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20.       sophie
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 11:59 am

Quoting yusuf :

i will say , any man could agree that another man share him in any thing exept his (girl) ,
and can feel that from love words for example, when some one say to his girl friend (u r mine) ,( u r for me only), and i notie this more in turk more than any other nation, and if u think more , u will find that islam tried to firm this feeling by the hair cover......
so man with his girl wearing hair vr of ouse feel that his girl is for him only ,and that is realy a great feeling .....



Yusuf dear,

When will you understand that no matter if you cover a woman's head or if you tie her up in the basement, she will always find a way to do what she wants?

21.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:12 pm

Quoting sophie
Yusuf dear,

When will you understand that no matter if you cover a woman's head or if you tie her up in the basement, she will always find a way to do what she wants?
[/QUOTE:


of Course she Can do what she want ,what iwant to say is that hejab is mean to spead good behavor in soCiaty,

22.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:27 pm

what i want to say is that many friends here understand the hejab as it like jale orpreson in whih islam put woman
but if we think in it we will find that its better for woman to wear hejab evn if she is not muslum..

this is athough Came to my mind about hejab:

hejab give the ChanCe to mind to speak and to the beauty of soul to appear wih is more better than the beuty of shape...
for exapmle if a guy see girl in street outing make up and dont wear hejab her shape may atraCt him (so he lovd the shape) he didnt know her soul and after marrge he will realize that she was bad
but if he see a Covered girl he will see it normal, soin order to know her he had to talk with her so he now is able to realise the inner beauty and the beuaty of soul...

this was the though, and every one if he think he will know how many things(not hejab only) apper from the first view as its bad and when he think in it Carfully he Could realize how its good..

23.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:31 pm

But this clearly shows that in your point of view, the men on the streets judge the women and not the women looking at the men. They (the men) are un-covered so their shape is perfectly in view for the women. If wearing a hijab is to prevent jealousy and to show the inner-beauty above the outer-beauty, then why are only the women covered and not the men?

24.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:35 pm

Quoting Deli_kizin:

But this clearly shows that in your point of view, the men on the streets judge the women and not the women looking at the men. They are un-covered so their shape is perfectly in view for the women. If wearing a hijab is to prevent jealousy and to show the inner-beauty above the outer-beauty, then why are only the women covered and not the men?




dear deli_kizin
didnt u know that only one woman Could afeCCt 1000 man , but 1000 man Cant afeCt only one woman !!!!!!

25.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:37 pm

Quoting yusuf :


dear deli_kizin
didnt u know that only one woman Could afeCCt 1000 man , but 1000 man Cant afeCt only one woman !!!!!!



Then I wonder how all the girls on this website fell in love


But if I understand you right, then the hijab is not to protect from jealousy and show inner-beauty, but is just a cover up for the weakness of the male-kind.

26.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:42 pm

Quoting Deli_kizin:





Then I wonder how all the girls on this website fell in love


But if I understand you right, then the hijab is not to protect from jealousy and show inner-beauty, but is just a cover up for the weakness of the male-kind.


i didnt mean that girls r not afeCted ,,,nooo
both men and women has effeCt on eah others
but what i mean is that the effeCt of girls on men is more

27.       Deli_kizin
6376 posts
 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:44 pm

Quoting yusuf :

i didnt mean that girls r not afeCted ,,,nooo
both men and women has effeCt on eah others
but what i mean is that the effeCt of girls on men is more



Well I kinda wonder about that There are thousands of love-stories in which indeed the men go through fire for the women.. but aren't these stories created by women who were actually dreaming of the existence of such men

28.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:50 pm

dear friends last thing i want say is that God who Creat us, who proteCt us, who like us , who reat the nature for us and to make us happy , this god is who order the girls to wear hejab and god want happenis for girls so we have to like our God and do thigs he order us to do so he like us
and giv us money food and avoid us earthquakes and other bad things and to avoid his anger ..
thats all

29.       yusuf :)
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 15 Jun 2006 Thu 12:56 pm

Quoting yusuf :

protet its proteCt
sorry i apologize my key bord dont write letter C
i write it by oping and pasting)


sorrry it Copying not opying

30.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 16 Jun 2006 Fri 10:35 pm

All Yusuf says about "hijab" and covering women is total crap. Modesty is a requirement for Muslim women; but whether the Kuran actually orders Muslim women to hide their hair is a very controversial subject. Many respectable Moslem scholars seem to think there is no such requirement.

In Yusuf's country you can legally marry a 14 year old girl (even younger, if you so desire)for a predetermined period -if you are ready to pay the price. Interpretation of the Kuran order that a sex partner is forbidden, unless there is bond of marriage between the participants is so crookedly and conveniently interpreted, that nobody seems to care what happends to the girl when the contract is over. I would have very little respect for such views of Islam and Kuran.

Keep girls covered, keep them in the dark and use them as your male vanity directs. This is not Islam.

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