It irritates me so much. I have seen people who have a mixed relationship, a Turkish boy with a Dutch girl, who are REALLY in love and REALLY want to share their life together. It is sooo hard for them to be together.

On the other hand, I´ve also seen boys who have permanent visa´s for Holland show eachother messages of different older ladies who would all send them money in the summer, and in the winter they would go to Holland and live of the money of one of them, sometimes taking a short "holiday" to see their families...well, not really...to see their other "ladies"...

The first group of honest guys have to suffer because of the other group.

Not just Turkish though Yilgun, plenty of other nationalities too!  We are a small country filling up fast!!!