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Quoting Deli_kizin: Oh and CANLI, Im not debating whether you should or should not put your scarf while praying and stand behind a man. Because it is not your choice. It is something you believe and simply have to follow. So it is not discussing about how it should or should not be done, it is about how correct the way it was described is. You are not to question Allah's rules, you are to follow them. And I understand how you want to defend what we say, because your faith is the core of your being. But as an outsider, I can question them and say why I think they are wrong. And I believe that actually every muslim or christian or whatever should think about the set of rules and beliefs they are given, to choose whether it is something you really believe in and therefore are willing to follow, or if it is something you feel is unacceptable and therefore decide that what you always believed in, is not good, and stop being a believer or believe in something else. |
D_K,
İ did question my believes,and as tea found it is the suitable for her,i found mine suitable for me too
İ've put on my scarf when im out of my home,not just while praying
İ have put it out of convincing not juts obeying
İf it was a matter of obedience,then i should have put it years before i did,but i didnt!
Even it was an order,and i knew that too,but i didnt obey it then
When i felt i can do it,i did it!
So its not a matter of following orders blindly,or else,you would fed up and will stop following them !
As i said,there are mosques with places for women to pray similar to men's place but apart from it,and there are mosques which doesnt have it,and women can pray at lines behinde men's lines
İ pick first ones,as you know the majority is Egypt are Muslims,so we have many mosques,i can have my pick
İf i dont find one,i dont pray at mosque,i dont pray behinde men and i wait to pray at my house
İ take my pick too
So you see,i dont follow rules that i am not convinced by them specially in behaviors
Things like dont drink,dont eat Pork,dont...ect those i follow as rules
So bottom line is,i also questioned my religion,i've asked,i've read before i obey
And i am comfortable the way it is,and the way i am .
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