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Helo Friends,
I am in a turmoil. I just dont know how to handle my situation and hence seek advise from Turkish friends. My story may sound strange to a lot of you but please read on....
I am a married Indian woman, aged 45 years. I have a good husband and a son aged 18. 4 years ago I met this Turkish Man on chat. He is 56 years old and also married for the last 34 years. He has a grown up son and a married daughter. What started as fun chat for me (and him as he says) has now turned into a serious romance. We talk to each other everyday, chat and also send sms. For the last 2 years I have been telling him to plan a holiday to India. He also has said he wants to come. However, twice he had told me he is coming and both times it did not work. Now again he has said he will come and then suddenly last week he told me that Indian food may not suit him so he does not want to come but instead we should both meet in another country, maybe UK. I was very sad & upset and told him he should not have given me hopes if he knew all along he was not coming. When he found I was upset & sad, he told me he will come, but not now as he has to complete a job assignment. After the assignment is over, he promises to come.
What do you feel ? Do you think this man is as serious as I am about this romance or is he just playing around with my emotions? I am so confused. More so because I am not the kind of person for an extra marital affair, yet I dont have any guilt when it comes to loving this man. Please help me. I am in desperate need for advise. Should I continue this relation and wait in hopes of his assignment being over and then believe that he will come or should I just say it is useless and forget everything about him?
I know he loves me but I dont know why the hesitation from his side. Please please please help me !
Jessica
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