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08 Jun 2008 Sun 02:54 am |
Quoting Daydreamer:
what seems just for Turks may be ridiculous for me, a Eastern/Central European and might be unacceptable and appalling to an American.It's not a game titled 'make fun of Turks/Muslims' here. It is our observances and our reaction. We've seen that the folks here have a different sense of humour. Some get infuriated by Muslim jokes while even our Christian members are ok with Christianity jokes. It's all about distance. In another thread Tamidakika used the word 'cage' and was instantly accused of considering women animals, although I'm sure that's not he meant, the way I understood it, he was referring to gender segregation in mosques. Still, for a Muslim, his words were interpreted differently.
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İ agree with many of that DD
Thats why where you an Eastern/Central European saw nothing wrong with using the word Cage while describing the place where women pray 'which frankly i have found it strange that coming from feminist,and also it was ok with all feminists in THAT matter! but thats another story' i as Eastern Muslim have found it OUTRAGEOUS coming from Eastern in a country where he is serounded by Muslims!
İn my country,we have Christians living with us and you can ask them how a Muslim women should pray,and they will fulfill you with the needed details as asking any Muslim,so actually you dont have to be Muslim to know !
You saw it as gender segregation in mosques,but i see it as very much secular man and how he is thinking of and respecting religious women being in the society
İt has nothing to do with gender segregation !
Because he knows better,even if he is not Muslim,he is living between them,and he knows the rules quite well!
For example,when he or anyone wanted to join the UNİ,he took a test to determine in which collage would he be accepted
So if he wanted to join medical school for example,and he didnt pass the test,will he be STİLL accepted ?
Nope
And never the less if he insisted and went to it and even attened all the clasess would he become a Doctor?
Of course NOT
Because he didnt pass the test
You want to go to UNİ,you must pass tests,you want to be a Doctor,you must be accepted !
That is the rule...take it or leave it
Same in İslam 'or any religion for what it matters !'
The rules here,if you want to pray,you must wash first 'abdest' and women wear scarves when praying
You want to pray,those are the rules,you dont do any of them and STİLL you prayed...fine...but praying is NOT acceptable !
You MUST have abdest before praying,and women MUST wear headscarves while praying or your prayer is NOT acceptable,simple
You pray in straight lines,not leaving spaces between each others, women pray in lines behinde men's lines STİLL has nothing to do with gender segregation,its even logical when we pray,we kneel,we sit,we stand,we bend...ect,so nope,thanks,i dont want men praying in lines behide me !
So dont tell me a man who is living in a Muslim society doesnt know all of that...!
Nope,im sorry,but i wont buy it !
Ps:needless to say 'you' meant for Muslims.
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