Anway, this is the subject for me now

thehandsom, we come here to have fun. Why do you always begin conflicts? Do you have to annoy people in order you live an awful life? Get off our case! You spoil the enjoyment of the site. If you need help, just let us know, we can try our best to help you solve your inferiority complex.

It wont make the argument right even ´all of us´ means ´all of us´..

There are rules and according to the rules everybody has right to express themselves..

9 out of 10 people CAN NOT SAY THAT ´I dont want THAT ONE person to speak´.

Anyway..

I dont  think it should be considered as a serious argument

oeince you are rather personal with your comments towards thehandsom.  I find that you are getting rude after stating that others along with TH were rude to you.  If you want people to stop being rude to you I think you should also stop.

See - that was personal and not really polite. TheH doesn´t start conflicts, he expresses his opinions that he´s entitled to.You disagree with him? Fine! Express your opinion. Attack the post, not the poster

"Get off our case?" - who´s WE?

He doesn´t "spoil the enjoyment of this site" - not for me and not for many other people. Why can´t you understand that there´s more than one point of view on this site?

As a matter of fact I think you´re going too far insinuating Theh has an inferiority complex - he just has an opinion that´s different from yours. Take it as a man!

And stop talking about yourself in plural, please.

Yes...

He has been rude. So as Vineyards despite the fact that he is a mod..

If I was rude and if I was told I was rude, I always go and apologize...

I think they should apologise..

What´s even sadder is that Alameda will jump in this thread in a moment and praise the benefits of arranged marriages. Apparently some people find these poor girls´ fate a blessing

 Note the fouth message in this thread....you brought me into it with an insulting remark. I had not been in the thread and had no interest in getting involved in it, until you brought me in.

And again, it´s your opinion which if you seem to think if you repeat enough it will be true....it´s NOT!

Let us know when you are brave enogh to accept that you need help.

But try not to begin conflicts until that day.

  I´ve never seen that happen.....

please oeince in that case have the same consideration and do not start conflicts either or at least stop throwing fuel to the flames!

maybe you should ask for help also, like I said it´s a two way street, you might get hit by a bus if you do not look both ways!

Hm... I think it is interesting how this thread got way of topic AGAIN. My attempt to get it back on track failed The insults fly back and forward when "we" talk about the East of Turkey, some pointing towards it´s backwardness, others supporting the East. In the end all of the people involved in the debate make it not about the issue, but about the people writing in the thread, and get very "backward" in their personal attacks. If only the people of Eastern Turkey could read this thread, and think "oh well, at least we are not so backward that we start insulting people that we don´t even know in real life."

And you made sure this poster was going to be involved in a bazillion and one arguments.   Of course forced marriages should not be allowed, especially with very young girls involved but it is not only a Turkish problem. It happens in many countries including Britain. I have never been to eastern Turkey so I don´t know enough about the situation there.