Quoting catwoman:

I suppose he should address the issue that led to the breakup as opposed to brainwash you with sweet words...

Quoting gezbelle:

i don't think him being muslim has got anything to do with it really

Quoting gezbelle:

catwoman is right, you and he should address the reason of the break up rather than him pulling at your emotional strings.

Quoting Seraph:

but he's muslim and so i think it's just his brain chemicals...

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting Seraph:

hehehe..either way..they apparently go berserk when the breakup happens to them..not viseversa...

anyone else hear any other suckerliners?

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting gezbelle:

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting farukdemirhan:

he said ' i dont know why u loved me but i knew why i loved u ' .....

Turkish men are so emotionl and so sensitve ....

i read a fact says : 'what people eat , and the place where they live ( weather and land ) can affect the emotional side in positive and negative way '

Quoting justinetime:

"i read your mail! i dont know if you have ever felt dying but i did when i read your mail,i didnt dream of a life without you our love finishes in tomb"

"i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!"

Quoting Aslan:

...is there a dudu handbook for dummies where they pick their arguments?

Quoting Seraph:

Oki we know that Turkish me are oooh la la and all that ..But my question is..when you get over the askimbitanemhayatim stuff and manage to break away from your DUDU What are someof the lines you have heard Turkish men say to try and get you back?? Currently I am going through one of those so I am hearing everything imagineable from "You are making me dishonourable by leaving me, to You are my life and I can't live without you. I can't share the more personal ones

So what lines have you heard?

Quoting Elisabeth:

Quoting Aslan:

Quoting Elisabeth:

Quoting Aslan: Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting Aslan: ...is there a dudu handbook for dummies where they pick their arguments? There is no handbook, dear Aslan. Even if there where, I doubt anyone would read it, because there Dudu is different and he IS in love with them. ...I think there might be a handbook for the dudus...because they all behave so similar and have the same arguments etc...like they had read the same manual!

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting thehandsom:

You girls are ALL HEARTLESS!!

Quoting lalisia:

Quoting Seraph: Quoting justinetime: "i read your mail! i dont know if you have ever felt dying but i did when i read your mail,i didnt dream of a life without you our love finishes in tomb" "i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!" Woah! Did we share the same DuDU????

Quoting justinetime:

"i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!"

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting Seraph:

hmmm ...I think I'll invest in a nice cat after now.

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting girleegirl: Quoting justinetime: "i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!" A reincarnated dudu??? Now THAT's scary!!!

Quoting Seraph:

Woah!! I had that one too! Maybe my DuDu was like a student of all DuDu's an using all thier lines?? lol I had the best one from him today...get this...

"I recieved a sign from ALLAH during prayer. I saw a vision in themiddle of my prayer a vision of you and I at heaven together, and I was entering heaven and you were running to me. you were in white, and happy, and we were hugging eachother..It is a sign that we should be back together..It is a sign.. and I could not continue my prayer until my vision was finished. Come back to me It is a sign from ALLAH!."

This one was priceless..I blocked him after he told me this. It is one thing luring a girl with sweet words..another luring them with Islam..That's a new kind of Dudu I think...

Oh and this one. "Hz. Azriel is comming I can feel it, I can feel the cold in my feet of my life going..if you go Hz.Azriel will take me I can feel it..If you stay I will live". (I was on webcam for this one..he should be in Hollywood right now )

If Suzanne Lucci saw that performance she would have cried...

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting justinetime:

hi the handsom.... hmmm, i was wondering, how do you know he is a dudu?

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting lalisia: Quoting Seraph: Quoting justinetime: "i read your mail! i dont know if you have ever felt dying but i did when i read your mail,i didnt dream of a life without you our love finishes in tomb" "i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!" Woah! Did we share the same DuDU???? Don't think this one is Dudu!! I was dishonorable and a lier..

Quoting SuiGeneris:

Well Seraph, it may sound abit personal... and i wanted to ask this...

in your profile it says you are engaged... so how come you make posts about breaking up from a Turkish person?
just wondered

Quoting SERA_2005:

Quoting Seraph: Quoting lalisia: Quoting Seraph: Quoting justinetime: "i read your mail! i dont know if you have ever felt dying but i did when i read your mail,i didnt dream of a life without you our love finishes in tomb" "i had died once before, but this seperation made me worse than dying, if you will be happy, if you will be good, it is ok, but i know we cannot be standing this pain, DONT!" Woah! Did we share the same DuDU???? Don't think this one is Dudu!! I was dishonorable and a lier.. Woah!! I had that one too! Maybe my DuDu was like a student of all DuDu's an using all thier lines?? lol I had the best one from him today...get this... "I recieved a sign from ALLAH during prayer. I saw a vision in themiddle of my prayer a vision of you and I at heaven together, and I was entering heaven and you were running to me. you were in white, and happy, and we were hugging eachother..It is a sign that we should be back together..It is a sign.. and I could not continue my prayer until my vision was finished. Come back to me It is a sign from ALLAH!." This one was priceless..I blocked him after he told me this. It is one thing luring a girl with sweet words..another luring them with Islam..That's a new kind of Dudu I think... Oh and this one. "Hz. Azriel is comming I can feel it, I can feel the cold in my feet of my life going..if you go Hz.Azriel will take me I can feel it..If you stay I will live". (I was on webcam for this one..he should be in Hollywood right now ) If Suzanne Lucci saw that performance she would have cried...

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting thehandsom:

I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas..
It may be like: boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA..

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting Elisabeth:

OMG....I NEVER NEW....Does MSN give Dudus Xray vision? Or does it cast some bizarre spell on women that makes them tear there shirts off?

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting thehandsom:

This is so unfair!!!!!!!
I was just trying to exaggerate..That is all!!

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting thehandsom: This is so unfair!!!!!!! I was just trying to exaggerate..That is all!! Aha! Ok ..... ama...dont ask for my MSN!!!

Quoting thehandsom:

I have no intention to continue with this thread..
With each line I feel like I am getting burried further into this mud..

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting Seraph: Quote: This is priceless,talk about trying every trick in the book.Now hes trying to convince you that its God's will you should be together.I think he should start asking himself why it was God's will for you two to break up in the first place! Things is in our religion whatever ALLAHs will we accept..but he was doing evrything to convince me it was ALLAHs'will be be together..I had to remind him if that was so then his treatments would have been better

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting thehandsom: Quoting Seraph: Quote: This is priceless,talk about trying every trick in the book.Now hes trying to convince you that its God's will you should be together.I think he should start asking himself why it was God's will for you two to break up in the first place! Things is in our religion whatever ALLAHs will we accept..but he was doing evrything to convince me it was ALLAHs'will be be together..I had to remind him if that was so then his treatments would have been better This is really priceless actually!! I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas.. A naughty chat may be like: =================================== boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA.. girl: .....? boy: it is not me really..OMA , he is again telling the same thing!! girl: are you sure of this? boy: vallahi!! girl:....I trust you..well.....ok then.. =====================================

Quoting Seraph:

Quoting SuiGeneris:

Quoting thehandsom:

This is really priceless actually!!
I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas..
A naughty chat may be like:
===================================
boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA..
girl: .....?
boy: it is not me really..OMA , he is again telling the same thing!!
girl: are you sure of this?
boy: vallahi!!
girl:....I trust you..well.....ok then..
=====================================

Quoting thehandsom:

This is really priceless actually!!
I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas..
A naughty chat may be like:
===================================
boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA..
girl: .....?
boy: it is not me really..OMA , he is again telling the same thing!!
girl: are you sure of this?
boy: vallahi!!
girl:....I trust you..well.....ok then..
=====================================

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting thehandsom: I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas.. It may be like: boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA.. This tells us a LOT about you handsom So...viewing women's breasts is what MSN was invented for?!?!?! .....

Quoting SERA_2005:

Quoting thehandsom: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting thehandsom: I always wondered how islamic msn would work..Now we have some ideas.. It may be like: boy: Oh MY Allah (OMA), I hear something..I feel Gabriel is talking to me. He tells me something...wait..... He wants me to see your breasts!! OMA.. This tells us a LOT about you handsom So...viewing women's breasts is what MSN was invented for?!?!?! ..... This is so unfair!!!!!!! I was just trying to exaggerate..That is all!!

Quoting justinetime:

i think we are all having a hard time to distinguish a dudu, from a non-dudu, because of sooo much negative posts we see in this forums... (i don't mean to be harsh) maybe there are actually real turkish guys who are in love, and they truely are sincere in saying this words. it's harder to know if some dudu's imitate this lines from them. of course, they pretend to be people who are in love, who better to mimic, than those who truly are? do you agree?

sometimes it's our fault. we end up losing the ones we love the most because of our paranoia. i know, i have been paranoid after reading sooo much about dudus, but i'm afraid my paranoia is hurting our relationship. it is not bad to be skeptical sometimes, but it does hurt both of you if you always think that what he says isn't true.

Quoting xkirstyx:

even some of the one's who ask for money can still be genuine. .

Quoting xkirstyx:

English guys do it, girls do it...but if a Turkish guy does it, he's automatically a "dudu". Of course there's many many guys out there who are playing the girls, but I think the negativity of Turkish guys on here is too extreme and damaging for relationships.

Quoting AEnigma III:

Kirsty, you think we are being unfair to turkish tourist workers? Then ask yourself this. The most popular tourist destination in the UK is still Spain, and I myself go there at least once a year. So how come we NEVER hear of such things happening to tourist girls in Spain? NEVER! And how many relationships are you aware of between Spanish men and English girls? How often in Spain do you see English tourists with Spanish men? It is very very rare.

Compare this with the fact that if ANY young single girl that I know goes on holiday to Turkey, she somehow seems to come back having met the "love of her life" and every reasonably intelligent woman I know who goes to Turkey, whether married or not, comes back reporting that she was harassed by Turkish tourist workers while on holiday. If this is universal, then why doesn't it happen when women go to other countries?

Quoting xkirstyx:

AEnigma, believe me...I am under NO illusion of what Turkish tourism guys are like, not even just the tourism guy. However many stories you have heard, I bet I can multiply it by 50 . I have known guys who have sat at the computer on web cam to 5 different girls at same time...I know guys who when it's not working with girls or they get their visa etc, introduce the other girls to their friends...I have seen guys move here and marry girls and get them pregnant and leave them the day after they are made british citizen. It's horrible!!! I don't have a problem with people explaining to girls asking for translations on here how it is, to warn them...not to be horrible. But I do not like the way it has become now, If some new girl joins and asks for a translation then the next 10 posts can be about how the guy is a "dudu" and she is naive. It can be done in a more respectful way, and not all of the guys on here are like that. Theres a difference between wanting to warn someone about something, and automatically stereotyping every girl and relationship on here. People should feel they can come to this site and get a translation and learn the language without a load of people who don't know them telling them their boyfriend is lying to them. Although, there are some people who I actually wish I could just track down and drill it into their heads that their guy is a jerk!!!

Quoting AEnigma III:

Hmmmm funny but...I wonder what would happen if you posted this joke and it was muslims who were talking about Christians.....

Unfortunately, I don't think muslims would be able to laugh eh?

Quoting AEnigma III:

Unfortunately, I don't think muslims would be able to laugh eh?

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting Elisabeth:

Quoting catwoman: Quoting AEnigma III: Unfortunately, I don't think muslims would be able to laugh eh? are you suggesting that muslims don't have a sense of humor?

Quoting AEnigma III:

Hmmmm funny but...I wonder what would happen if you posted this joke and it was muslims who were talking about Christians.....

Unfortunately, I don't think muslims would be able to laugh eh?

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting turquoise:

i dont know others but if its a joke and funny i do laugh cuz i dont care if its about my religion or not i have a wicked sense of humor

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting turquoise:

Quoting girleegirl: Quoting Seraph: but he's muslim and so i think it's just his brain chemicals...

Quoting catwoman:

we need to check your brain chemicals turq, you are suspected to have higher levels of the romance chemical, despite the fact that it's written in Koran that you're not supposed to!
come here, you need to be waxed first...

Quoting turquoise:

kitty stop thinking that everyone needs to be waxed as you do, its your hair chemical

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting turquoise:

have you waxed yourself yet cnm? lemme see if it looks nice then maybe i can make desicion and let you do

Quoting turquoise:

what da helll are you trying to get me caught in a trap like that?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87Tk3FSt00c