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Women cannot marry men they want
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120.       oeince
582 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:35 pm

I will never be quite agains injustice!

121.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:37 pm

 

Quoting oeince

You are again lier as always. You don´t answer? You were the one who just writes and writes and writes and writes 3 pages of answers yesterday night. And I was the one who said, shut up, go away, i dont want to talk to you, stop etc.

I won´t be quite. Come with all your enemies. Nothing gets away with you!

 

Stop it..

Show me you .......

Show me where I lied..

I am not answering your insults with insults... If I did, you would be running around like headless chicken..!!!

Just stop it!!!

Stop being rude!!

But of course where mod gets rude, may be it is understandable where you get your courage to be rude..

Just stop it!!!

 

 

122.       stumpy
638 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:41 pm

what injustice oeince? for crying out loud this is a discution about young girls beign married off to men old enough to be their father. 

You are the one on the soap box screaming that you are being attacked as soon as someone expresses their opinion or their thoughs! Come to realiose this, not everyone will agrea with you sweety and sometime you are the one that will be wrong, so ease up and accept the opinions of others and maybe they will accept yours.

oh by the way, do you know what happenned to the boy who cried wolf?  Well cried cried wolf so many times that when a wolf truelly came no one listened to his cries and he was eaten by the wolf. 

Keep screaming that people are rude and mean to you and when it will truelly happen no one will beleive you.

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123.       oeince
582 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:42 pm

Liar! You answer 6500 times and don´t answer now? Didn´t you say you didin´t answer me and vineyrds? But there are about 15 posts from you about me and vineyards? Who do you deceive?

Just bring it on!

124.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:46 pm

 

Quoting oeince

Liar! You answer 6500 times and don´t answer now? Didn´t you say you didin´t answer me and vineyrds? But there are about 15 posts from you about me and vineyards? Who do you deceive?

Just bring it on!

 

Now, I need a shrink!!!

I said show me where I was insulting you and replying your insults with insults..

I really think you should stop being rude!!

You are losing it, again...

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125.       stumpy
638 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:50 pm

oeince calm down or you are going to have an anurism

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126.       oeince
582 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:51 pm

Look liar,

You cant attack people and than try to look like angel! Most people knows that you are the devil!

Anyone who reads your posts just in that thread, not 6500 others easily sees where you insulted me!

We won´t discuss it now with your way!

You are the liar and that is all! Anyone who is fair can see that easily.

127.       oeince
582 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:52 pm

As I told you. Not you three, even the world would defence the attacker, i will go on to say the right thing!

128.       stumpy
638 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 10:56 pm

Quote:oeince

Look liar,

You cant attack people and than try to look like angel! Most people knows that you are the devil!

Anyone who reads your posts just in that thread, not 6500 others easily sees where you insulted me!

We won´t discuss it now with your way!

You are the liar and that is all! Anyone who is fair can see that easily.

please be precise in whom you are calling a liar honey because at the moment anyone reading your posts will assume you are calling them a liar. 

now like I told you multiple times please calm down

129.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 11:03 pm

Guys, I have a suggestion - please start a new thread and continue your slagging match there.

I think Alameda might have missed my reply to her last post because of all this testosterone and unfounded aggression

130.       alameda
3499 posts
 07 Oct 2010 Thu 11:09 pm

 You know Daydreamer...pulling posts out of context really is not that honest a strategy. Why didn´t you include the thread names so things can be read in context?

Anyway.....nobody is asking you or anyone here to be in an arranged marriage. I admit, some are tragic, and not all work, but I have seen hundreds of them....and most have worked very well. I have also seen hundreds of "Western" marriages, most of which failed only to lead to 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th...and on marriages...with traumatized children scattered all over the place.

I´ve seen hundreds of lonely old people abandoned old people....whose children have gone off and abandoned their parents.....it breaks your heart. I´ve seen many an old bachelors and bachelorette (aka) spinsters....with nobody to care for them.

I speak from experience, from what I have seen in the flesh, not some hypothetical analysis.

Quoting Daydreamer

 Fine, I shall repeat no more. Instead, I went through the trouble and collected a few of your posts in the past. All from your archive - check it if you please. You can clearly see, it is NOT my opinion that you advocate arranged marriages - it is your own words

Raindrops:

so most of pre-arranged marriages are happy?

Alameda:It does seem to be that way. The actual state of marriage is held in high esteem.  Rather than looking to "fall in love" and maybe get married, the process is to find a compatible mate and work on being lovable......or working to inspire love in one´s mate.

Alameda: Doesn´t it occour to you the compatibility of the whole group is an issue?  You paint such a dreary picture.  Just how many arranged marriages are you familiar with? In these type societies the health of the whole family unit is of primary importance.

you have a problem with that? I don´t..live a little and you will discover the benefits of having family support. No man is an island...nor are any couples. 


Alameda: I don´t know how many "arranged marriages" you have observed at close range, but from my observation, most actually work out pretty well.

Well ...how many ?


Alameda: In many cultures marriageable youth do not date, thus the opportunities to "fall in love" are minimized.  That is not really such a bad idea.

Yes, some cultures believe in chastity, or at least discretion, others do not.... 


Alameda: Well the fact is most arranged marriages work out quite well. Given the state of marriage in the West, I really don´t think you have anything to talk about. You really don´t understand the process, so you think it´s horrible. The fact of the matter the West is actually starting to change and we now see a proliferation of match making services and sites.

Thousands of sites helping people find compatible mates....and more growing....hmmm....must be something there...would you think?

AEnigma to Alameda: "You now write three paragraphs about having a soulmate and being loved and needing a mate. However, the last time we discussed marriage you were saying that you should not marry for love, but for family compatibility and having shared culture and interests - in fact, advocating arranged marriages! "

Alameda: In Western cultures, marriages are not particularly successful. Add to that mixture the children of failed marriages and the whole thing looks even bleaker.



Alameda: The idea of marriage centered on only a couple in "love" is not really the best foundation on which to build a marriage. Traditional marriages have been ones where one expects to become in love after marriage, not before.

Obviously, you know nothing about that....there are more than one types of love.  Haven´t you thought you were in love, only to fall out later. I´d rather not fall into anything. 

 

 

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