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Warning: Feminists are better mates, have better sex and are more fun
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02 Feb 2008 Sat 09:42 pm |
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"ScienceDaily (Oct. 16, 2007) — Contrary to popular opinion, feminism and romance are not incompatible and feminism may actually improve the quality of heterosexual relationships, according to Laurie Rudman and Julie Phelan, from Rutgers University in the US. Their study also shows that unflattering feminist stereotypes, that tend to stigmatize feminists as unattractive and sexually unappealing, are unsupported."
Feminism And Romance Go Hand in Hand
"Among the findings:
• College-age women with feminist male partners said they had higher quality relationships that were more stable than couples involving non-feminist male partners.
• Feminists college men with feminist partners reported having more equality in their relationships.
• Older women reported greater relationship health and sexual satisfaction with male partners who were perceived to be feminist.
• Older men with feminist partners reported more stable relationships and greater sexual satisfaction."
Study: Feminists have better sex, romance
Study: Feminists are better mates
Supporters of equality for women also have stronger relationships, new research says
The results, appearing in the online edition of the peer-reviewed journal Sex Roles, show that for both women and men there was a benefit to having a feminist partner. Feminist women were also more likely than others to be in a romantic relationship.
"If you're a woman paired with a male feminist," said Rudman, "you have a healthier relationship across the board"--better in terms of relationship quality, equality, stability and sexual satisfaction.
"And men paired with female feminists have greater sexual satisfaction and greater relationship stability," she said. "So, [there were] higher scores on two of the four dimensions, with no difference on the other two."
There you have it: Feminists are sexy.
Study: Feminists are better mates
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02 Feb 2008 Sat 10:05 pm |
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Oh kitty I knew we could count on you to give a brilliant counterpoint to qdemir's post! 
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02 Feb 2008 Sat 10:08 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: Oh kitty I knew we could count on you to give a brilliant counterpoint to qdemir's post! |
It looks like qdemir didn't do a very good research on the topic before embarassing himself with his pre-Galileo information. 
Always there for your service GG!
-CatWoman
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:20 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: Oh kitty I knew we could count on you to give a brilliant counterpoint to qdemir's post! |
If I were a woman I wouldn't say brilliant, but embarassing.
The so-called defenders of 'women’s rights and freedoms' reduce such liberty to sexual license, and it makes women 'objects of pleasure, means of entertainment, and material for advertising'
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:23 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: If I were a woman I wouldn't say brilliant, but embarassing.
The so-called defenders of 'women’s rights and freedoms' reduce such liberty to sexual license, and it makes women 'objects of pleasure, means of entertainment, and material for advertising'
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Ermmm I think you missed the point QdemirI 
They do not make women "objects of pleasure" - the male dominated societies do that. They are free human beings to enjoy sex in the same way as everyone else - not "objects".
The statistics Cat posted were not just about sex, but about relationships too 
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:33 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: If I were a woman I wouldn't say brilliant, but embarassing.
The so-called defenders of 'women’s rights and freedoms' reduce such liberty to sexual license, and it makes women 'objects of pleasure, means of entertainment, and material for advertising'
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Ermmm I think you missed the point QdemirI
They do not make women "objects of pleasure" - the male dominated societies do that. They are free human beings to enjoy sex in the same way as everyone else - not "objects".
The statistics Cat posted were not just about sex, but about relationships too |
Both men and women, of course, should enjoy sex mutually.
The so-called staunch defenders of women's rights contribute the male dominated capitalism to use women as objects of pleasure, ...
Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only.
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:39 pm |
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Quoting qdemir:
Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:40 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Do you speak from personal experience?
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:41 pm |
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I am on holiday.
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:42 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: I am on holiday. |
Great  I will bunk off work then
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:42 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Do you speak from personal experience? |
partly
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:43 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Do you speak from personal experience? |
partly |
She sounds scary 
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:51 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Do you speak from personal experience? |
partly |
She sounds scary |
Do you think such a woman depicted in the above picture would ever be willing to try missionary or rear entry positions, or let her partner take the control and dominate her.
I don't think so.
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:53 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: Do you think such a woman depicted in the above picture would ever be willing to try missionary or rear entry positions, or let her partner take the control and dominate her.
I don't think so. |
This is a bit graphic!!! Do you want to start discussing how BOTH partners enjoy both dominance and submissiveness?
Anyway, maybe this "experience" has made you biased in your attitude to feminism. A bit like me judging all muslims on Bin Laden
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 12:57 pm |
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Opps wrong thread
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 01:01 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting qdemir: Do you think such a woman depicted in the above picture would ever be willing to try missionary or rear entry positions, or let her partner take the control and dominate her.
I don't think so. |
This is a bit graphic!!! Do you want to start discussing how BOTH partners enjoy both dominance and submissiveness?
Anyway, maybe this "experience" has made you biased in your attitude to feminism. A bit like me judging all muslims on Bin Laden |
It's not that simple. However, a better sex sometimes requires dominance and submissiveness. First of all, it requires mutual trust, respect and understanding.
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 01:02 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: It's not that simple. However, a better sex sometimes requires dominance and submissiveness. First of all, it requires mutual trust, respect and understanding. |
Completely agree
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 06:46 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: It's not that simple. However, a better sex sometimes requires dominance and submissiveness. First of all, it requires mutual trust, respect and understanding. |
qD... "good sex" is a subjective term, for you it may be getting beaten by the woman, while for somebody else it's something completely different. results of the survey show that there is a correlation between feminism and "better sex".
does this make it a little clearer?
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 06:53 pm |
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Quoting qdemir:
Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Well, we (men ) can always 'pretent' as if we are enjoying it. cant we?
ha ha
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 06:56 pm |
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Quoting thehandsom: Well, we (men ) can always 'pretent' as if we are enjoying it. cant we?
ha ha |
Hahaha
Are you a good actor H?
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 07:09 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting thehandsom: Well, we (men ) can always 'pretent' as if we are enjoying it. cant we?
ha ha |
Hahaha
Are you a good actor H? |
errmmm..hummmmm..YES..Nobody has noticed so far
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 07:21 pm |
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Well personally I don't believe feminisim is right and I'm a girl mainly because I don't feel like woman or man are better I think we should search for equlity, wich was what I thinki the femenist were fighting for in the past, but now I see they fight for beeing better at everything wich is fine I guess but I rather have a society where man and woman are equal and not fighting for something
That's my opinion
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 07:25 pm |
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Quoting elibrody: Well personally I don't believe feminisim is right and I'm a girl mainly because I don't feel like woman or man are better I think we should search for equlity, wich was what I thinki the femenist were fighting for in the past, but now I see they fight for beeing better at everything wich is fine I guess but I rather have a society where man and woman are equal and not fighting for something
That's my opinion |
Since when did they fight for being better? You think the fight for equality is over? Have you checked statistics on what women are paid compared to men? That is just in the west!
Do you not care about women being stoned, flogged, having no rights and honour killed in male dominated societies?
You are happy enough eh, so you just dont care about others! 
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03 Feb 2008 Sun 08:14 pm |
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It's imperative that nobody can join this conversation before they do their homework and first find out what feminism is! Anybody who is beating the old, sexist stereotypes, will be kicked out or ignored.
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04 Feb 2008 Mon 05:29 pm |
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Being submissive/dominant sexually has very little to do with feminism. Do you think that before the feminist movement, women never assumed the "top" position? The point is, as a woman, if I feel in control of my life (work, money, sex...ect) of course I am going to enjoy sex more. As a feminist I am free to enjoy it however, with whoever and how often I CHOOSE. If the man doesn't like it....he is free to leave and my life will not fall apart...I will go to work, bring home my pay and life will go on! Thank you very much!!!
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04 Feb 2008 Mon 07:01 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth:
Being submissive/dominant sexually has very little to do with feminism. Do you think that before the feminist movement, women never assumed the "top" position? The point is, as a woman, if I feel in control of my life (work, money, sex...ect) of course I am going to enjoy sex more. As a feminist I am free to enjoy it however, with whoever and how often I CHOOSE. If the man doesn't like it....he is free to leave and my life will not fall apart...I will go to work, bring home my pay and life will go on! Thank you very much!!! |
Love ya!
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 07:45 am |
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Quoting Elisabeth:
Being submissive/dominant sexually has very little to do with feminism. Do you think that before the feminist movement, women never assumed the "top" position? The point is, as a woman, if I feel in control of my life (work, money, sex...ect) of course I am going to enjoy sex more. As a feminist I am free to enjoy it however, with whoever and how often I CHOOSE. If the man doesn't like it....he is free to leave and my life will not fall apart...I will go to work, bring home my pay and life will go on! Thank you very much!!! |
Ooohhhhh...how did I miss this post???
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 08:01 am |
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Quoting Elisabeth:
Being submissive/dominant sexually has very little to do with feminism. Do you think that before the feminist movement, women never assumed the "top" position? The point is, as a woman, if I feel in control of my life (work, money, sex...ect) of course I am going to enjoy sex more. As a feminist I am free to enjoy it however, with whoever and how often I CHOOSE. If the man doesn't like it....he is free to leave and my life will not fall apart...I will go to work, bring home my pay and life will go on! Thank you very much!!! |
Elisabeth - brilliant, as always.
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 11:15 am |
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Quoting thehandsom: Quoting qdemir:
Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only.
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Well, we (men ) can always 'pretent' as if we are enjoying it. cant we?
ha ha |
yeah but i dont pretend,waste of time
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 11:18 am |
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Quoting qdemir: Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
here here 
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 11:29 am |
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Quoting thehandsom: Quoting qdemir:
Also I don't think those feminists are good partners in bed as they are willing to have sex in positions; woman on top only. |
Well, we (men ) can always 'pretent' as if we are enjoying it. cant we?
ha ha |
can you teach me pretending ? i dont think i would ever manage pretending.. oh i cant go into details here ..but i would love to know how to do it 
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 11:34 am |
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Quoting ciko:
can you teach me pretending ? i dont think i would ever manage pretending.. oh i cant go into details here ..but i would love to know how to do it |
nevermind ciko,its better not to pretend at all especially in bed
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 11:36 am |
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Quoting turquoise: Quoting ciko:
can you teach me pretending ? i dont think i would ever manage pretending.. oh i cant go into details here ..but i would love to know how to do it |
nevermind ciko,its better not to pretend at all especially in bed |
well even if my face pretends..something on my body wont be able to pretend ..unlike women:S
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:31 pm |
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why,its a shame?
nothings wrong with having fantasies,you may have fantasies about anyone you like or NOT,you know..
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:32 pm |
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Quoting turquoise:
why,its a shame?
nothings wrong with having fantasies,you may have fantasies about anyone you like or NOT,you know..
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so..femme, do you have fantasies about alpha?
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:37 pm |
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Quoting ciko:
so..femme, do you have fantasies about alpha? |
warning!! warning!!
This thread is going to WRONG direction!!
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:39 pm |
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Quoting thehandsom: Quoting ciko:
so..femme, do you have fantasies about alpha? |
warning!! warning!!
This thread is going to WRONG direction!! |
hahahaha  i think it is going to the most beautful direction
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:42 pm |
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i think it is not about feminism...most women love being on top ...for some reasons i can speak
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:43 pm |
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Quoting ciko: Quoting turquoise:
why,its a shame?
nothings wrong with having fantasies,you may have fantasies about anyone you like or NOT,you know..
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so..femme, do you have fantasies about alpha? |
you think im gonna share my fantasies?
i prefer young virgins
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 12:45 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting ciko: Quoting turquoise:
why,its a shame?
nothings wrong with having fantasies,you may have fantasies about anyone you like or NOT,you know..
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so..femme, do you have fantasies about alpha? |
you think im gonna share my fantasies?
i prefer young virgins |
a good chance to ask your msn my dudu side urgently needs to move..right now
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 07:29 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: Quoting girleegirl: Oh kitty I knew we could count on you to give a brilliant counterpoint to qdemir's post! |
If I were a woman I wouldn't say brilliant, but embarassing.
The so-called defenders of 'women’s rights and freedoms' reduce such liberty to sexual license, and it makes women 'objects of pleasure, means of entertainment, and material for advertising'
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Agreed.....let's not make a joke of women's rights.
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06 Feb 2008 Wed 08:34 pm |
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Quoting alameda: Quoting qdemir: Quoting girleegirl: Oh kitty I knew we could count on you to give a brilliant counterpoint to qdemir's post! |
If I were a woman I wouldn't say brilliant, but embarassing.
The so-called defenders of 'women’s rights and freedoms' reduce such liberty to sexual license, and it makes women 'objects of pleasure, means of entertainment, and material for advertising'
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Agreed.....let's not make a joke of women's rights. |
Some men not only make a joke of that, but have fun abusing women. I know, you'd think that qdemir is somewhat mature, but it's actually pretty shocking when he sometimes says things that are totally repugnant.
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