808-1839), brought in many modern concepts such as the rule of law, the limits of the state's powers and the idea of equal citizenship. Under Mahmud, Jews and Christians were granted equal rights with Muslims, and all of them were introduced to a new headgear called the “fez.” This red cylindrical cap was a novelty, which some conservatives did not like, but soon all Ottoman citizens, regardless of their creed, accepted it.

Yet the real revolution would come about a century after Mahmud II, and this time the goal was not “Ottomanization” as he had aimed, but rather de-Ottomanization. Mustafa Kemal, Turkey's Westernist founder, took that bold step as early as 1925 with this famous “hat revolution.” For him, the fez symbolized everything that he wanted to save the Turks from, and the bowler hat represented everything that he wanted to turn them into. He showed up in the conservative city of Kastamonu in August 1925 with a bowler on this head. “This is called a hat gentlemen,” he said, “from now on, we will wear this.”

Soon came the hat law, which outlawed all religious turbans and made it compulsory for civil servants to wear the “headgear of the civilized peoples.” Atatürk did not touch women's veils, but he systematically promoted the ideal “modern Turkish woman,” who was supposed to wear all the trendy clothes including those vintage swimsuits of the ‘30s.

Atatürk and his followers were very enthusiastic about the bowler hats, and, at a time when much of the war-stricken Turkish society was in total destitute, they did not refrain from spending great sums of money to import them from various European countries. Yet not everybody was a great fan of this compulsory fashion. For many devout Muslims, the hat represented the Christian West and they perceived its imposition onto Muslim society as an act of forced self-denial. They saw in the bowlers even an implicit message of disobedience to God. It was impossible to wear this rimmed hat during the daily Muslim prayer, in which the believers put their foreheads to the ground as a sign of submission to the Almighty. So putting on the hat, for them, looked like abandoning worship.


The victims of the bowler hat

Hence came the reactions to the hat revolution. In the northeastern coastal town of Rize the whole populace rejected the idea, sparking a rebellion that led Ankara to send the giant warship Hamidiye to the shores of the city in order to be persuasive. In Erzurum a group of 30 protestors were fired upon by the gendarmerie and several of them, including a woman, were shot.

The most notorious episode would be the case of İskilipli Atıf, a “hodja,” i.e., a religious scholar, who wrote a treatise titled “The Hat and the Imitation of the Franks,” in which he objected to the idea by arguing that it would amount to the abandonment of Muslim culture. Although he had written that 32-page tract before the revolution, at a time when the word was around but the law was not in practice, he was arrested by the authorities charged with treason. Soon he was tried by one of the “Independence Courts,” which were arbitrary revolutionary tribunals similar to the ones established by the French revolutionaries and later the Bolsheviks in order to eliminate the “enemies of the people.” In his defense, İskilipli Atıf said that he stood behind his views, and the court cold-bloodedly sentenced him to death. The old man was executed by hanging on Feb. 4, 1925. “Don't cry my child,” he said in his last hours to his daughter who was in tears. “Just recite the Koran for my soul.”

İskilipli Atıf was only one of the many victims of the hat revolution. Eight others were executed in Rize, seven in Maraş and four in Erzurum. According to the Turkish version of Encyclopedie Larousse, the number of people killed by the regime was as high as 78. Moreover, many others were sentenced to 10 to 15 years of imprisonment.


Permanent revolution

More than 80 years have passed since the hat revolution and its victims. Yet the mindset of the revolutionaries has changed very little, if at all. Nobody wears hats anymore, and the male headgear is a non-issue. But now the focus is on the female headdress. The revolutionaries still want to do the same thing: They want to eradicate all traditional Islamic clothes. They would love to do it by employing revolutionary guards on the streets to rip the veils off, but that is not feasible. So they rather prefer to contain the veiled women by pushing them out of the “public square” and denying them the right to education. The ultimate aim is to make all of them “modern” by using coercive powers of the state.

What these revolutionaries fail to understand is that in the modern world, states have no right to interfere with the dress codes of their citizens, and that individuals have the right to live in whatever manner they choose. Actually if there is any version of “modernity” that they resemble, that is the way of Chairman Mao, whose Cultural Revolution traumatized a whole nation during the late ‘60s. Turkey's cultural revolution has been much less radical, thank God, but unlike Mao's now defunct tyranny, it still goes on.

125.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:58 pm

Another one by the same author...

Turkey and the Headscarf
[Originally published in The Washington Times]

There are few countries in the world in which policemen ensure that women dress appropriately. Saudi Arabia is one example. Its notorious "religion police," called mutawwa, force women to cover their heads and bodies. In Turkey, the story is reversed: The Turkish police require the removal of headdresses.

To be fair, Turkey's dress code is much less severe than Saudi Arabia's. In Turkey, the ban is enforced only in defined parts of the public square: government buildings, courtrooms, university campuses and all schools.


This ban has been a hot issue in Turkey for many years. While no civil servant or high school student has ever been allowed to wear a headscarf, university students once were accorded this privilege — until the 1990s, when the secularist establishment was alarmed at the growing number of such "religionists" in colleges, and strict rules were applied to ensure the "tightheads" wouldn't be taken in.

Some students agreed to uncover their heads and continued with their education, but thousands lost their chance to graduate — simply for choosing to wear a cloth over their heads, which they believe to be God's will.

A few months ago, a new episode was added to the longstanding drama. In the Ataturk University of Erzurum, a very conservative town in the East, all students, of course without any headscarves, came to receive their diplomas at graduation. With them came many mothers and grandmothers. Alas, some wore headscarves. Following a order from the university rector, police denied them entry.

The women cried and swore that they, too, believed in the principles of Ataturk, Turkey's founding father; but the orders were strict. In secular Turkey, no religious garment must ever appear on the "public square" — the liberated zone of Turkey's self-styled secularism.

* * *

The bone of contention here is the rigid ideology of Turkey's secularist establishment. Theirs is an intolerant version of secularism imported from France in the early 20th century, a time when the anticlerical zealotry of French revolutionism was at its zenith, and the Nietzschean claim "God is dead" was the intellectual norm. An all-powerful state and a uniform society were seen as the key to "progress."

The young Turkish Republic, founded in 1923, formulated an authoritarian mode of secular nationalism, not neutral to but dominant over and sometimes outright hostile to religion. In two decades of single-party rule, most Islamic traditions were replaced with European ones. Speaking against these "reforms" was punished severely.

That's why Turkey was never a really convincing example of the compatibility of Islam with modernity for Muslims in other nations. At the problem's heart is the lack of real democracy. While Turkey evolved into a much more democratic country in recent decades, it still retained some vestiges of the authoritarian secular nationalism.

Turkey's current conservative government, run by the AKP (Party for Justice and Progress) is very much willing to lift the headscarf ban. Yet whenever AKP leaders speak about changing the ban, they are reminded by the secularist establishment such a move would create a "regime crisis," a euphemism for pressure from the military. Consequently, Turkey remains the only country in the world in which a Muslim woman wearing a headscarf has simply no chance for any kind of education. Turkey's secularist establishment claims this is necessary, because otherwise Islamists will turn Turkey into another Iran.

That's an unsubstantiated fear. Turkey's current government led by AKP leader Tayyip Erdogan is not Islamist — let alone "Islamofascist" as a commentator recently argued — but a conservative political force that has brought more freedom to the whole Turkish society in recent years. Polls show more than 90 percent of Turks wish to live under a secular regime, but more than 70 percent oppose restrictions on the headscarf and such personal Islamic practices.

What the people actually want is a government that makes no laws — and employs no police — "respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof." Thus, while the United States promotes liberty and democracy in the broader Middle East, it should remember even Turkey needs more of both. Apart from secularist and Islamist authoritarianisms, there is a third way called liberal democracy. That is exactly what the Turkish society needs — and deserves.

126.       alameda
3499 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:04 pm

Quoting GatewaytoTR:

I live in USA where people are allowed to study and work with their headscarf or with any other religious or cultural dressing. In this country we do not look at what do you wear and what do you believe in. We look at how hardworking you are. This the secret, I think, that makes USA a super power. We respect diversity. Where I work there is a girl with head scarf and there is a a very religious jewish guy.

I think, letting people have Kurdish language classes does not divide Turkey. Letting girls wear headscarf does not make Turkey an Islamic state.

If you do not want an Islamic regime in Turkey, you should allow girls with head scarf to study and work in public spaces otherwise they will be the enemy of the secular system.

As you are scared of religious people, some people are scared of Kurds. You should respect the differences.



You live in a dream world. If what you said were true, it would be wonderful, however the actual fact of the matter is if you are a Muslim woman walking in the US with full hijab, you can be in very serious danger.

Very few businesses would allow a woman to wear a hijab. Most have dress codes that must be followed.

she was distinguished by a hijab

"Killed Thursday by a single bullet to the head as she walked with her 3-year-old daughter on a well-to-do residential street, she was distinguished by a hijab, the head scarf worn by some devout Muslim women. The Afghan immigrant had no purse or money on her, family members said."

127.       elham
579 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:06 pm

Quoting thehandsom:



Because they think not wearing turban is sinful and they think the girls not wearing is a sinful person. Can you live in an environment most of them think you are sinful and feel nothing? it is pressure...is it not?



You criticize this case and you do the same when you thought wearing hijab is bad idea
and appeals for democracy and freedom for you only, and deprive others of their right to freedom of wearing hijab cause you don't like it

128.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:07 pm

Quoting GatewaytoTR:


And you think it is a sin to wear hijab in public places
So, what is the difference?


I never said that But can you say 'not wearing hijab is NOT SINFUL'?

129.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:08 pm

Did they catch the killer, who was he?

130.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:15 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting GatewaytoTR:


And you think it is a sin to wear hijab in public places
So, what is the difference?


I never said that But can you say 'not wearing hijab is NOT SINFUL'?



You believe that there should be a certain code of dressing in public spaces and that is why a girl with head scarf can not work in a public building. And I believe that you can not set the limits for dressing because people belong to different cultures and religious beliefs. I emphasize the respect for diversity. So how can I say "not wearing hijab is sinful"?

131.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:16 pm

Quoting alameda:

Quoting GatewaytoTR:

I live in USA where people are allowed to study and work with their headscarf or with any other religious or cultural dressing. In this country we do not look at what do you wear and what do you believe in. We look at how hardworking you are. This the secret, I think, that makes USA a super power. We respect diversity. Where I work there is a girl with head scarf and there is a a very religious jewish guy..



You live in a dream world. If what you said were true, it would be wonderful, however the actual fact of the matter is if you are a Muslim woman walking in the US with full hijab, you can be in very serious danger.

Very few businesses would allow a woman to wear a hijab. Most have dress codes that must be followed.



At least in the US they have the FREEDOM to wear it and not have it banned by the state, well not yet.


132.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:24 pm

That is all I can say on this topic. Like the author of the 2 articles that I posted, I do not believe in authoritarian secularism because I was raised in a culture where differences are seen richness. But in Turkey as far as I know differences are seen very very dangerous. That is why Kurds, religious people, Armenians, missionaries, etc are seen dangerous.I think you should relax.

133.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:45 pm

Quoting GatewaytoTR:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting GatewaytoTR:


And you think it is a sin to wear hijab in public places
So, what is the difference?


I never said that But can you say 'not wearing hijab is NOT SINFUL'?



You believe that there should be a certain code of dressing in public spaces and that is why a girl with head scarf can not work in a public building. And I believe that you can not set the limits for dressing because people belong to different cultures and religious beliefs. I emphasize the respect for diversity. So how can I say "not wearing hijab is sinful"?


I already told why hijab should not be worn in public buildings in my earlier posts..And I stick to what I wrote.
"not wearing hijab is sinful" issue:
If it is not sinful NOT TO WEAR HIJAB, why are they wearing it then?
Do you want me to dig the cases from the net what they do to the girls wearing mini skirts in deeply religious areas?
or how they treat people who eat during ramadan?

134.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:48 pm

Quoting thehandsom:



I already told why hijab should not be worn in public buildings in my earlier posts..And I stick to what I wrote.
"not wearing hijab is sinful" issue:
If it is not sinful, why are they wearing it then?
Do you want me to dig the cases from the net what they do to the girls wearing mini skirts in deeply religious areas?
or how they treat people who eat during ramadan?



So is banning hijab the solution or education?

135.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:53 pm

Get onto a new topic, please, after a while it gets boring....

136.       GatewaytoTR
26 posts
 10 Jan 2008 Thu 11:58 pm

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting GatewaytoTR:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting GatewaytoTR:


And you think it is a sin to wear hijab in public places
So, what is the difference?


I never said that But can you say 'not wearing hijab is NOT SINFUL'?



You believe that there should be a certain code of dressing in public spaces and that is why a girl with head scarf can not work in a public building. And I believe that you can not set the limits for dressing because people belong to different cultures and religious beliefs. I emphasize the respect for diversity. So how can I say "not wearing hijab is sinful"?


I already told why hijab should not be worn in public buildings in my earlier posts..And I stick to what I wrote.
"not wearing hijab is sinful" issue:
If it is not sinful, why are they wearing it then?
Do you want me to dig the cases from the net what they do to the girls wearing mini skirts in deeply religious areas?
or how they treat people who eat during ramadan?



Empathy is the answer. They can belive that it is a religious rule. You do not have to believe in the same thing but you should respect their belif. You have your own truth and they have their own truths. That is called diversity. As you can not punish all the Kurds because of what PKK does, you can not banish all the girls with head scarf because of what some religious people think.

Ok, this is my final post for this lively topic.

137.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 12:04 am

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting thehandsom:



I already told why hijab should not be worn in public buildings in my earlier posts..And I stick to what I wrote.
"not wearing hijab is sinful" issue:
If it is not sinful, why are they wearing it then?
Do you want me to dig the cases from the net what they do to the girls wearing mini skirts in deeply religious areas?
or how they treat people who eat during ramadan?



So is banning hijab the solution or education?


haha
I have different ideas for the solution
But I am not intending to reveal it

138.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 12:07 am

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Waseem_UK:



So is banning hijab the solution or education?


haha
I have different ideas for the solution
But I am not intending to reveal it



It would certainly be interesting to know what you propose....

139.       alameda
3499 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 12:26 am

Quoting Roswitha:

Did they catch the killer, who was he?



FREMONT -- A plea hearing for the man suspected in the killing of Fremont resident Alia Ansari was delayed until April 20 to give his attorney more time to review evidence.
Urango's hearing delayed until April

That is the last news I can find regarding this case. Sad, very very sad.

140.       Cacık
296 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 06:13 pm

Quoting alameda:

You live in a dream world. If what you said were true, it would be wonderful, however the actual fact of the matter is if you are a Muslim woman walking in the US with full hijab, you can be in very serious danger.

Very few businesses would allow a woman to wear a hijab. Most have dress codes that must be followed.

she was distinguished by a hijab

"Killed Thursday by a single bullet to the head as she walked with her 3-year-old daughter on a well-to-do residential street, she was distinguished by a hijab, the head scarf worn by some devout Muslim women. The Afghan immigrant had no purse or money on her, family members said."



And it seems you live in your own world.

Let me share a true story with you from aTurkish family I know in New York. A couple of days after 9/11 attacks, there was a lot of concern for muslims in NY for fear of backlash against them. One muslim women in the street in New York where my friend was, was very afraid to go out shopping or down to the street. To show solidarity and love, the women in her street - American non-Muslim woman - all got their scarves and covered their heads IN ORDER TO make that one muslim woman feel warm and welcome, to stop her fears.

THIS IS A TRUE STORY.

Please do not criticize without some more knowledge.

141.       Cacık
296 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 06:16 pm

Quoting Cacık:

Quoting alameda:

You live in a dream world. If what you said were true, it would be wonderful, however the actual fact of the matter is if you are a Muslim woman walking in the US with full hijab, you can be in very serious danger.

Very few businesses would allow a woman to wear a hijab. Most have dress codes that must be followed.

she was distinguished by a hijab

"Killed Thursday by a single bullet to the head as she walked with her 3-year-old daughter on a well-to-do residential street, she was distinguished by a hijab, the head scarf worn by some devout Muslim women. The Afghan immigrant had no purse or money on her, family members said."



And it seems you live in your own world.

Let me share a true story with you from aTurkish family I know in New York. A couple of days after 9/11 attacks, there was a lot of concern for muslims in NY for fear of backlash against them. One muslim women in the street in New York where my friend was, was very afraid to go out shopping or down to the street. To show solidarity and love, the women in her street - American non-Muslim woman - all got their scarves and covered their heads IN ORDER TO make that one muslim woman feel warm and welcome, to stop her fears.

THIS IS A TRUE STORY.

Please do not criticize without some more knowledge.



In fact I would like to add to add that there are many stories of non-Muslim woman being harrassed in London for not being muslim and covering up when they walk through the streets.

This is not one way ! It happens in every mixed culture - it is wrong no matter who you are.

My point is - you upset me with your strong reply highlighting stories that yes, are true, but NO NOT COMMON !

142.       alameda
3499 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 07:16 pm

Cacik, First of all, I have no idea of what country you are from, consequently, it's hard to know what your frame of reference is.

If you are in the USA, I suggest you yourself put a hijab on and keep it on for a month. Go about your life and report back. Tell us all how much love and compassion you have received. Tell us about the great career opportunities you have received.

I agree, incidents such as the one I posted are not at all common. However there are many much more subtle incidents of verbal insults, shouting from passing cars, throwing debris that I know of and have witnessed personally in the flesh with my own eyes, so don't tell me I don't know what I'm talking about. I do know, and very well.

Let's see you try to get a good job with a hijab. Too bad you don't have a twin so you could do a with hijab and without a hijab experiment.

Although events this extreme are a minority, they are a very loud and very dangerous minority.

Islamophobia


Quoting Cacık:



And it seems you live in your own world.

Let me share a true story with you from aTurkish family I know in New York. A couple of days after 9/11 attacks, there was a lot of concern for muslims in NY for fear of backlash against them. One muslim women in the street in New York where my friend was, was very afraid to go out shopping or down to the street. To show solidarity and love, the women in her street - American non-Muslim woman - all got their scarves and covered their heads IN ORDER TO make that one muslim woman feel warm and welcome, to stop her fears.

My point is - you upset me with your strong reply highlighting stories that yes, are true, but NO NOT COMMON !





143.       Cacık
296 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 07:31 pm

Quoting alameda:

Cacik, First of all, I have no idea of what country you are from, consequently, it's hard to know what your frame of reference is.

If you are in the USA, I suggest you yourself put a hijab on and keep it on for a month. Go about your life and report back. Tell us all how much love and compassion you have received. Tell us about the great career opportunities you have received.

I agree, incidents such as the one I posted are not at all common. However there are many much more subtle incidents of verbal insults, shouting from passing cars, throwing debris that I know of and have witnessed personally in the flesh with my own eyes, so don't tell me I don't know what I'm talking about. I do know, and very well.

Let's see you try to get a good job with a hijab. Too bad you don't have a twin so you could do a with hijab and without a hijab experiment.

Although events this extreme are a minority, they are a very loud and very dangerous minority.

Islamophobia



Try being a Christian in Saudia Arabic or a Coptic Christian in Eygpt. I know what is like being of a religion that is different to where you live. I have seen the cuts and physical scars left by beatings, and I heard of the friends at the funerals of those who had their lives taken !

My point - your make it sound that it is only in USA ! It is FAR MORE TOLERANT there than for ANY Christian or Jew in the middle east !

Christianophobia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persecution_of_Jews

Persecution of Hindus

So to use your own words - take off your headscarf and walk around Saudi or Iran and see if you can get a job ! You would be arrested and probably flogged !

144.       catwoman
8933 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 08:47 pm

Quoting Cacık:

Try being a Christian in Saudia Arabic or a Coptic Christian in Eygpt. I know what is like being of a religion that is different to where you live. I have seen the cuts and physical scars left by beatings, and I heard of the friends at the funerals of those who had their lives taken !

My point - your make it sound that it is only in USA ! It is FAR MORE TOLERANT there than for ANY Christian or Jew in the middle east !

Christianophobia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persecution_of_Jews

Persecution of Hindus

So to use your own words - take off your headscarf and walk around Saudi or Iran and see if you can get a job ! You would be arrested and probably flogged !


+100000000000000000000000000000000000
Exactly!

145.       eddie
0 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 09:00 pm

Quoting girleegirl:

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!



Hear! Hear! ....Now here is a voice of reason....Besides,
the Head Scarf is rather beautiful. I prefer the 'Classic
Head Scarf myself. I'm not joking, they look great.

146.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 11 Jan 2008 Fri 11:50 pm

Quoting eddie:

Quoting girleegirl:

I would think members of the Turkish Parliment would have much better things to be concerned with! What an ridiculous waste of time and resources. Here's an idea...letwomen make their own decisions about this issue!



Hear! Hear! ....Now here is a voice of reason....Besides,
the Head Scarf is rather beautiful. I prefer the 'Classic
Head Scarf myself. I'm not joking, they look great.


Hmmmmm......Well, I've been called many things here but never the voice of reason. Thank you eddie!!

147.       alameda
3499 posts
 12 Jan 2008 Sat 02:03 am

Quoting Cacık:

....Try being a Christian in Saudia Arabic or a Coptic Christian in Eygpt. I know what is like being of a religion that is different to where you live. I have seen the cuts and physical scars left by beatings, and I heard of the friends at the funerals of those who had their lives taken !

My point - your make it sound that it is only in USA ! It is FAR MORE TOLERANT there than for ANY Christian or Jew in the middle east !

So to use your own words - take off your headscarf and walk around Saudi or Iran and see if you can get a job ! You would be arrested and probably flogged !



First of all Saudi has no pretense of being tolerant or receptive to other religions. That state was not founded on the principal of religious freedom, so what does Saudi have to do with this conversation? They are rather extreme cases. Furthermore, just who supports the Saudi Monarchy, and why ?

Friends

Whatever intolerance exists anywhere does not in anyway justify intolerance anywhere else.

Are you familiar with the recent violence in Gujarat?

When does this stop and we start being really tolerant of others? Do past perceived or real injustice mean more can be done...and in particular to the innocent?

It is an undeniable fact that the world is now in general in the grips of Islamophobia Are we to sit quietly and say, "Oh they did it to "those" people, so who cares?"

In Germany, they came first for the Communists, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Communist;
And then they came for the trade unionists, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a trade unionist;
And then they came for the Jews, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Jew;
And then . . . they came for me . . . And by that time there was no one left to speak up." .

Am I to become that which I hate?

148.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 12 Jan 2008 Sat 05:42 am

Quoting AlphaF:

I will tell you exactly what is important, when Alemeda replies my request..

You were not rude, at all




JEWS & TURBAN in History
http://www.acs.ucalgary.ca/~elsegal/Shokel/900406_Turbans.html

149.       Cacık
296 posts
 12 Jan 2008 Sat 11:06 am

Quote:

"Whatever intolerance exists anywhere does not in anyway justify intolerance anywhere else.

When does this stop and we start being really tolerant of others? Do past perceived or real injustice mean more can be done...and in particular to the innocent? "



When the "fanatic" muslim world start to open their minds. When the islamophobes drop their fear. When there becomes room for a debate such as you and I are having openly ! which is rather rare given the subject.

Quote:

"First of all Saudi has no pretense of being tolerant or receptive to other religions. That state was not founded on the principal of religious freedom, so what does Saudi have to do with this conversation? "



Oh so because there is no pretense, it is acceptable. What about Iran, they claim freedom, what about Afganistan, Pakistan, etc.....

Quote:

"It is an undeniable fact that the world is now in general in the grips of islamophobia Are we to sit quietly and say, "Oh they did it to "those" people, so who cares?" "



You cannot discuss one side of the coin only. You are talking about intolerance against islam - I am simply giving you an opposite that is also true. Any intolerance is unacceptable, my point is you see that:
In the west there is islamophobia as equally there is a phobia and hatred to anything non-islam in the islam world (not incl Turkey for the most part).

You cannot argue that the "only" intolerance comes from western world.


150.       catwoman
8933 posts
 12 Jan 2008 Sat 08:12 pm

I don't think that there is any islamophobia, in the sense like there is homophobia or antisemitism (especially antisemitism in the past in europe) for example. I would agree that there is some sort of antipathy and some misunderstanding about muslims, but it isn't anything large scale, but rather isolated examples. At the same time, it's hard to misspel any misunderstandings and antipathy towards muslims if there are no muslims who protest against the cruelties that seem to be sanctioned by their religion and especially if you look what is going on in muslim countries.
If there was islamophobia, you would see muslims who move from the west to muslim countries. I have never heard of anybody doing that, in fact, they still move to the west as much as they can.

151.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 13 Jan 2008 Sun 12:59 am

The real problem - one that can never be reconciled - is between Jewish and Christian faiths...I think Jews are winning.

Moslems are only innocent and unaware bystanders.. They only get killed as the fight moves on...

Believe it or not.

152.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 13 Jan 2008 Sun 03:03 am

Quoting catwoman:

I don't think that there is any islamophobia, in the sense like there is homophobia or antisemitism (especially antisemitism in the past in europe) for example. I would agree that there is some sort of antipathy and some misunderstanding about muslims, but it isn't anything large scale, but rather isolated examples. At the same time, it's hard to misspel any misunderstandings and antipathy towards muslims if there are no muslims who protest against the cruelties that seem to be sanctioned by their religion and especially if you look what is going on in muslim countries.
If there was islamophobia, you would see muslims who move from the west to muslim countries. I have never heard of anybody doing that, in fact, they still move to the west as much as they can.



thanks for sharing your THOUGHTs.....

153.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Jan 2008 Sun 04:17 am

Antisemitism in Europe didn't happen all at once. It started with the demonization of the Jews and built up slowly.

As long as we have people like Daniel Pipes

Ann Coulter

This American Life pull the slider to 7:15 and listen to the problems this 4th grader had in school.

I don't understand how these people can be allowed to continue. There are laws against libel.
Libel

What would you call it when a place like the Khalil Gibran International Academy faces such objections to the school.

I think if anything we need more places like the Khalil Gibran International Academy.

154.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 04:02 am

When the Ottoman Empire began, Edward Longshanks, King of England, was fighting in the Ninth Crusade with his Mongol allies, who massacred their way through Anatolia to Aleppo, driving tens of thousands of terrified Seljuk Turks before him. Edward would return to England, still in contact with his Mongol buddies, and proceed in time to murder the Jews of England. Longshanks and his ally, the Mongol Abagha are as much the fathers of the Ottoman Empire as Othman the First.

155.       Cacık
296 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 05:56 pm

We could spend years throwing weblinks back at each other showing how the other side suffers.

You obviously cannot accept - you can't even write it - that phobia exists in the islam world towards anything non-islamic. For every post you retaliate with weblinks..... so I would prefer not to continue this debate.

You want to know why islamophobia exists, for precisely the reason you have shown, a refusal to see the other side, a refusal to see that you are not the only victims of persecution. You continue to shower us with statistics and websites without acknowledging that there is far more to it that your superficial view.

So as long as you are unable to enter equally into debate an accept that there is fault on all sides, you will always have islamophobia.

My last words because it is such a waste of my time !

156.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:08 pm

Maybe it's just me, but I believe that too much has been made of this issue. I don't think average people care whether or not a woman wears a headscarf. I think it is a political tool used to cause hate and discontent between people and to even discuss it in a political arena only makes insignificant differences between people seem HUGE.

Personally, I would never wear one but I don't care if someone else does. It means something different to me than to them..I am sure. But the point is, this issue is used to polarize people, not because politicians really care.

157.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:22 pm

The issue has very little to do with average people or with the average politician: They are mere tools...

A great deal more is at stake....

158.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:25 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

The issue has very little to do with average people or with the average politician.

A great deal more is at stake....



I am sure you are right but if the average person doesn't really care...why do the extremes have such power?

159.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:28 pm

pls rephrase you query...

160.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:30 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

pls rephrase you query...



I guess you have to assume that the average person is the majority and the extreme person is the minority...how is it that the extreme has so much power in our world right now...is it true that the squeaky wheel gets the grease?

161.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:45 pm

Tell me...which group on the world is in minority, yet are alleged to have great manipulating powers (some open/some veiled/some secret - some religious/some political/some economical) to reach their goals?

- Where does this Turban come from (historically), anyway?
- Which newspaper in Turkia is pushing for headscarfs?
- Who is the man behind that paper?
- Where is that man sheltered? Which country does he live and operate from?
- Which group in that country is alleged to be very powerful, in control of finance and politics?
- What exactly is the ultimate goal of this powerful group that seem to run that country.
- What kind of a new world order this group has in mind?
- What kind of a new common (unified) religion is under design, for this new world order?
- What role this powerful group has in mind for Turkia, to achieve their own goals?

OBAMA started reminding me more and more of Martin Luther King. I hope he does not meet the same fate....

162.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:54 pm

Barack Obama should not risk his life by running for the US Presidency. Enemies will be tempted to assassinate him!
Posted by africanpress on January 18, 2007

For one, as African Press, we would love to see him run for the presidency. We would like to see him nominated by the democrats to be their flag bearer. We would love to see him win, and move to the white house. But yet again, we know that it is 95% to 5% chance for him loosing his life to the killers the moment he takes the challenge for the White House seriously. Then we think later, oh what a waste! Is it not better then that a warning of love is sounded now, before Obama hits the campaign road?

Anybody who understands the US politics and history will keep their fingers crossed, when they hear that someone wants to become the first black US President this century.

Dr Martin Luther King was seen as a threat, and a rising star, when he got popular fighting for the rights of a black man and woman. And he was seen by others as a man who wanted to force legislation in congress that would give rights to the blacks for equal participation in politics, employment and education. As a result he was considered a headache and put to rest forever.

When everyone saw General Colin Powell, the former US military chief, become the first US Secretary of State, many people started thinking he may be tempted to run for the presidency. They were right. Yes, he contemplated to do so, but wisely listened to advice from his loved ones who did not want to loose him to the gun.

Senator Obama, becoming the first black US president would be great for Africa. He might do good things for the continent, but will his advisers guide him to choose life, and do more for Africa as a senator, or they will let him face the enemies, - those who will do everything on this planet, to ensure no black man becomes the US President and Commander in Chief? These are serious things we are talking about, and must be addressed before it is too late.

When John F. Kennedy stood for President, many Americans questioned themselves, complaining that the US was not ready for a Catholic president. John F. Kennedy won, and became the first Catholic president. That gave a breed to his enemies, and elimination plans were activated that resulted in the assassination of John F.

His brother, Robert Kennedy decided to step in his shoes, and was nominated as the Democratic flag bearer. He was surely going to win the presidency, because there were many sympathy votes due to the lose of his brother after he was assassinated.

But history confirms. He too lost the race to the gun when he was assasinated!

Now the real question we have to deal with here and now, is the reality that Obama will not have an easy ride, if he seriously chooses to target the White House after George Bush. We are afraid he will loose his life to the gun just like Luther, Kennedy and Kennedy!

It is not APN’s wish that he should not run for presidency, but we are also dealing with a real threat! Those who love Obama should advice him against running for presidency, and make him understand that it is for his own benefit and family.

163.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 06:58 pm

So will Obama be wearing a headscarf or not?

164.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:03 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

So will Obama be wearing a headscarf or not?



I dont think he will....

165.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:06 pm

Life threats:

The prospect, even the likelihood, of assassination played a significant role in Colin Powell's decision - and that of his wife - to abandon any thought of a presidential run.

166.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:09 pm

Quoting Roswitha:

Life threats:

The prospect, even the likelihood, of assassination played a significant role in Colin Powell's decision - and that of his wife - to abandon any thought of a presidential run.



Colin Powell did not wear a headscarf either....

167.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:25 pm

Alpha...I don't know the answers to all your questions but I do feel like politicians use our fear and misunderstanding of eachother to justify their wars and conflict and inept abilities in diplomacy.

168.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:29 pm

You are an optimist..They are not as dumb as you think...

Why do they do it Lisa, for fun - or for something else?

The replies to some of my queries are hinted in my previous posts. Detailed discussions are available from many sources on the internet.

169.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:30 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

Why do they do it Lisa, for fun - or something else?

The replies to some of my queries are hinted in my previous posts. Detailed discussions are available from many sources on the internet.



I think I will call you Socrates! You always answer with a question....hehehehe

170.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 07:40 pm

Quoting AlphaF:

You are an optimist..They are not as dumb as you think...

Quote:




I never said they were dumb. I said I did not know the answers. Stop changing your posts!!


171.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 08:13 pm

Quoting Elisabeth:

.............I guess you have to assume that the average person is the majority and the extreme person is the minority...how is it that the extreme has so much power in our world right now...is it true that the squeaky wheel gets the grease?



Some wheels are made to squeak by those who have interests in the outcome...it's an old story. Generaly there are several groups whose interests converge, making mass manipulation easier. Left alone, I think most people would not have such hostility towards their differences.

One day I saw a little 1 1/2 year old white boy (blond blue eyes) and a little 1 1/2 year black (eyes and skin like expresso) boy who obviously had never been exposed to each other's races. It was amazing to watch their discovery of each other. Their eyes got large and they carefully looked at each other, walking around each other with glee not fear or hostility.

Humans are social creatures (flock/herd animals) in reality. It's not that difficult to manipulate this built in feature of "us" and "them" deep seated emotions.

Those who have an interest in certain outcomes seek to manipulate public opinion by means of the process called Propaganda...........

Propaganda is the deliberate, systematic attempt to shape perceptions, manipulate cognitions, and direct behaviour to achieve a response that furthers the desired intent of the propagandist.

– Garth S. Jowett and Victoria O'Donnell, Propaganda And Persuasion

"Naturally the common people don't want war; neither in Russia, nor in England, nor in America, nor in Germany. That is understood. But after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine policy, and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. ...Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is to tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country."

Hermann Goering, Hitler’s Reich Marshall, at the Nuremberg
Trials after World War II.


172.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 08:22 pm

My mother never lets me read Nazi stuff !

173.       teaschip
3870 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 09:56 pm

Quoting Cacık:

We could spend years throwing weblinks back at each other showing how the other side suffers.

You obviously cannot accept - you can't even write it - that phobia exists in the islam world towards anything non-islamic. For every post you retaliate with weblinks..... so I would prefer not to continue this debate.

You want to know why islamophobia exists, for precisely the reason you have shown, a refusal to see the other side, a refusal to see that you are not the only victims of persecution. You continue to shower us with statistics and websites without acknowledging that there is far more to it that your superficial view.

So as long as you are unable to enter equally into debate an accept that there is fault on all sides, you will always have islamophobia.

My last words because it is such a waste of my time !



years and years of weblinks.. and I believe your words are correct.. islamophobia..

174.       KeithL
1455 posts
 14 Jan 2008 Mon 10:08 pm

So true!!!!!

Quoting alameda:


"Naturally the common people don't want war; neither in Russia, nor in England, nor in America, nor in Germany. That is understood. But after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine policy, and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. ...Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is to tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country."

Hermann Goering, Hitler’s Reich Marshall, at the Nuremberg
Trials after World War II.


175.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:22 am

Have a look:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZr0nj_uO_M&feature=related

176.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:26 am

Even better...

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=XxMQQLWwEeI&feature=related

177.       azade
1606 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:30 am

I like niqabs because then I dont have to bother putting any make up on or worry about the degree of blackness under my eyes and I can diss people without them knowing it lol

178.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:31 am

cok guzel!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=C6Jc4_V-Elc

179.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:32 am

Quoting azade:

or worry about the degree of blackness under my eyes



Well, in that case there is NOTHİNG BUT blackness under your eyes!

180.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:36 am

Quoting Roswitha:

cok guzel!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=C6Jc4_V-Elc



It is so funny !!! Correct me if I am WRONG but for a muslim woman the point of the headscarf is to "hide your adornments" and those women who CHOOSE to wear them say it is because of their deep faith. So please can someone tell me why these pictures show women with make up so thick you could scrape it off with a trowel, and jewellery???

Surely both jewellery and makeup are an adornment and accentuate your features, such as eyes. These women are merely covering their hair, but sexing up the rest!!!!! lol

It seems to me that it is less about deep faith and more about doing what you are told and trying to break the boundaries

181.       christine_usa
284 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:37 am

Rosewitha's Youtube post was FAR more representative of Turksish women. Very stylish and cosmopolitan, yet maintaining Quranic modesty, whilst...

The latter webpost addressed a fundamentalist hijab, found in the Arab world (not Turkey - or at best- a miniscule percent of Turkish women/probably on the border regions).

It's important not to perpetuate stereotypes, or at least situate them contextually.


182.       azade
1606 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:37 am

Quoting Deli_kizin:

Quoting azade:

or worry about the degree of blackness under my eyes



Well, in that case there is NOTHİNG BUT blackness under your eyes!



lol talk about an even "skin" tone

183.       azade
1606 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:39 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting Roswitha:

cok guzel!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=C6Jc4_V-Elc



It is so funny !!! Correct me if I am WRONG but for a muslim woman the point of the headscarf is to "hide your adornments" and those women who CHOOOSE to wear them say it is because of their deep faith. So please can someone tell me why these pictures show women with make up so thick you could scrape it off with a trowel, and jewellery???

Surely both jewellery and makeup are an adornment and accentuate your features, such as eyes. These women are merely covering their hair, but sexing up the rest!!!!! lol

It seems to me that it is less about deep faith and more about doing what you are told and trying to break the boundaries



You're right. it's not hijab. Its just women with cloths around their heads. Who knows maybe they're wearing them because they think they have ugly hair. But in any case there's no point in them wearing them.
it kind of brings out their faces though, especially with all the make up. Definitely not hijab

184.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:42 am

Quoting azade:

You're right. it's not hijab. Its just women with cloths around their heads. Who knows maybe they're wearing them because they think they have ugly hair. But in any case there's no point in them wearing them.
it kind of brings out their faces though, especially with all the make up. Definitely not hijab



Which kind of makes a mockery of their protests at not being able wear them in schools and universities then...

185.       geniuda
1070 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:46 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting Roswitha:

cok guzel!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=C6Jc4_V-Elc



It is so funny !!! Correct me if I am WRONG but for a muslim woman the point of the headscarf is to "hide your adornments" and those women who CHOOSE to wear them say it is because of their deep faith. So please can someone tell me why these pictures show women with make up so thick you could scrape it off with a trowel, and jewellery???

Surely both jewellery and makeup are an adornment and accentuate your features, such as eyes. These women are merely covering their hair, but sexing up the rest!!!!! lol

It seems to me that it is less about deep faith and more about doing what you are told and trying to break the boundaries


+1000

186.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:46 am

The modern Islamic Woman

http://kilden.forskningsradet.no/c18375/artikkel/vis.html?tid=18412

http://www.slc.edu/magazine/outcomes/glimpse_yasin.php

187.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:48 am

It just confirmed my thought that when a woman has the beauty in her face (and not just in her body) to attract a man, it doesnt matter if she covers up her hair or not.. She will remain attractive anyway.

But if we could speak about the women who really choose to wear headcovering on religious grounds, I am happy to see that Turkish women can look this 'fashionable' and attractive, yet follow the 'rules of their faith'.


The reason I just cant enjoy looking at headscarves is, that I never dare to trust the women who say they want this themselves..

188.       azade
1606 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:51 am

I think it is the fashion of the typical higher middle class families with traditional roots, but who's made some bucks along the way.
But still it's pretty and its popular among the young fashionable women. Kind of reminds me of those classic actresses who wore them though theres still a significant difference.

189.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:53 am

'Islamic chic'
http://www.thefashions.org/

190.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:55 am

Quoting Roswitha:

'Islamic chic'
http://www.thefashions.org/



OMG! I do believe they are wearing TIGHT FITTING clothing

Hadi..send them to Allah's Tailor

191.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:56 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting Roswitha:

cok guzel!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=C6Jc4_V-Elc



It is so funny !!! Correct me if I am WRONG but for a muslim woman the point of the headscarf is to "hide your adornments" and those women who CHOOSE to wear them say it is because of their deep faith. So please can someone tell me why these pictures show women with make up so thick you could scrape it off with a trowel, and jewellery???

Surely both jewellery and makeup are an adornment and accentuate your features, such as eyes. These women are merely covering their hair, but sexing up the rest!!!!! lol

It seems to me that it is less about deep faith and more about doing what you are told and trying to break the boundaries



This is another link related to the above... interesting what she has to say on her reason for hijab...
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=L0SsYD2yRsk&feature=related

192.       AEnigma III
0 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:57 am

Quoting Waseem_UK:

This is another link related to the above... interesting what she has to say on her reason for hijab...
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=L0SsYD2yRsk&feature=related



I thought it should be Allah's reason...and why does it not apply to tight fitting clothes and make up in Turkey?

193.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 01:59 am

I'll definitely watch that vid when I have some more time. I really wonder what motivates a non-muslim to cover up!

194.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 02:09 am

ANOTHER THREAD:
A Fez of the Heart: Travels around Turkey in Search of a Hat
http://www.historyhouse.com/in_history/fez_2/

195.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 02:35 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

This is another link related to the above... interesting what she has to say on her reason for hijab...
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=L0SsYD2yRsk&feature=related



I thought it should be Allah's reason...and why does it not apply to tight fitting clothes and make up in Turkey?



Apparently, she's not a Muslim that's why.... Ask them !

196.       English_boy
15 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:18 pm

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.

197.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:30 pm

Quoting English_boy:

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.



Headscarf seems to have become a fashion statement. So if the shop assistant hadnt' a had headscarf, but wore a figure hugging wrap, she'd have felt comfortable? Interesting.

198.       English_boy
15 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:33 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.



So if the shop assistant hadnt' a had headscarf, but wore a figure hugging wrap, she'd have felt comfortable? Interesting.



Yes, because she believes the wearing of headscarves in this case is purely political motivated and a breaking down of the secular system within Turkey

199.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:35 pm

Quoting English_boy:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.



So if the shop assistant hadnt' a had headscarf, but wore a figure hugging wrap, she'd have felt comfortable? Interesting.



Yes, because she believes the wearing of headscarves in this case is purely political motivated and a breaking down of the secular system within Turkey



So it's a political protest.

200.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:41 pm

HOW IT ALL CAME ABOUT

God was distributing women among his favorite prophets.
The first to chose was Moses, the senior prophet: he took all the pretty ones.
Second to chose was Jesus. He picked up the intelligent ones.
Poor Mohammed was the last, he turned to the remaining ladies and said "into your burkhas, turbans and veils...quick!".

201.       English_boy
15 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:43 pm

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.



So if the shop assistant hadnt' a had headscarf, but wore a figure hugging wrap, she'd have felt comfortable? Interesting.



Yes, because she believes the wearing of headscarves in this case is purely political motivated and a breaking down of the secular system within Turkey



So it's a political protest.


The wearing of the headscarf? or her dislike of those wearing them?
But then the answer to both those questions is probably yes to a certain degree. I believe some people wear them purely for fashion, but I can see her point that some do wear them for political expression.
She is staunchly CHP and deeply dislikes the AKP as she, like many others (including the military) believe they hold an Islamic agenda in that they want to bring religion back into politics, something that goes against the very fundamentals of what Ataturk created in modern day secular Turkey(as I understand it, being British it is not something that I have an in-depth knowledge about)

202.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 12:49 pm

Quoting English_boy:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

Quoting Waseem_UK:

Quoting English_boy:

An interesting post this, and one that my fiancee and I have been talking about whilst I was in Izmir over the last week.

Although she doesn't wear a head scarf, she has no problem with anyone that does as long as it is done in a religious way, the rest of the body is covered to hide the female shape (a better way of putting this escapes me at present), but those people that wear a headscarf whilst wearing, not necassarily tight, but clothes that would certainly not hide "lumps and bumps", she truly dislikes. To the point when we went into a shop looking for a suit for our wedding, she couldn't wait to get out because the girl serving us was wearing a headscarf and a figure hugging wrap.



So if the shop assistant hadnt' a had headscarf, but wore a figure hugging wrap, she'd have felt comfortable? Interesting.



Yes, because she believes the wearing of headscarves in this case is purely political motivated and a breaking down of the secular system within Turkey



So it's a political protest.


The wearing of the headscarf? or her dislike of those wearing them?
But then the answer to both those questions is probably yes to a certain degree. I believe some people wear them purely for fashion, but I can see her point that some do wear them for political expression.
She is staunchly CHP and deeply dislikes the AKP as she, like many others (including the military) believe they hold an Islamic agenda in that they want to bring religion back into politics, something that goes against the very fundamentals of what Ataturk created in modern day secular Turkey(as I understand it, being British it is not something that I have an in-depth knowledge about)



Thanks. I meant shop girl initially, but thought my comment might apply to your fiancee too. I'm not fully aware of the politics in Turkey either, but learning...dare I say, from these forums.

203.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 09:55 pm

It's possible that I am mistaken, but it's my understanding that a Muslim would or should not stand in judgement on the way another Muslim dresses. This is because it is only Allah who can make a judgement on each individual follower's God consciousness and how they interpret the teachings within Islam. Allah gave humans free will and, as we all know, we are none of us perfect, however God conscious (or not) we profess to be.

And for those non Muslims who wish to comment about the way Muslims dress, then that is their right but, again, a Muslim will usually view it as a matter between the individual and Allah and may endeavour not to become embroiled in such a discussion.

204.       azade
1606 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 11:52 pm

But if it obvious that someone is doing something wrong then they should offer their dawah in order to help the person find their way. A muslim also receives hasanat for helping others. If someone was doig something wrong or hurtful to themselves would you not try to help them?
But it is true that only Allah can make judgements on people.

205.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 16 Jan 2008 Wed 11:58 pm

Is that why guys, in Saudi Arabia, are practically trying to pull people into mosques by force, during salat times?

Hasanat...I should have known there was something in it for them, too.

206.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:00 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Is that why guys, in Saudi Arabia, are practically trying to pull into mosques by force, during salat times?

Hasanat...I wish I knew that before...



Funny you should mention this. Don't they have religious police in Saudi...to make sure the "faithful" are praying?

207.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:02 am

Quoting Elisabeth:

Quoting AlphaF:

Is that why guys, in Saudi Arabia, are practically trying to pull into mosques by force, during salat times?

Hasanat...I wish I knew that before...



Funny you should mention this. Don't they have religious police in Saudi...to make sure the "faithful" are praying?



Yes, but not in a threatening way....

208.       azade
1606 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:33 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Is that why guys, in Saudi Arabia, are practically trying to pull into mosques by force, during salat times?



Which guys? I'm not following

209.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:38 am

Quoting azade:

Quoting AlphaF:

Is that why guys, in Saudi Arabia, are practically trying to pull into mosques by force, during salat times?



Which guys? I'm not following


The police...they would wave their battons and shout 'salah....salah' (or it sounds like that) ..and you go to the mosque peacefully

210.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:43 am

There are guys, usually very old and half blind, in front of Saudi mosques.

If it is prayer time, they invite passers bye inside the mosque to join the prayers. They do have small sticks in their hands which they may ocassionally wave in threatening modes...but they are usually so old that there is no real forcing involved.

I think Saudis call them MUTAVVA.

211.       azade
1606 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:47 am

Okay I have not heard of that before and it's definitely taking the concept of dawah too far. The point is to offer people guidance, certainly not threat them

212.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:47 am

in Turkish only
http://www.diplomatikgozlem.com/haber_oku.asp?id=399

213.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:55 am

I dont know if it is still the case, but during pray times nobody is allowed to walk on the street..
The guys I saw with batons, were pretty young and wearing police uniforms.
I was trying to avoid going to the town because of that reason..
But, I got caught several times during shopping and the car was far away (when you are in the car and if the car is moving, you are fine-it is considered 'kaza' I think..I am not sure though-)and then, 'peacefully' I was invited to the most important mosque of islamic world for praying.

214.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:57 am

Quoting thehandsom:

I dont know if it is still the case, but during pray times nobody is allowed to walk on the street..
The guys I saw with batons, were pretty young and wearing police uniforms.
I was trying to avoid going to the town because of that reason..
But, I got caught several times during shopping and the car was far away (when you are in the car and if the car is moving, you are fine-it is considered 'kaza' I think..I am not sure though-)and then, 'peacefully' I was invited to the most important mosque of islamic world for praying.


Sounds like a prototype of hell.

215.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 12:58 am

Quoting azade:

Okay I have not heard of that before and it's definitely taking the concept of dawah too far. The point is to offer people guidance, certainly not threat them


What is the concept of dawah? To convert the world into islam, by "offering them guidance"? lol

216.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:08 am

Quoting Roswitha:

in Turkish only
http://www.diplomatikgozlem.com/haber_oku.asp?id=399



Roswitha, dear friend !
I can not honestly see how lady lawyers educated abroad can be of any use in Saudi public life. The country is run by sheria laws, which have distinct differences to what is taught in law schools, say in USA. I am not sure if a degree from Egypt can be, somewhat, more useful.
One field of possible activity can be in cases related with international contracts Saudis have with other countries, if such contracts stipulate that disputes under these contracts, if any, shall be resolved in some Western country.

Does anyone else need Saudi lady lawyers?...America?, Britain?

217.       azade
1606 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:16 am

Well yes, dawah can be to introduce people to islam with hopes of them converting, but at the same time in islam as a religion there is no compulsion which is unfortunately sometimes ignored like thehandsom made an example of. I don't think the salah even counts if it is performed because of compulsion. Islam says that Allah knows the intention in the heart so it is always important to have the right (= a genuine) intention when performing salah. In today's society there are some muslims who are devoted to spread general information and make discussions to restore islam's reputation.
But I think most commonly dawah is used to encourage and guide fellow muslims and help them if they have an inquiry.

218.       alameda
3499 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:17 am

Quoting thehandsom:

I dont know if it is still the case, but during pray times nobody is allowed to walk on the street..
The guys I saw with batons, were pretty young and wearing police uniforms.
I was trying to avoid going to the town because of that reason..
But, I got caught several times during shopping and the car was far away (when you are in the car and if the car is moving, you are fine-it is considered 'kaza' I think..I am not sure though-)and then, 'peacefully' I was invited to the most important mosque of islamic world for praying.



Yes, the reports of the Mutawa in Saudi are pretty horrific. They are the ones responsible for the tragedy a few years ago when the girls school was on fire and the forced the girls back in because they were "uncovered".

They enforce the Wahabbi brand of Sharia...which is the most narrow version.

"Mutaween in Saudi Arabia

Main article: Committee for the Propagation of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice

The Mutaween in Saudi Arabia are tasked with enforcing Sharia as defined by the government, specifically by the Committee for the Propagation of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice (CPVPV). The Mutaween of the CPVPV is comprised of "more than 3,500 officers in addition to thousands of volunteers...often accompanied by a police escort." They have the power to arrest unrelated males and females caught socializing, any one engaged in homosexual behavior or prostitution; to enforce Islamic dress-codes, and store closures during the prayer time. They enforce Muslim dietary laws, prohibiting the consumption or sale of alcoholic beverages and pork, and seize banned consumer products and media regarded as un-Islamic (such as CDs/DVDs of various Western musical groups, television shows and film). Additionally, they actively prevent the practice or proselytizing of other religions within Saudi Arabia, where such a thing is banned.

Among the things the Mutaween have been criticized or ridiculed for include, use of flogging to punish violators, banning Valentines Day gifts, arresting priests for saying Mass,[13] and being staffed by "ex-convicts whose only job qualification was that they had memorized the Quran in order to reduce their sentences."

Perhaps the most serious and widely criticized incident attributed to them occurred on March 11, 2002, when they prevented schoolgirls from escaping a burning school in Mecca, because the girls were not wearing headscarves and abayas (black robes). Fifteen girls died and 50 were injured as a result. Widespread public criticism followed, both internationally and within Saudi Arabia itself."

Mutaween in Saudi Arabia

219.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:29 am

what an inhumane, horrific act! Thanks for sharing.

220.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:36 am

The mutavvas are generally funny, but can become a real nuisance for Resident Engineers running construction contracts in Saudi Arabia.

It is necessary - for certain reasons- that the direction of Mecca should be established before any construction project is kicked off, and a permanent marking monument be kept on site, for everybody's refence.

The duty to check the correctness of these monuments belong to Mutavva.

A good Resident Engineer who has the necessary equipment asks his surveyor to measure the angles and prepare the necessary monument, in advance.

Then arrives the 100 years old Mutavva, who is absolutely blind, to check and verify the monument.

The old Mutavva will have absolutely no respect for modern surveying equipment nor for topographical engineers. He will insist the direction he shows by his right hand is the correct one, regardless of what survey results indicate.

Mutavvas instructions are verbal (no records), But the RE is of course ultimately responsible.

If the survey result and Mutavva's instruction do not match, they all have a ball until the difference is resolved, and the construction may wait for the whole period.

221.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:38 am

interesting.

222.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:51 am

Quoting AlphaF:

The mutavvas are generally funny, but can become a real nuisance for Resident Engineers running construction contracts in Saudi Arabia.

It is necessary - for certain reasons- that the direction of Mecca should be established before any construction project is kicked off, and a permanent marking monument be kept on site, for everybody's refence.

The duty to check the correctness of these monuments belong to Mutavva.

A good Resident Engineer who has the necessary equipment asks his surveyor to measure the angles and prepare the necessary monument, in advance.

Then arrives the 100 years old Mutavva, who is absolutely blind, to check and verify the monument.

The old Mutavva will have absolutely no respect for modern surveying equipment nor for topographical engineers. He will insist the direction he shows by his right hand is the correct one, regardless of what survey results indicate.

Mutavvas instructions are verbal (no records), But the RE is of course ultimately responsible.

If the survey result and Mutavva's instruction do not match, they all have a ball until the difference is resolved, and the construction may wait for the whole period.



You got a reference there Alfie? Or did you make it all up??

223.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:55 am

The story is straight from experience.....do not adress me again with this tone, unless you want to be ignored. I warned you before...

224.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 01:57 am



Quoting AlphaF:

The mutavvas are generally funny, but can become a real nuisance for Resident Engineers running construction contracts in Saudi Arabia.

It is necessary - for certain reasons- that the direction of Mecca should be established before any construction project is kicked off, and a permanent marking monument be kept on site, for everybody's refence.

The duty to check the correctness of these monuments belong to Mutavva.

A good Resident Engineer who has the necessary equipment asks his surveyor to measure the angles and prepare the necessary monument, in advance.

Then arrives the 100 years old Mutavva, who is absolutely blind, to check and verify the monument.

The old Mutavva will have absolutely no respect for modern surveying equipment nor for topographical engineers. He will insist the direction he shows by his right hand is the correct one, regardless of what survey results indicate.

Mutavvas instructions are verbal (no records), But the RE is of course ultimately responsible.

If the survey result and Mutavva's instruction do not match, they all have a ball until the difference is resolved, and the construction may wait for the whole period.

225.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:01 am

Quoting Waseem_UK:

You got a reference there Alfie? Or did you make it all up??


Waseem, you may not know that Alfa is a peanut (according to some members, it's a very honorable fruit, but don't confuse these two)... :-S

226.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:02 am

What does your first smiley stand for?

227.       Waseem_UK
174 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:08 am

Quoting AlphaF:

The story is straight from experience.....do not adress me again with this tone, unless you want to be ignored. I warned you before...



Well excuse me then Alpha - I hope that's correct. So you are a retired RE? Or is that too nosey?

228.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:12 am

I am not retired yet, very soon !

229.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:20 am

ha ha
similar thing happened to me as well actually..
It was in pakistan..and we built this camp site and of course we had to built a mosque as well..
Of course, I asked where kibla was to the surveyors before the construction of the mosque..and they gave us the direction and we built it..
People started praying in it etc etc..
But when the RE came to the site the problem started..
The first thing he did was, he sent his own surveyors to check the position of the mosque..
And the result was..It was off 17 degrees!! lol
After a bit of arm bending, threatining(begging) etc, we settled that the carpets would be laid with 17 degrees to the layout of the mosque so that people could face macca..Phew!!
lol

230.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:21 am

yurtta barış dünyada barış

231.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:28 am

Quoting Roswitha:

yurtta barış dünyada barış


Dam ustunde saksagan, vur beline kazmayi

232.       catwoman
8933 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:37 am

Quoting thehandsom:

ha ha
similar thing happened to me as well actually..
It was in pakistan..and we built this camp site and of course we had to built a mosque as well..
Well, of course I asked where kibla was to the surveyors before the construction..and they gave us the direction and we built it..
People started praying in it etc etc..
But when the RE came to the site the problem started..
The first thing he did was, he sent his own surveyors to check the direction of the mosque..
And the result was..It was of 17 degrees!! lol
After a bit of arm bending, threatining(begging) etc, we settled that the carpets would be laid with 17 degrees to the layout of the mosque so that people could face macca..Phew!!
lol


allah allah! lol lol lol
this is pure madness!

233.       alameda
3499 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:44 am

Quoting thehandsom:

ha ha
similar thing happened to me as well actually..
It was in pakistan..and we built this camp site and of course we had to built a mosque as well..
Well, of course I asked where kibla was to the surveyors before the construction..and they gave us the direction and we built it..
People started praying in it etc etc..
But when the RE came to the site the problem started..
The first thing he did was, he sent his own surveyors to check the direction of the mosque..
And the result was..It was of 17 degrees!! lol
After a bit of arm bending, threatining(begging) etc, we settled that the carpets would be laid with 17 degrees to the layout of the mosque so that people could face macca..Phew!!

lol



I'm curious what method they used to determine the direction of the kibla. Why was it different than yours, can you tell us? I've seen people with those little kibla finders go off in the wrong direction due to being in places where iron threw them off...but they can get quite fanatic about it.

234.       alameda
3499 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:45 am

Quoting AlphaF:

The mutavvas are generally funny, but can become a real nuisance for Resident Engineers running construction contracts in Saudi Arabia.

It is necessary - for certain reasons- that the direction of Mecca should be established before any construction project is kicked off, and a permanent marking monument be kept on site, for everybody's refence.

The duty to check the correctness of these monuments belong to Mutavva.

A good Resident Engineer who has the necessary equipment asks his surveyor to measure the angles and prepare the necessary monument, in advance.

Then arrives the 100 years old Mutavva, who is absolutely blind, to check and verify the monument.

The old Mutavva will have absolutely no respect for modern surveying equipment nor for topographical engineers. He will insist the direction he shows by his right hand is the correct one, regardless of what survey results indicate.

Mutavvas instructions are verbal (no records), But the RE is of course ultimately responsible.

If the survey result and Mutavva's instruction do not match, they all have a ball until the difference is resolved, and the construction may wait for the whole period.



So...what it the method the Mutawas use to determine the correct direction?

235.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 03:11 am

Quoting alameda:

I'm curious what method they used to determine the direction of the kibla. Why was it different than yours, can you tell us? I've seen people with those little kibla finders go off in the wrong direction due to being in places where iron threw them off...but they can get quite fanatic about it.


I dont know exactly what went wrong to be honest.
But I believe surveyors are able to determine positions from the north star if necessary..But it was in old days..Now they have gps.

236.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 10:36 am

To my curious friend:

My surveyor was obviously smack on the spot: he had the knowledge and the best surveying instruments.

The old Mutavva was blind and senile, I have no idea how he made his decision. He was way off.

PS: Most beduins living on the deserts have such a sharp sense of direction that mere mortals like me can only watch and follow them with awe. They need no intruments to tell you what is which way, day or night. My old Mutavva however, was not one of those guys.

237.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 11:41 am

I have to tell this joke before I bury myself into work and forget:
As you know Resident Engineers work for consultant firms (in construction projects anyway). And consultants by definition are there to be consulted. They wont do the job but tell you you how it is to be done.
Anyway her comes the joke (we used to tell this when consultants were around )
A very experienced and aged cockerel walks along the field and wants to jump to the other side of the barb wired fence. But when jumping, his willy gets caught to the wire and snaps.
Of course, he starts to cry.
And a young cockerel comes along.. Looks at what happened and says 'dont worry, you can be a consultant now'

No offense to anybody btw!!

238.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 11:53 am

When the RE says "Jump"...everybody on site jumps, including funny peanuts !

239.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 17 Jan 2008 Thu 02:50 pm

Turkish PM: Head scarf ban can be lifted


ANKARA, Turkey - Turkey's prime minister on Wednesday challenged a ban on women wearing head scarves in universities and public offices, saying there is no need to wait for a constitutional change to remove the ban, state-run media said.

(alJazeera)

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