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Looking for a turkish husband
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29 Sep 2009 Tue 07:49 pm |
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My friend didnt meet his wife until 2 weeks before their wedding and they are happily married Are they or just they appear in other people eyes,which makes a big difference.Another difference is your life goal,if it is to get married to anyone just relying on your family arrangements,a thing unthinkable in my culture,you can call yourself lucky.Or if you grow up in the society with emphasis on being obedient wife ,devoted to your duties and your goals do not conflict with family choices as well,your submission seems sth inborn and justified.Sorry,I am thinking here like a typical westernerwith a baby boy, I think there is hope for every situation in life. I share the same opinionAnd sometimes 2 people helping each other out is not always a bad thing....Does helping each other mean immediately that these 2 have to be married?
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29 Sep 2009 Tue 09:25 pm |
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The only thing I can come up with is "to each it´s own"....
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29 Sep 2009 Tue 10:03 pm |
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Im desperate to find a turkish husband ( Istanbul - European part ) to get citizanship only (no other obligations)
Send your resume, and references......it may work for you too..
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29 Sep 2009 Tue 10:07 pm |
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Oh çok teþekkürler 
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 02:23 am |
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I am an Arab girl 24 years old . I have finished university and I am working now .
To be honest with you I am so tired from the Arab men . They have a lot of disadvantages . This is why I have been thinking to move to Turkey to find a job and a husband .
I need your help
I am so desperate
Arab girl? What kind of Arab? As I understand, there is a great deal of diversity in the Arab world. For instance are you from Saudi, Yemen, Palestine, Oman, Dubai, Lebanon.....or....Tunisia.......or? Turkey also has a great deal of diversity.
Most men do not find desperation appealing. In fact most people run away from anyone who displays desperation.
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 04:31 am |
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Come on everyone. This girl has obviously had a bad experience. An experience so traumatic that she deemed it necessary to post her desperate plea before TURKISHCLASS. This woman has been raised in such a way that she feels that if she does not get a husband soon her life will be meaningless. I will not impose my worldview on another human being who has been raised in such a way that compels her to make this plea.
Yes the part about yelling "I am desperate" as she gets off the plane was very funny, but all jokes aside this woman is going through heartwrenching pain....
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 05:04 am |
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Come on everyone. Is this invitation to dance?This girl has obviously had a bad experience. An experience so traumatic that she deemed it necessary to post her desperate plea before TURKISHCLASS. ,are you her lawyer or what>who sane comes to TLC with I need a man cry???? who cares she had bad experience or not-did not life teach her to open to any critical posts she gets ,as it was her choice to bring her desires to Tc lightT.Think if a woman thinks a man is all for her despite education and she is desperate to carry a banner" I need a Turkish husband"I am desperate-damn!!! it means some women are ready to sink ,ready to commit suicide in terms of not being alive for one thing-a husband desire.isn´t it mad?crazy?funny?his woman has been raised in such a way that she feels that if she does not get a husband soon her life will be meaningless. THIS woman needs a bit of dignity,even if her educators forgot what does it mean I will not impose my worldview on another human being who has been raised in such a way that compels her to make this plea.
Yes the part about yelling "I am desperate only sex lacking or sex missing woman can say this openly" as she gets off the plane SHE needs a banner.....wanna a husband now!!!was very funny, but all jokes aside this woman is going through heartwrenching pain.... Well you get what you expect,even subconsciously
Ps
believe me or not but any of evil central or western Europe female would not come with such a post
Edited (9/30/2009) by birdy
[birdy needs to stop thinking in turkish!!!]
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 06:31 am |
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I have a Turkish Husband that you can HAVE!!! Only problem is that he is in America - but I´m willing to ship him back.
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 06:49 am |
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Haha, habibti, I´ve also had some difficulties with Arab men. (Palestinians are the worst   But to tell you the truth - dating both Arab and Turkissh men, there is not that much of a difference. Sure Arab men are controlling, they like to yell at you and call all types of bad names, and flirt with every girl in sight but just because the man is turkish, it doesn´t mean he won´t do the same. Because they do the same. Even American men do it. No matter what nationality, Men = men. And in the end - they almost always break your heart. Unfortunately. 
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 08:15 am |
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It is fine to disagree with me or even ridicule my sentiments however it is Universal Law not to impose cultural/societal norms observed by one onto another. I too find the whole thing very strange but the fact remains that this woman was raised and indoctrinated into a culture that presumably emphasizes the importance of marriage and (implicitly) devalues women who are without a husband. Her education was not flawed ;no more flawed than any other institution around this world that subconsciously imposes propanganist ideology that would serve the mission of each given institution.( e.g. southern schools in the US that taught young pupils that slavery was not a sin and African slaves were meant to be in bondage for the betterment of their white superiors) Of course her education will be in step with the values of her countrymen. Everyone has their chance/opportunity for a mental breakdown, a-ha moment, or personal epiphany however in this case the venue for the young lady´s was Turkishclasss.
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30 Sep 2009 Wed 09:42 am |
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Come on everyone. This girl has obviously had a bad experience. An experience so traumatic that she deemed it necessary to post her desperate plea before TURKISHCLASS. This woman has been raised in such a way that she feels that if she does not get a husband soon her life will be meaningless. I will not impose my worldview on another human being who has been raised in such a way that compels her to make this plea.
Yes the part about yelling "I am desperate" as she gets off the plane was very funny, but all jokes aside this woman is going through heartwrenching pain....
"Bad experiences" happen because girls rarely prepare their own "user´s manuals" and get them printed along with their resumes and references. Why blame men, in their total naive ignorance?
Come on girls ! Get organized ! 
Edited (9/30/2009) by AlphaF
Edited (9/30/2009) by AlphaF
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