in turkiye, women can get every position they want...not just secretaries or maids...

goner, you are such a charmer

to be boss or bossy,needs enough skilfulland who has this skilfull more,she/he has to be boss

People, you are losing focus from the important things, although I can see why discussing who's the boss in bed might be an exciting topic ... however, I hope you're not creating the "boss-slave" situation again!

I notice that some people are discussing whether it's ok to wear scarf or whether it's not ok to wear bikini. As some people pointed out, what you wear is your personal decision. If I want, I will wrap myself head to toe, or I will wear nothing - as long as this is my own decision, and not a result of pressure from society or family to conform to other people's values. What I wear is my decision and nobody has the right to judge me for that.

What we were trying to talk about is the double standards of teh society, where men are allowed more then women, where men are paid more then women for the same kind of job, where men can abuse their wifes without punishment, where women get no support from their families and society when they are abused, where men can have sex freely, but women are killed by their own families for premarital sex, where girls are not allowed to go to school, where women are treated as sex objects and not respected for what they represent. We want to talk about the situation of thousands of women who are killed for extra-marital sex whereas when men do the same things, they are praised for it! We want to talk about the situation of women and girls like that Iranian girl you read the story of! (If you haven't read yet, here it is: http://save.nazanin.googlepages.com/home - copy and paste this link to a new window, clicking on it doesn't work for some reason). This is the real problem!

This is not about wearing scarf or make-ups, this is about WHY we do it! Is it because we choose to be extremely modest, or is it because WE HAVE TO BE? Or is it because the men won't respect us if we are strong, intelligent and attractive - because we might pose a risk to them, and they would have to constantly make effort to keep us with them. So isn't it much easier to just make the women housewifes, let them get fat, unattractive, lower their self-esteem and have them uneducated and we can be sure that they will have to stay at home and please the men, while the men themselves in the meantime don't respect, but enjoy other women freely.

i think to make it generalize for a country,religion or race not much justice,thats the one of most important problem of all countries.There r many bad behaviored men on all over world,and things will be easier and ok when we men understand that life is nothing without women and when women be aware of that men never rivals of their ,how to live hard by one hand thats the same to live unequality of women&men