İ can understand that you all just having fun,and yes talking about resorts guys who are....and are ..bla bla ect
But have you actually thought how would our Turkish members here feel about such a thread ?!
İf there is someone who is blind,would he appreciate it when people walk around pointing at him saying see,this man is blind !
So even if its true,its not nice specially that we all are members at same site !

Well maybe....
In my culture women tend to be more kind and tender than men
Even if they are equally to them
And from my experience my mother was a working mother,even she was taking care of us most and we are almost her life,but i wished she wasnt a working Mom !

So i can same to you too,maybe your opinions come from your experience and culture also

And at this point,all to his/her opinion
But mine is,children needs their mother most till a time they can depend on themselves
Even if father is very much supportive,loving ...ect
But a mother is a mother nothing can take her place.

Again im talking about ideal or normal situation where a child is between his natural mother and father but if the situation is different,then i agree with you
We cant do anything about it at that time.

Then we disagree with each other here cat

Again,i dont say father role is not important,and fathers cant offer love and care
But our nature as women to be more tender and kind which is very much needed in children's life

We are not talking about forced stiuations where there is single mother or single father,we are talking generally at normal families which children can enjoy both father and mother
İf in such family father role is more important than mother role to a child in the child first years,then there must be something wrong with the mother psychological at least !
Maybe she is not the mother type after all,and thats fine too,but at this point,she shouldnt have thought of having children at the first place !

Having children is a very great and important decision.
Its a responsibility of forming another human, person personality in life,and effecting it though out his/her years from childhood till growing up

And i dont think we need to debat about how important a mother role is to the infant rather than his father role
İf the child dont recognize his father when born and only know his mother how come they are equally even if father offer same love and care ?

One of our greatests poet said
'Al Om madrasaten iza a'adadtha
A'adadt omahtan Tayibai al'araki'
'The Mother is an institute,if you prepar her well,you are preparing a nation with very good roots'

As you see he didnt say a father.

So actually the role of a mother is unique ,very much unique to the fact that she is a woman
İ mean,yes i agree men should help,share ...bla bla,ect
But they can NEVER and will NEVER also take that role
No offence guys,but i think a mother can do good with children without the father than a father can do without a mother
İts hard of course both ways,but kindness,sensitiveness,...ect is in women nature more than men

So yes,i agree that having more time for the children in the women schedule is more important than in the men's
But as gg said,i agree with that too its not optional nowadays,its even a privilege to have such choice