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getting married in turkey
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 09:35 am |
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Quoting yilgun-7: For KELEBEK =
"... be very careful when you cause a woman cry, because God counts her tears!
A woman was created from a man's rib, not from his leg, if it had been so she would have been crushed; she wasn't created from his head either so that she won't be superior. But she was created from his chest so she would be equal;... a little beneath the arm, so that she would be protected... from the heart level so that she would be LOVED..."
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vay vay vay... vallah! yok yok yok.. woman is the neck.. anladin mi! 
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:11 pm |
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Quoting Kelebek:
Anaegma x i think ur living in the planet of denial..this is how it is..us women can control the way men behave.. we are the neck..yes we let them be the head..let them talk..and make them feel like they are controlling..but we;re the neck who turns them right, left, down , up.. i am not married..and i dont have bf..but i am not worried abt when i get married..cause i know i am the neck..and can make my husband look same direction i want him too.. |
I think this is just the denial of the facts and also this is like making fun of so many poor women. It's like saying we do not need any social right because we have them already.
Hallucination, self-deception.
it's funny I hear this crap much more from women who stay home whole day,or who have no real social life apart from making home gatherings, who have no real independence, women who are cheated on by their husbands, women whose husband come home whenever he wants, women whose husbands abuse them, beat them. I hate this sentence, and I would like to tell these women to look at themselves. Which kind of controlling is this? they're the head of the kitchen, head of the dirty laundery, head of the children caring.
How are you supposed to make your husband look at the direction you want, when he wants to look at his own direction, I mean when he feels like cheating on you.
Do not get me wrong, I do not mean to say that you're one of these, but this sentence is so superficial.
I hope you find the man you dream of, but believing that you're the neck of a man could make you marry a wrong man. I want a man who is able to look at right directions without help with his free will.
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:21 pm |
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Meltem!!! STOP writing in invisible ink! 
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:28 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x:
Meltem!!! STOP writing in invisible ink! |
hehe sorry. I had had to modify it 
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:33 pm |
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Quoting mltm: I think this is just the denial of the facts and also this is like making fun of so many poor women. It's like saying we do not need any social right because we have them already.
Hallucination, self-deception.
it's funny I hear this crap much more from women who stay home whole day,or who have no real social life apart from making home gatherings, who have no real independence, women who are cheated on by their husbands, women whose husband come home whenever he wants, women whose husbands abuse them, beat them. I hate this sentence, and I would like to tell these women to look at themselves. Which kind of controlling is this? they're the head of the kitchen, head of the dirty laundery, head of the children caring.
How are you supposed to make your husband look at the direction you want, when he wants to look at his own direction, I mean when he feels like cheating on you.
Do not get me wrong, I do not mean to say that you're one of these, but this sentence is so superficial.
I hope you find the man you dream of, but believing that you're the neck of a man could make you marry a wrong man. I want a man who is able to look at right directions without help with his free will. |
Ohhhhhhh Meltem! I agree 100%. Perfect 
(my reason for commenting so soon is because our silly posts had hidden it before you even posted!)
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:40 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x:
Ohhhhhhh Meltem! I agree 100%. Perfect |
Looking forward to your opinions too on this one
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:50 pm |
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Well, I DID post my opinions already, but didn't express them quite so well!
"Kelebek, its a shame MrX67 is married, you two would suit eachother well!
There is nothing of mutual respect for eachother in what you say. Its game playing and cannot possibily be related to loving the real person!
Its a MAN'S world Kelebek, like it or not. These type of men are condescending and patronising to women by letting them be 'ruled' by their wives in their little domestic worlds. But don't believe for a second that these kinds of men REALLY think you are in charge
Personally, I would only want a man to treat me as an equal with shared views and responsibilities, not a little domestic "boss", or "teacher" or "mother"..."
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 02:05 pm |
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Quoting mltm:
I think this is just the denial of the facts and also this is like making fun of so many poor women. It's like saying we do not need any social right because we have them already.
Hallucination, self-deception.
it's funny I hear this crap much more from women who stay home whole day,or who have no real social life apart from making home gatherings, who have no real independence, women who are cheated on by their husbands, women whose husband come home whenever he wants, women whose husbands abuse them, beat them. I hate this sentence, and I would like to tell these women to look at themselves. Which kind of controlling is this? they're the head of the kitchen, head of the dirty laundery, head of the children caring.
How are you supposed to make your husband look at the direction you want, when he wants to look at his own direction, I mean when he feels like cheating on you.
Do not get me wrong, I do not mean to say that you're one of these, but this sentence is so superficial.
I hope you find the man you dream of, but believing that you're the neck of a man could make you marry a wrong man. I want a man who is able to look at right directions without help with his free will. |
 is it mltm? cant believe my eyes! 
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 02:07 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal:
is it mltm? cant believe my eyes! |
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 02:46 pm |
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For KELEBEK =
"... be very careful when you cause a woman cry, because God counts her tears!
A woman was created from a man's rib, not from his leg, if it had been so she would have been crushed; she wasn't created from his head either so that she won't be superior. But she was created from his chest so she would be equal;... a little beneath the arm, so that she would be protected... from the heart level so that she would be LOVED..."
You say = “vay vay vay... vallah! yok yok yok.. woman is the neck.. anladin mi!â€
I reply = You are not right...“Woman is the voice of God in this planetâ€.
“ Senin güzelliğin yeter â€.
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 03:09 pm |
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Quoting yilgun-7:
A woman was created from a man's rib
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Dear yilgun-7
i saw that you wrote this in many threads here  .im writing this assuming you are muslim, Kuran does not support this belief, are you reading Torah?
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