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Leaving
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 08:18 am |
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Quoting karpusqueen: Do we have to act the way some members have acted on this thread? Then some people wonder why some members don't want to post opinions in public. |
Maybe they really shouldn't!  
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 08:19 am |
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Quoting karpusqueen: Perhaps I did GG perhaps I did. I stated my opinion that's all, just like anyone can and does. |
It's ok  You have some good and some bad points there! 
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 10:04 am |
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Quoting girleegirl:
You haven't gone un-noticed but...didn't daydreamer mention something about a most dramatic farewell contest? Maybe you could be one of the first contestants!! But don't REALLY leave. |
You are forgetting the champ is already Aenigma in her various guises in the past! I forget how many times she said she was leaving along with all the drama and outpouring of grief only to stay or return under a new name!
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 12:24 pm |
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İm sorry that Mickan is leaving.
As it was very clear she made this thread no to announce her departure but to state the reasons for her leaving which are very much concern TC
But what im very sorry about is how people treated her and made fun of her for that !
İs freedom of speech only granted to some and forbidden to some ?!
Entitled to people when you like what they say,and when you dont,they be subject of making fun ?!
What did the girl say wrong that wasnt mention in other threads so she got that reaction?!
She said i wont vote,but i will leave !
She is one of many who did that,but at least she didnt want to leave without stating her reasons!
Then she is accused that she doesnt post much,so its not important if she leavs or not ?!
What if she doesnt ?!!!
That is making her less member in TLC ?
İ really dont believe you people !
Why dont you find it a sign of how TLC is more stronger site that many people read and use even they dont post ' suppose they are not talanted ,or they are not socialy,suppose anything,is this a reason they shouldnt have an opinion in what is going in TLC,or is this making them less important memebrs?!
To me,if im admin,members like Mickan is another sign of my success,i mean my site is drawing people attention even they dont like to join in any debat ''which is THEİR RİGHT to choose to do or not''
İf she want to tell her reasons before she leaves,its her right also
God know we have many strange threads at off the topics and no one said a word against them tho
İf you like it participate in the thread,if you dont like it,then dont
İ believe if Mickan didnt care about TLC and if she wasnt sad that she is leaving,she wouldnt have posted such a thread
İm really sorry for the reaction she's received,as if you've just opened the door and said...LEAVE !
Maybe if her counter was a bit higher she would have been more important ,and got a thread by her name also ?!
Shaking head !
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 12:55 pm |
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Quoting CANLI: İm sorry that Mickan is leaving.
As it was very clear she made this thread no to announce her departure but to state the reasons for her leaving which are very much concern TC
But what im very sorry about is how people treated her and made fun of her for that !
İs freedom of speech only granted to some and forbidden to some ?!
Entitled to people when you like what they say,and when you dont,they be subject of making fun ?!
What did the girl say wrong that wasnt mention in other threads so she got that reaction?!
She said i wont vote,but i will leave !
She is one of many who did that,but at least she didnt want to leave without stating her reasons!
Then she is accused that she doesnt post much,so its not important if she leavs or not ?!
What if she doesnt ?!!!
That is making her less member in TLC ?
İ really dont believe you people !
Why dont you find it a sign of how TLC is more stronger site that many people read and use even they dont post ' suppose they are not talanted ,or they are not socialy,suppose anything,is this a reason they shouldnt have an opinion in what is going in TLC,or is this making them less important memebrs?!
To me,if im admin,members like Mickan is another sign of my success,i mean my site is drawing people attention even they dont like to join in any debat ''which is THEİR RİGHT to choose to do or not''
İf she want to tell her reasons before she leaves,its her right also
God know we have many strange threads at off the topics and no one said a word against them tho
İf you like it participate in the thread,if you dont like it,then dont
İ believe if Mickan didnt care about TLC and if she wasnt sad that she is leaving,she wouldnt have posted such a thread
İm really sorry for the reaction she's received,as if you've just opened the door and said...LEAVE !
Maybe if her counter was a bit higher she would have been more important ,and got a thread by her name also ?!
Shaking head !
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As ever Canli, you talk a great deal of sense. Thank you.
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 02:47 pm |
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The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.
You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 03:03 pm |
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Quoting Daydreamer: The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.
You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw |
Daydreamer,she was a fresh member,and maybe has joint TLC in those past monthes
İm not a new member as you may know,and my counter is high also 
But at those monthes i hardly post anything also,i got disapponted and didnt participate either,it was like,ok believe what you want,say what you want,it wont harm me a bit nor harm my religion !
But of course i was upset also .
But i am old enough in this site to know it wasnt like this,and i wanted it to be like it was and even better.
But she probably wasnt arround on those days,so all what she got is being upset,so why would she post anything then ?!
But no,it wasnt my point if people care that she post or not,her original post was she is leaving
So actually,yes,i would like people NOT to open the door for her,even she doesnt post any !
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 03:08 pm |
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Quoting Daydreamer: The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.
You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw |
Hey there Daydreamer - I think the point here is possibly that there are many members who don't post yet read everything. They too are important of course, and they too can get offended so it is a shame when they leave. I don't feel you have to be a poster to make a point. Hey daydreamer I love the way you use yaaaaaw, it is one of my favorite attributes to Turkish argo.... yaaaaw.
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 04:20 pm |
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There have been references to "groups", "sides" and now a "club".
It's a shame that TC is being viewed in this way.
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22 Mar 2008 Sat 04:38 pm |
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Quoting Daydreamer: The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.
You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw |
Merhaba Daydreamer
I answer your question
I never post anything Yes, this does not mean I do not have the right to send at all. I always read the posts here I got offended many times, the reason I never talked is being peaceful and respectful, the second reason is I do not like to create battlefields here, even when I wrote this post I thought that you all read it and no word after it, I did not look for making you all talk and start a star wars here as you always do, I noticed that each new thread started a word then became a war, I am against wars for that I do not give myself the right to start one, I think enough wars in this world.
If you ask again why did not I post all the time, this is another reason, the issues are too much to talk about, I do not want to discuss them here, I am writing three novels and many texts I have many pages to reach all those issues in peaceful and soft way, as I said enough wars in this world.
PS: I beg you all members, stop fighting please, stop this childish war, we are mature enough.
Wish you the best All
Selam
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I have been here for about one year, and I have got more than 300 posts, most of which are done for translating love messages ( lol ) and others. But what? Nobody ever remembers me!!! 
I feel so lonely here like i am invisible!!! I will say im leaving and maybe i can get some attention! 
see interesting new people are leaving