Quoting çorba:

I won´t talk about the people who are offending your religion and making you leave....they DON´T deserve my words.
I won´t waste my time talking about them ...making them more popular here...it is just not worthy.

Quoting Mickan:

Chantal: the first one I met on TLC chatroom, Chantal I know you don’t like me, I just want to say that every word I told you is true, I was not joking (except the compliments of course), thank you because you were funny

Quoting Mickan:

thehandsom (though disrespecting me): thank you for the help

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting geniuda:

Quoting thehandsom: Quoting Mickan: thehandsom (though disrespecting me): thank you for the help No hard feelings Mickan

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Please, everyone. Let us give them a chance. If, in 2 weeks time, you still feel upset then go. But until then, stay.

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Maybe I should start a thread saying "I am staying"?

Quoting Mickan:

Selamun Aleykum

I wish everyone here is fine.

I never decided to leave TLC but according to some last events, I am leaving just because of being offended many times, people here are insulting my God: Allah, and my beloved Muhammad (s.a.v) and all my religion, the reason I did not say anything is that I am a peaceful one, and if I will say anything it would not be in a peaceful way (in a hard way I mean) because the ones who are insulting my religion know it and keep talking about it in a rude way, I ask all those people to know my religion well, try to read the whole story of the prophet Muhammad (s.a.v) then try to respect him as he respected you, anyway everyone here is a mature I will not teach you how to respect others.

So keeping it peacefully I closed my eyes in front of each very word I had read, but at the same time I felt too offended, for that I am leaving.

I would like to say that my best friend in TLC is a non-muslim lady, this means I am not against other people’s beliefs, but I wish that everyone respects my religion as I respect their beliefs and their ways of thinking.

But before leaving I have some words to the members I met here

Ladies first:

Chantal: the first one I met on TLC chatroom, Chantal I know you don’t like me, I just want to say that every word I told you is true, I was not joking (except the compliments of course), thank you because you were funny sometimes with me.
Farukdemirhan: my sister and best sister also, thank you because of trusting me on your deep thoughts, thank you of trusting me on what you never said to anyone.
Çorba: my best friend here, she knows what I say about her so no need to say.
Lady in red: thank you for the BYKI program, it helped a lot in memorizing and pronouncing Turkish words, I would like to tell you that I really love many cities in this world, please do not wonder.
Stephanieobrien: thank you, I still love your kids especially the girl.
Treis4eva: thank you so much for being kind in wishing me happiness, I wish you happiness in your life, my congratulations for a happy wedding insha Allah.
Joanne1980: thank you so much, I wish you an easy birth, please send me the pictures of the baby, I am sure she will be too cute and beautiful, may Allah bless her.
Valencia01: thank you for the joke, I wish that you send me more Russian jokes.
Selin21: my active teacher, thank you for the generous explanations.
Gilly: I know you do not like me but thank you anyway of the Merhaba you told me each time I come.
Ninja: thank you and sorry for one day story.
Azade.
Roswitha.
Nisreen
and Gülmira my sister, Tayfur my sis as well.
PS: please do not mention the order because it is just according to the time of meeting them.
I have a special word to Inankur: I never met or talked to you Inankur, I just read your post when you were complaining from your mother in law, I just want to say: that mother in law is the mother of the husband that you love, she gave you a precious gift so please give her a little supporting, she is leaving anyway, this is just an advice.

Well and the gentlemen:
Caliptrix, Irresistible, Umut_Umut, Adonis, yilgun_7 thehandsom (though disrespecting me): thank you for the help you gave me here in TLC.

I wish to all TLC owners and members a happy time and a successful life.

Selamun Aleykum

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Quoting elham: Quoting Lapinkulta: Leaving TC is not solution,if it was, I would leave here soon...we should accept that this web site has changed so much recently and went to different way...anyways Im here and staying coz many people will be happy if I leaveI wont make them happy HUGE KISSES TO ALL MEMBERS

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Maybe I should start a thread saying 'I am staying'?

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hi

Sorry you ae going.

But I am tired of "I am leaving" announcements and "please dont leave" polls.

We complained.
Admin and Catwoman listened.
They made changes.

Please, everyone. Let us give them a chance. If, in 2 weeks time, you still feel upset then go. But until then, stay.

If you cant find it in your heart to do this, then please tiptoe away quietly.

Maybe I should start a thread saying "I am staying"?

Quoting Daydreamer:

I'm loving this thread - people who don't bother to post in the forum make a fuss about their leaving the site. What kind of reactions did they expect...hmm...BYE? Whoever you are, whatever you believe in, what's the point of this drama? Are we getting golden watches on leaving? Why wasn't I informed?!

People beg others not to leave and criticise others for not leaving. What is that? primary school? You do as the rest of the gang does?

come on, let's have a competition for most dramatic farewell!

Quoting Daydreamer:

Are we getting golden watches on leaving? Why wasn't I informed?!

Quoting Chantal:

Quoting MarioninTurkey:

Hi

Sorry you ae going.

But I am tired of "I am leaving" announcements and "please dont leave" polls.

We complained.
Admin and Catwoman listened.
They made changes.

Please, everyone. Let us give them a chance. If, in 2 weeks time, you still feel upset then go. But until then, stay.

If you cant find it in your heart to do this, then please tiptoe away quietly.

Maybe I should start a thread saying "I am staying"?

Quoting Mickan:

Selamun Aleykum
I did not post this thread to inform you about my leaving, I could leave in silence as many others did, I posted it to talk about the offending I got here and the reasons of my silence towards it, anyway you can say anything about it, I do not care, I did not post it to make jokes on it, but as I see most of you have a great sence of humor.
PS: I sent to Admin asking him to delete my account but I wonder why no action till now
Have a nice day
Selam Aleykum

Quoting Mickan:

Selamun Aleykum
I did not post this thread to inform you about my leaving, I could leave in silence as many others did, I posted it to talk about the offending I got here and the reasons of my silence towards it, anyway you can say anything about it, I do not care, I did not post it to make jokes on it, but as I see most of you have a great sence of humor.
PS: I sent to Admin asking him to delete my account but I wonder why no action till now
Have a nice day
Selam Aleykum

Quoting Mickan:

Well I think I should have added that I can not post as I wish according to the new rules, even to old ones
And as long as I can not talk as a "free thinker" why should I stay here???
I am not asking people here to be sad for my leaving I am not a shining star, at the same time I don not want anyone to criticize me about this leaving because I am a free thinker.
Wish you the best
I just wish to see my account deleted in the nearest time

Quoting vineyards:

Quoting Mickan:

Selamun Aleykum
I did not post this thread to inform you about my leaving,

Quoting Mickan:

Quoting incişka:

WOW! so this is how it goes.. u post that u r leaving and u get 29 replies!! u become known at once!! maybe I should do that too.. I have been here for about one year, and I have got more than 300 posts, most of which are done for translating love messages ( lol ) and others. But what? Nobody ever remembers me!!! I feel so lonely here like i am invisible!!! I will say im leaving and maybe i can get some attention!

Quoting girleegirl:

You haven't gone un-noticed but...didn't daydreamer mention something about a most dramatic farewell contest? Maybe you could be one of the first contestants!! But don't REALLY leave.

Quoting incişka:

Quoting incişka:

Ohh no!! I forgot about the contest!! If I knew that would try to sound more dramatic!

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting lady in red:

Come on GG!! We both know that no-one here now could ever beat a robyn or kai farewell for dramatic content!!!

Quoting karpusqueen:

I think people have missed the point of Mickan's original thread.

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting karpusqueen:

Do we have to act the way some members have acted on this thread? Then some people wonder why some members don't want to post opinions in public.

Quoting karpusqueen:

Perhaps I did GG perhaps I did. I stated my opinion that's all, just like anyone can and does.

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting CANLI:

İm sorry that Mickan is leaving.
As it was very clear she made this thread no to announce her departure but to state the reasons for her leaving which are very much concern TC

But what im very sorry about is how people treated her and made fun of her for that !

İs freedom of speech only granted to some and forbidden to some ?!
Entitled to people when you like what they say,and when you dont,they be subject of making fun ?!

What did the girl say wrong that wasnt mention in other threads so she got that reaction?!
She said i wont vote,but i will leave !
She is one of many who did that,but at least she didnt want to leave without stating her reasons!

Then she is accused that she doesnt post much,so its not important if she leavs or not ?!
What if she doesnt ?!!!
That is making her less member in TLC ?

İ really dont believe you people !

Why dont you find it a sign of how TLC is more stronger site that many people read and use even they dont post ' suppose they are not talanted ,or they are not socialy,suppose anything,is this a reason they shouldnt have an opinion in what is going in TLC,or is this making them less important memebrs?!

To me,if im admin,members like Mickan is another sign of my success,i mean my site is drawing people attention even they dont like to join in any debat ''which is THEİR RİGHT to choose to do or not''

İf she want to tell her reasons before she leaves,its her right also
God know we have many strange threads at off the topics and no one said a word against them tho
İf you like it participate in the thread,if you dont like it,then dont

İ believe if Mickan didnt care about TLC and if she wasnt sad that she is leaving,she wouldnt have posted such a thread
İm really sorry for the reaction she's received,as if you've just opened the door and said...LEAVE !

Maybe if her counter was a bit higher she would have been more important ,and got a thread by her name also ?!

Shaking head !

Quoting Daydreamer:

The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.

You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw

Quoting Daydreamer:

The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.

You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw

Quoting Daydreamer:

The thing is, her post made me laugh. A person who never posted, who never took sides or voiced her opinion suddenly breaks the silence and cries 'I'm leaving because I am a free thinker and this site rules have not allowed me to speak my mind'. Isn't the Islamic club the ones who argued that it is the free thinkers that are welcome here rather than the others? Now you got me all confused.

You'd like people to care about the fact that a person who never posted will not post? Anlamıyorum yaaw

Quoting KeithL:

It has been said over and over. Debating over the condition of the site is getting tiresome. But all who questioned the atmosphere of the site, please note than when we see educational contributors quitting the site and removing their lessons, this is the most damning evidence of all.
This site was designed to help teach turkish to english speakers. Losing these types of resources is just sad...

Quoting karpusqueen:

I think people have missed the point of Mickan's original thread.

I don't think Mickan is attention seeking in any way.