pssst! mom4maddi, i´ll type softly so the others don´t hear...  Don´t worry, it´s like a big disfonctional family here, takes a little getting use too but when you figure everyone out you´ll have fun and enjoy it here, welcome to TC 

thank you. i appreciate the support and explanation. i will find my way i guess

Don´t worry dear, during time you gonna find your way here 

....and as we say in Greece   ´´The first 100 years are difficult after that you get used to it´´ !!!

thanks for proverb of Greeks .....yes I will find my way, I always do!